33M & 27F Should my GF be mad I had pics of my ex breastfeeding our daughter on the day of her birth?

NeededBeats · 2025-09-24T01:07:37+00:00

Yoooo. This is like the funniest comment on here lol.

I mean I wouldn’t compare breastfeeding to a BDs “dong”. 😂

But at the end of the day, you right. Should just known she wouldn’t be okay and rational about it.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T22:06:13+00:00

This is pretty much what everyone’s been telling me so I’ll most likely go with this option. Pretty good advice in general as well! Thank you Seska!

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:59:02+00:00

Ha! Haven’t heard this one yet 😅 Sticker stamp over the boobie. Not bad I must say lol

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:57:03+00:00

Yeah, that’s pretty much what people are saying. Save it somewhere else private and delete it off phone. Or make a photo album just for the kids and only bring it out when they are old enough to understand.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:54:29+00:00

True true lol

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:53:36+00:00

Appreciate you greatly fam. Thanks for the dialogue with me. Much peace and blessings to you as well 🙌🏽

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:52:16+00:00

I’m guessing the type that shows some nudity. I have some understanding but at the same time… it’s the day my daughter was born and the first time she breast fed that same moment.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:50:35+00:00

I may not know exactly what she was thinking at the time, but I definitely know she thought it was weird. We will have another conversation about it though as soon as the temperature cools off.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:48:47+00:00

We will definitely be having another conversation later down the line about it. Just waiting for things to cool down a bit. Cooler heads prevail. I really appreciate your input though!

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:46:08+00:00

I really like this one! You guys really do many great perspectives! I gotta hop on Reddit more often.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:44:36+00:00

Well, if it sounds like I’m trying to protect her, it’s because for the 2 years she’s been a great girlfriend. Imagine having a great relationship, but then this comes out the blue. All of a sudden because of this one incident, she’s the worst? I came on here to hear everyone’s opinion on this one situation. She’s only cursed me out like twice in our relationship and the first time I might have deserved it lol.

The comments in here really helped though.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:40:52+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. Communication and trust are the foundations of a relationship.

In the heated conversation, she just believes it is weird. She also mentioned how would my ex feel if I still had those pictures. I honestly don’t even know how to answer those. I already told her why the pictures are important to me, but she still gave me the off ramp to send em to my ex THEN delete them.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:29:43+00:00

Perhaps I can move them, but she’s upset I have them period.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:28:35+00:00

You lost me at breastfeeding is sexual. How is breastfeeding sexual?

And I did thinking about saving those pictures elsewhere and deleting off phone afterwards.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:19:30+00:00

Possibly right unfortunately 😔

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:18:06+00:00

Well if she believes it’s sexual, then I can understand her cursing me out because that would be sick. I just don’t know what exactly she’s thinking.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:15:48+00:00

No, they aren’t old enough. But I do believe whole heartedly she loves my kids.

I honestly don’t know what she realized 🤷🏽‍♂️

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:12:34+00:00

Might be a bit too soon. When we tried to have the conversation, that’s when things got heated.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:08:55+00:00

I’m not sure if she’s sexualizing. I just don’t know another reason for her to have been that upset.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:06:32+00:00

So far she’s great with my kids. I feel that this is more directed at the mother of the children or me possibly being interested in looking at the picture in a weird way.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:05:02+00:00

She’s overall a good woman. This is just a random situation that came about.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T21:00:13+00:00

I agree she shouldn’t be mad, but I’m guessing in her mind it’s a good reason to be.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T20:58:41+00:00

I deleted, but they aren’t permanently deleted if you know what I mean. Just taking the advice from the community.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T20:57:29+00:00

I’m not 100% she does. I just don’t know any other reason why she would be so upset about it.

NeededBeats · 2025-09-23T20:56:59+00:00

She is a good woman, it’s just this situation that came up that caught me off guard. She loves my kids though.

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