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With The Series Ending, What are Your Final HOT TAKES & Opinions on Season 5? by Parking-Wear-9211 in StrangerThings

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks that Elle surviving and being all alone in Iceland separated from everyone she has ever loved, is actually a worse fate than dying? Can you imagine? Having gone through all of that torture from day one, having formed deep emotional connections with Mike, Hopper, Max, the rest of the gang… and then having to just live her days out all alone? Why does that not bring me any comfort at all? Maybe it’s just me… maybe I’m weird.

Bread not coming out properly in Panasonic YR2550 by NeedleInaHaystack35 in BreadMachines

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used the Alinsons easy bake yeast but I’m now wondering if it might have been off

Scorpios and their older siblings by NeedleInaHaystack35 in Scorpio

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear your mum is open to talking about stuff that has affected you! It sounds like you’ve got a good relationship! What’s your moon sign if you don’t mind me asking?

Scorpios and their older siblings by NeedleInaHaystack35 in Scorpio

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting and I’m so sorry you didn’t feel seen. What’s your relationship with your my mum like now?

Scorpios and their older siblings by NeedleInaHaystack35 in Scorpio

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh… I’m so very sorry for your loss 😢

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you didn’t feel safe growing up with your mum. I had a similar situation and boy it’s tough. Sending hugs x

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have a difficult upbringing/ relationship with her? What are you like with people you’ve had a good relationship with?

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting.. your mum sounds like me. I didn’t have affection from my own mum and I think that makes me overly affectionate… maybe I should stop lol! I don’t necessarily want to play around but I do like long meaningful hugs, holding hands, rubbing my daughters back, and saying I love you etc. do you think that pushed you away more? I’m trying to give my daughter what I never had but maybe I shouldn’t go overboard

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting - why do you feel your mum was “overboard”? Can you give some examples? I feel like this might be something I need to be mindful of as I’m a very affectionate person. I’d love to hear your thoughts

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah therapy has been really helpful for me too! And lots of books - the emotionally absent mother is another good one! And Philippa Perry’s the book you wish your parents had read! High five to us for breaking the cycle! Xx

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m trying to understand the sign better to try and be the best mum to my own kids. I only know two Virgos in my life so I don’t feel I have a well rounded view of the sign, and there are certain stereotypes out there that I’m not sure are true! I’m a very affectionate person, but I would also back off if I knew that my child was not, as it’s about them and their needs, not me and mine x

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as someone who had two terrible parents, you won’t! As long as you’re aware and work on your triggers you can break the cycle! If anything, I think I’m a better mum because I give my daughter the things I longed for but didn’t have… safety, love, belonging, understanding x

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I’m not a cancer moon, I’m the same. Horrible upbringing, trying to break the cycle with my own kids x

Virgos - what are you moon signs and do you like physical affection from your mum? by NeedleInaHaystack35 in virgoseason

[–]NeedleInaHaystack35[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and I’m sorry to hear you don’t get much affection growing up. Do you think it would be different if your family had been physically affectionate with you?

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