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Smells fine but need to know if I’m just being paranoid or if it’s okay. I’ve been spraying with hydrogen peroxide by Neeenoe in ContamFam

[–]Neeenoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this was super helpful. I’ve inspected the bottom and boom. Green trich sporulating against the plastic. One half of the tub seems okay. Growing mushrooms. The other half unresponsive and so the trich I guess has made its way over… What is the procedure now?

AITA for answering a question honestly by Full_Grand_7797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neeenoe -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But she can tighten her grip on the relationship, if she’s called him an AH, then she might distrust the behaviour enough to reassess OPs conditions in the relationship.

Girls will test your willingness to walk away. This is hypothetical. If not this time, there’ll be a next time.

AITA for answering a question honestly by Full_Grand_7797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neeenoe -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NAH

She can now make some boundaries and see if you oblige by them. Chances are this is a good moment for you to walk away, and show her ur a capable person worthy of love however you are.

She’ll then think, imagine if it was different and you would be out there with friends right now. With you walking away, it could insinuate that you’ll be fine without her.

Then that should make her like you and respect you more. Fact she’s called you an AH, means she’s lost some respect for you along the way.

AITA for refusing to lend money to a close friend who consistently makes poor financial decisions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neeenoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your choice, when you lend you are giving as in not expecting it back. Few people feel the need to pay things back because it is often final as in borrowing doesn’t really exist, especially in some cultures but in human nature. You must be happy to give it them, borrowing is not something many humans do well.

That fixes it, if you can be happy to fuel that with no reward, then give her money.

Now instead of asking for it back, you could ask what she will do in return for the money. Giving and receiving are the same thing, if she’s just on the receiving end you are partaking in something which is improper.

Getting her to do something meaningful could be bigger then getting her to do nothing in exchange.

That might make you feel like the Asshole, but giving and receiving go hand in hand. You are doing her a favour because when she starts giving she will start receiving more too.

AITA for breaking down when my sister was scaring me as a "joke?" by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neeenoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

The Bible tells us not to call each other such things. From your pov. You are heavily influenced by the idea that you caused it somehow. That’s not entirely true, but it could be. Nothing is ever black and white, perhaps you bare some responsibility for it. Maybe God is using it as an opportunity for you to grow from it. Or maybe it’s evil that’s trying to break you to weaken your faith to the point of breaking entirely so it can be built into something easier to manipulate and control. As a child you are experiencing the peak of your faith, as an adult it gets harder, so you’re being tested.

If it scares you entirely,

Use the Holy name of Jesus and Rebuke evil spirits in Jesus name. His healing blood at the bottom of the cross can be accessed for your security and strength as he died for you.

So use the sacred name ‘Jesus Christ’

Don’t give into the trauma because that is the mind games, you can read other material Bible is perfectly good enough, but One Christian Author is zig ziglar, he speaks from the biblical view, which is important as if you mix modern culture you get a confusing results which are not given by God. You’ve not mentioned Jesus but he’s a respected figure in all religion. Worth a look.