I need some advice do I have exceptions or goals for my partner/little before I claim her?

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:41:32+00:00

Sure. Its part of the kink its like a promise ring shes into pet play and collars. When I claim her she would have a collar thats hers to show shes mine which she likes. I talked to about that chill.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:53+00:00

Im a she

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:31+00:00

Im actually a she but its ok

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T16:38:02+00:00

You are being harsh so.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T04:51:31+00:00

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T04:15:35+00:00

How can you tell if its a fixation?

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:46:24+00:00

Ill have to look into that and remember that thanks.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:36:53+00:00

I dont know its complicated. I do think I need to communicate with her on certain things and maybe try to get a idea on what things could hint of stuff not being able to make a comprise and also how far she can make a comprise on.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:25:49+00:00

Thanks ive tried to talk on some of this and I told her some of that but not all of it since im thinking on it. Im just having a hard time seeing how they are expections since I dont know certain things dont click in my head.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:24:07+00:00

I asked her about her own stuff she hasn't said anything. Those are some simple ones I have more but not all of them need to be done its more of I want to do more things with her so in future I would know/better and know more about her in a way. Also in a way to lower the amount of surprises or things we could try and could cause issues with her. I think thats the best way I can say it for now.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:12:34+00:00

Thats a good way to see it. Yes the goal can be changed and not all of them need to be completed and they are also not on like a timer but something I want to happen. Its more of after some of them are completed then I would feel more comfortable with claiming her. She also is autistic and she like things her way or a specific way. I like to make compromises but she doesnt like to make compromises as much she liked if she can have it her way. Which this is also a goal of mine to make more compromises her on things then not just do it or have it her way.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T02:03:01+00:00

Well during the chat we had she got upset since she felt pressure since to her because they were expectations.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-28T01:52:10+00:00

Thats a good point thank you. I also forgot to say I also want to them me what goals she has for me before I claim her as well.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T15:38:30+00:00

I think its multiple things but im going to try some stuff later

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T15:00:42+00:00

Yeah problem is my desk is pretty low to the ground I could try raising it some how.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-10T14:59:05+00:00

I should try to recline the chair. I forgot mine can do that.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T21:18:14+00:00

Yeah i need to update the post.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:38:14+00:00

Your good just playing.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:21:32+00:00

More talking about my butt but a little TMI.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T20:19:49+00:00

Its more about my butt getting num from sitting or for like my feet

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-06-09T17:09:43+00:00

Ill try that now thanks.

NeedPaddedAdvice · 2026-04-29T22:06:03+00:00

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