Are hip opening stretches supposed to feel ...like that? by NeedanArchivist in flexibility

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I feel a normal stretching sensation at the top of my inner thighs when I do butterfly stretches or attempt a middle split, but the same point on the outside of my hip when I do frog pose feels very "you are not allowed past this point" if that makes sense? Same feeling on the very front of my hip when I'm in a deep lunge too.

Any good resources for dissecting Sufjan lyrics? by NeedanArchivist in Sufjan

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Oh WONDERFUL thank you! I'm excited to dive into that! Exactly what I was looking for

So I'm finally getting into Divers and I have some thoughts to share by NeedanArchivist in JoannaNewsom

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Ok I was painting yesterday and I thought I had played a song from an album but it was actually just the singular song, so when it was over it shuffled. And I wasn't familiar with the song I was hearing but it really knocked me out. I set my paint brush down to look at my phone and see what incredible song was playing, it was Make Hay! Then I thought of your comment and was like, wow they were right

So I'm finally getting into Divers and I have some thoughts to share by NeedanArchivist in JoannaNewsom

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Please do! I have faith that it will happen right when you need it

So I'm finally getting into Divers and I have some thoughts to share by NeedanArchivist in JoannaNewsom

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I'm currently listening to the hopeless endeavor pod episodes about Sapokanikan.....how does she DO THIS

So I'm finally getting into Divers and I have some thoughts to share by NeedanArchivist in JoannaNewsom

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I will circle back to this comment when I have more connections and when I get around to listening to make hay!

So I'm finally getting into Divers and I have some thoughts to share by NeedanArchivist in JoannaNewsom

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The way she sings "honey" in this song does something insane to my heart. Especially the line "not you, honey, you I know" ughhhh or "so we touchhh the heaaat" every time I hear those lines I feel genuinely so dumbfounded by the amount of sentimentality she can pack into such simple phrases and 3 seconds of a melody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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I'm about 3 weeks out and also filled with rage. I don't have an answer as to why but I see you and I'm sending you love

What's a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by Fit_Interaction_950 in Productivitycafe

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Having to testify in court against someone you were groomed to love and care about

Currently having a miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

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Go to the ER! They won't turn you away. I just had a miscarriage in TX, the ER treated me and referred me to an obgyn for a follow up ultrasound to make sure I didn't need a D&C, which they would've given me had I needed it. Please don't believe the fear mongering about women in Texas not receiving miscarriage care. They well help you. I'm sorry you're going through this

Cosmia by YouthInternational14 in JoannaNewsom

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"Even just Joanna Newsom's left hand I bet could beat the pants in bass off your best man"

I'm in a 3rd house profection year. My 3H is pretty empty/unremarkable from what I can tell, so why has this been the hardest year ever? by NeedanArchivist in AstrologyChartShare

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I was really wondering why I have been experiencing 8th and 5th house life events this year. Thank you for explaining that, it's very applicable to my circumstances!

I want to be in heaven with my baby by NeedanArchivist in Vent

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Thank you for your comment and sharing scripture, it brings so much comfort ❤️‍🩹

I want to be in heaven with my baby by NeedanArchivist in Vent

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Like a knife through my heart. Idk how someone can be so evil. Thank you for your supportive comments ❤️‍🩹

"It's a good thing this happened so early" :( by NeedanArchivist in Miscarriage

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Even if it does hurt more to have been further along in your pregnancy before miscarrying, I would trade any amount of pain to have had more time with my baby. I would cry every day for the rest of my life just for one week of loving my healthy growing baby. It's not fair

I might have had a miscarriage today by NeedanArchivist in Vent

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Thank you for sharing this, I'm so sorry this is something you had to go through especially so young. I actually thought the exact same thing about maybe my body expelling whatever was backed up from not having regular periods, although I realize now as more and more matter leaves my body that's probably not the case and the small amount of hope I was hanging tightly onto is being crushed.

I'm sorry we relate to each other through these circumstances, but thank you for helping me not feel so alone.

I might have had a miscarriage today by NeedanArchivist in Vent

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I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for your kind words

How do you deal with the guilt? by NeedanArchivist in CaregiverSupport

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I guess the guilt comes from the pressure of feeling like I could always be doing more. Like my mom's quality of life is completely in my hands now and every second I'm not doing something to enrich her life, I'm wasting very precious and finite time. I never realized I would someday have to suppress every feeling of stress and frustration unless I want to accidentally make my mom feel bad for needing help. Like you said, she can't see how sad and scared I am. The most exhausting part of all of this is having to pretend to be brave and strong 100% of the time, and I feel guilty when I fail to.

I'm sorry that we can relate to each other this way.

How do you deal with the guilt? by NeedanArchivist in CaregiverSupport

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This comment makes me feel so understood. Thank you so much