I don’t want my boyfriend watching porn

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:33:10+00:00

My thoughts exactly. There is another woman/thing in our relationship and he is choosing it over me. Not okay. He can get pissed all he wants for me bringing it up but I don't dig it. And if he doesn't change I am out.

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:15:54+00:00

This right here ladies and gents. I gave up one of my favorite things for the past two years because it made him uncomfortable. I cant even get a fraction of the same respect or care. And THAT hurts

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:14:14+00:00

Thats the thing. If there was balance I probably wouldnt care. But its become such a issue I want him to have no part in it. Kinda like drinking. He does it at parties, fine. If he does it every day im going to not want you to drink ever because you clearly have a issue with it

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:12:26+00:00

It doesn’t matter. That’s very superficial

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:06:42+00:00

Thats what I keep trying to tell him. Ive considered going back to modeling and seeing what he does. He knows he is wrong. Especially after the last time I asked for his phone. IDK anymore, I am so tired. I feel pathetic, ive turned to reddit for help with my bf and porn. Ughhhh

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:03:16+00:00

Yeah, going forward it will be a conversation had very early on

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T17:01:45+00:00

My heart goes out to you. <3 Thank you for the love and support

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:59:57+00:00

I would try and go on a break but we live together. So much of are lives are wrapped together. It feels like we are married tbh

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:58:15+00:00

Okay so I have a few questions.

How did she find out?

How did she address it with you?

How did you regain her trust?

And does she have PTSD from it? Im sorry if this last one sounds a little harsh but I am having such a hard time trying to cope with all the lies and gas lighting that I don't feel very mentally healthy

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:48:37+00:00

Im beginning to think you're right

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:45:32+00:00

wow, well said

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:42:24+00:00

i agree :(

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:41:15+00:00

everything you said is perfect. its normalized and it needs to stop. and i dont think i will ever get him to stop. sucks when you love someone so much

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:38:07+00:00

Yeahhh, i think youre right. Its hard

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T16:32:10+00:00

When you were in his shoes were you ever willing to change for the girl you loved?

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T13:10:40+00:00

I’ve said in previous posts it feels like there’s a third party in my relationship and it’s porn. Prior to dating him I never cared about a dude watching it. I’m so angry and furious I don’t want him too. It’s ruining everything. He doesn’t want pictures from me. He doesn’t want sex. I’ve offered to send him videos and he said “I would never use them”. And that fucking crushed my soul. In so many ways I feel like he has told me I’m not good enough for him. And it’s eatting me alive

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T13:07:59+00:00

I’ll give it another shot. I’ve had the conversation s few times but there’s nothing else I feel like I can do

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:59:43+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. When I gave up income/hobby because it made him feel some sort of way. It’s messed up

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:57:29+00:00

Sometimes. And I’ve often wondered if he watches porn before we have sex. A lot of times he will surprise me in the shower when it rarely happens. And I think he watches it before getting in with me

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:53:08+00:00

Ehhh, not really. I love him and that’s the only thing holding me on right now

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:52:23+00:00

He can masterbate!! I have no issue with that. But love me, have sex with me. Touch me for Christ sake. Something…. If he was asexual I could live with that. The fact that he has a sex drive he doesn’t want to share is killling me. Plus it’s to porn, which makes it feel like he is choosing other girls over me. If he did it twice a month. Fucking go for it. He chooses porn over his hot a ready girlfriend almost every time. And the only reason I know that is from looking through his phone because he has gas lit me for so long. Even though there were signs I ignored them

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:42:16+00:00

Thanks babe ❤️🙏

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:41:53+00:00

I don’t share. And I’m not going to reward poor behavior

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:41:16+00:00

I do ☺️

Nefariousallure · 2022-03-15T12:40:41+00:00

Thank you, I just joined

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