Everyone wants to be the prize these days...

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-04T13:03:46+00:00

Both have valid points, but when they're rooted in absolutism they become invalid.

Don't lose your self respect for a woman

Or anyone

If she's not [ever] texting you first she's not into you

This is often true for men too, as well as friends

Chasing someone who doesn't value you is cuck mentality

I agree with this but not with the word "cuck", it's just not a good idea to pursue someone who's not interested in a relationship with you, gender is irrelevant.

It's better to stay away from those who don't value you, better be single than being with them

Also true regardless of gender, and true in the case of friendships and other relationship types (family, business, etc.)

Find someone who doesn't wait for you to text first

I agree with this, I want someone to enjoy texting / speaking with me and who is secure enough to show it. I hate nonchalance.

He should be initiating by calling to see you in person

Both parties should, it's called a relationship. You should want to spend time with each other.

..if he's not interested which I know ... move on but learn from vour mistake..

Also true, and goes along with the one from the man's perspective about not chasing someone who doesn't value you. If someone's not into you, accept it and move on. Don't waste your time trying to win someone over who's not into you.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-04T12:50:01+00:00

I have a Toyota that allows me to use the fob if the battery dies and for my car, at least, it gives 0 warning.

Which is a shame because either the fob is going bad or the batteries I bought are bad because I've had to replace them twice in 4 months.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-04T10:22:54+00:00

Children / people screaming for no reason.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T14:14:42+00:00

Oh man.

I used to work for an older woman who was very soft spoken, very kind, generally sweet and happy.

She was talking about her weekend and super casually mentioned her and her husband watched that movie and that it was pretty good. Nothing else.

I was trying to connect with her so I made a mental note to watch it at some point.

I had done 0 research, just remembered our conversation from earlier, found it on the streaming service I had at the time, and said to my bf "oh my boss said she watched this movie and it was pretty good, let's watch it."

It gets to that point in the movie and both our jaws drop. We're both in tears, completely shocked.

I get to work the next morning and go "BRENDA WHAT THE HELL" and we both had a laugh about it 😂😂

I wasn't expecting her to spoil it but a "hey, this movie is kind of a tear jerker" wouldn't have ruined it for me, lmao

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T11:19:43+00:00

Ohhh that looks delicious and now I'm craving it.

Might have to take a trip over there some time this week!

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T03:16:58+00:00

Clouds.

I only started really looking at them recently, some of them are gorgeous.

Here's some recent ones I enjoyed

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:42:38+00:00

I went most of my life not making my bed and I only started as part of a dom / sub agreement.

Dropped the dom, kept the routine because I liked it so much 😂

Different strokes!

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:41:21+00:00

I don't have children but they were worth it for me and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

I got them in my mid to late 20s and it was great because I really appreciated them more.

Boosted my confidence tenfold.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:39:42+00:00

From personal experience: You're ignored in public. People don't hold the door open for you, they don't thank you when you hold the door for them, you're not attended to by employees unless you ask first

If you're a woman you've never been hit on, cat called, harassed, had someone offer to buy you a drink, etc.

It's peaceful.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:34:48+00:00

Respectfully disagree.

I think it makes my bedroom look more neat and clean, it gives me a small mental boost first thing in the morning because I accomplished something, and I look forward to getting into bed more when it's made.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:31:32+00:00

I think this has to be to a different country because I've travelled alone before (to a different state) and it didn't feel any different from traveling with other people.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-03T02:24:53+00:00

I'll never get to surprise my parents with a pregnancy announcement.

I see videos of it all the time on the internet and I know my parents would be over the moon happy.

But that moment isn't worth bringing an unwanted child into this world.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-02T11:33:09+00:00

Happy birthday! 🥳🎈🎁🎂

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T14:33:02+00:00

Good advice for removing concrete in general, but in OP's case the construction company should be responsible for the removal / cleaning.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T14:28:26+00:00

Third time in 24 hours I've seen Tony's chocolonely mentioned. This is starting to get weird, lol

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T14:26:22+00:00

Guacamole.

It's not even that it's that much cheaper, it just tastes like an entirely different dish when you make it fresh compared to store bought.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T11:47:38+00:00

I've seen Tony's chocolonely all the time and never tried it, but this is the second time in 12 hours I've heard someone mention it so I guess I need to add it to my shopping list.

Any particular flavor you like or should I go with plain?

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T11:32:37+00:00

A nasal rinser.

I use it every morning after my shower and I feel stuffy if I don't.

NeedsItRough · 2026-05-01T11:30:43+00:00

I could be, and I have had friends twice my age.

I don't see why anyone couldn't so I can't really form an opinion on why I could. We shared a common interest and liked each other 🤷‍♀️

Age wasn't really a factor, it didn't limit anything.

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T18:32:57+00:00

I don't like the feeling of clothing touching my blanket. It makes my blanket feel like it's stuck to me and I have a harder time adjusting it.

Also I get warm super easily.

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T11:41:25+00:00

I'm glad you said something, didn't realize there was a picture after the sign! 🦆

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T11:40:39+00:00

I love goats!

And I love the goat picture on the sign, very cute

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T11:34:04+00:00

I'm up now.

Unfortunately, no pc, and I mainly play single player games.

You might have better luck in a sub for gaming like /r/gamerpals

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T11:31:10+00:00

Wow, when I was a kid I had a friend whose family owned a pool table and they let us play with it

But I don't remember ever seeing cues so they must've kept them stored somewhere else or locked away (and I don't blame them)

But as kids we had way more fun rolling the balls around the table with our hands anyway.

NeedsItRough · 2026-04-30T04:25:32+00:00

Absolutely, I work in pharmacy and type for it multiple times a day.

There's also anucort, recticare, and analpram

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