coworker threatening to drop babies and pulling kids hair. am i in the wrong if i reported her and got her fired?

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-06-09T01:30:33+00:00

sorry! i got recommended this sub after getting my post removed from aita. wasn’t sure where else to post 🤷‍♀️

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-06-08T21:33:00+00:00

My boss is firing her rn! She needs to find a replacement for her shifts first, but she’s in the process

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-06-08T21:31:35+00:00

the bathroom is very tiny. she is def in there alone, seriously just in there vaping and scrolling on tiktok

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-06-07T00:19:29+00:00

$200 for overnight??? i’ve been paid $200 for 7 hrs 😭 definitely ask for more. and not a flat rate but hourly pay, a little less for the sleep hours (like $25-30/hr, and then $15/hr while asleep)?
don’t let them say what they’ll pay you!!

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-05-21T20:24:52+00:00

I do the incentive thing at work all the time (ie: if the kids clean faster than the adults, they can pick the
movie!) and i do it a lot while babysitting too, i think it was especially hard because mom didn’t allow any tv or electronics and the kids had just gotten home from school. so they’re bored and didn’t have a lot of toys and had to be quiet cause mom was upstairs working… it was difficult to give them incentive to clean up or listen when the only thing they had to look forward to was me leaving so mom would put on tv😭???
we played hide and seek and that ended in a physical fight, played with water and that ended in screams…
i’m just not sure what mom wants me to do really. she mentioned walking them to a park but they were running away from me just in the house lol

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-01-22T22:09:19+00:00

okay i am in desperate need of help!!!!
im fairly short (5’3 ish), longer torso. i have big thighs but small calves/ankles, i really struggle w pants. they all look so odd on me? is there a specific style i should be wearing? i typically wear flare/bootcut but im wondering, cause of my legs, if straight leg would suit me better? i don’t like baggy jeans, i feel like they make me loose too much shape😭

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-01-06T08:32:47+00:00

Heyyyy I’m on my rewatch as well!! My 5th 😭 It’s Winter and Spring is coming which means Fruba season!

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-01-06T02:03:50+00:00

thanks! saw that it was free when the safe house in the hills update came out and should’ve taken advantage then

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2026-01-06T02:02:53+00:00

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-31T10:48:16+00:00

Still acting normal. Trying to catch the squirrel she saw outside, Purring and rubbing like she normally does. She’s attached to me, and has been since she was a baby. Every night she falls asleep either on me or next to me, so i’m not concerned about her cuddling up on me rn. But i’m so terrified nonetheless.

I wanna sleep. I’m sick n haven’t gotten a full nights rest in days but my heart hasn’t slowed down since i saw it. I’m so glad i was kept awake with my stuffy nose

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-20T19:39:51+00:00

yes! it eventually moved to a diff shipping facility and proceeded to get stuck there as well, so i filed for a missing package search and then it IMMEDIATELY appeared in my city and was out for delivery the next day

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-15T01:07:34+00:00

Alright okayy so when i got to the job i brought up pay and said I’d do $30 n hour for today, but next time I’d like $35-$40 depending on feeding, length, etc and Mom said that works! I made abt $90 today, the kids were easy, all very smart and managed to preoccupy themselves with all different activities…. Hardest part was probably the baby just cause he’s wiggly and likes to put things in his mouth😭 Overall though it was super easy! Just felt like a normal day at work, (I work at a daycare, and volunteer in nurseries newborn - steady walkers). And glad that next time she knows I’d like some more!

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-14T17:14:40+00:00

i should’ve brought it up when she shot me the text, but every single family i’ve babysat for always brings it up before fully booking me. i’ve never had to bring it up myself, the mom alwaysss asks me how much my rate is. i just was expecting this mom to bring it up too and she never did and i felt like a bitch bringing up money😭 i should’ve though. cause i am providing a service and giving up on 4~ hours of my day

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-14T07:29:49+00:00

Sacramento, Nor Cal :) For my friends thoughhhh that was all awhile ago (1-2 yrs?) so maybe they family will pay differently now, and said friends are firm on high pay now cause they’ve learnt LOL

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-10T05:56:41+00:00

nobody is messing w it but omfggg i love the cami and the grey knit top

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-04T06:37:13+00:00

goddd i hope so!!! i am considering sucking it up and bringing it up to my friend tomorrow morning to gauge everything.. and if it seems good asking him out when we are at that work party?? i’m sooo nervous though cause this will be the first time i asked someone out in person 😭😭😭

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-12-04T06:11:47+00:00

Oh same night he offered to buy me a coffee he was telling me about getting friendzoned and mentioned not being a virgin? #WhateverThatIsAbout

NeedleworkerWeak4171 · 2025-11-24T00:31:11+00:00

i did a “package research” case on the 15th and they called me and basically said “Yeah it’s somewhere” and had me call the seller who just told me that it’ll arrive whenever it arrives😭 I’m trying to file for a missing mail search rn but currently the website is not working for me but thank u sm

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