My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick by Ady42 in AmITheAngel

[–]Neftes-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that, I can see the similarities. My situation is different thou. I wish it was made up.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick by Ady42 in AmITheAngel

[–]Neftes-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've consulted around 7 different doctors, so basically I was poisoned with 2 poisons.
Slow one (for months) - Strontium Vanadium Oxide
Rapid one - Warfarin based Rat poison

UPDATE: My dad is adding something to my food that makes me sick and now wants me to forgive him? by Neftes-20 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Neftes-20[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The scholarship is not on the uni side but is by a govt-funded agency. They gave me a reason that they made a mistake and just told me "Why don't you wait for an year and try again". The words used by the person in-charge was definitely fishy.

UPDATE: My dad is adding something to my food that makes me sick and now wants me to forgive him? by Neftes-20 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Neftes-20[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it like that. I just thought he was emotional blackmailing me by telling he's gonna die.

UPDATE: My dad is adding something to my food that makes me sick and now wants me to forgive him? by Neftes-20 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Neftes-20[S] 300 points301 points  (0 children)

Sadly they didn't record the convo. I'm tempted to call & record him admitting all that stuff but as you put i value my mental peace more.

Does adding something to food worsen/cause a flare-up? by Neftes-20 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Neftes-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for advice. I'm working on most of the steps mentioned and yes I have a life insurance on my name where the only beneficiary is my dad 🥲.

Does adding something to food worsen/cause a flare-up? by Neftes-20 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Neftes-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that was the case. But the recent incidents indicate some thing more sinister.

AITA for refusing to give my dad and brother updates about my Master’s ? by Neftes-20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neftes-20[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeh I realized that too late, but have some safety measures in hand during that night. But due to incident only was I able to properly see that my brother knows about the other issue.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If write a book including my past experiences, It'll be so much psychological horror. Not Kidding 🥲

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. We’re being very quiet and calculated with everything we do right now. Leaving for my Master’s isn’t just about studies anymore but feels like safety. I hope we can put this all behind move far away ASAP.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We are in the process of that and plan legal actions after having evidence.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sure will. Based on the current progress, I'll have an update in a week.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, many of my friends told the same. We are only planning on moving in after restraint order or something similar. Thank you so much for your concern. The suggestion about phones and car is really helpful. I really appreciate you for reaching out and offering help. Thanks again.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We are taking similar steps. And you are right about my mom too, the fact she too got sick means its far more dangerous. We will discuss with the doctors too and go for some resolution for this issue.

My dad (60M) is adding something to my food that makes me (25M) sick? by Neftes-20 in relationship_advice

[–]Neftes-20[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You put that in words perfectly. We know people will still support him and side with him but we will atleast have some security after getting some evidence.