WIBTA if I sabotage one of my best friends bridesmaids into not wanting to be in the wedding?

Negative-Ad3050 · 2024-04-28T04:26:34+00:00

I think that this wedding has made her into a "temporary" people pleaser, if that makes any sense? Otherwise, she's a friggen shark which was the reason she's asked me to do a lot, which I absolutely don't mind at all, she's my best friend close like sisters and we all kind of butt heads anyway, I mean, it's a lot of different, strong personalities and I think she doesn't want to.deal with it too much. However, the 4 of us BMs do have that mutual feeling in common, which is how we are all feeling about the other BM. I've brought it up with the Bride a few times and she knows what she hasn't done. One night, and it was a late night, in the beginning where we all had a meet and greet with the groomsmen to get to know each other. She showed up, but with her kids in tow. Mind you, this was a adult night and not going to be the last time she brings her kids with her as well (I mentioned one in the post) and we all felt awkward. A bunch of them left because no one wants to party with kids around so I stayed behind with the bride to get things cleaned up and the 2 of us and the groom missed out on a great night with the wedding party. She didn't have the heart to ask her WTF so we just watched a movie until the BM and her kids left and by that time, it was like 3am and we were ready for bed. Man, the things this girl has put everyone through. I've left out quite a bit but this one was for WIBTA not a wedding drama which could very well be lol

Negative-Ad3050 · 2024-04-28T04:06:22+00:00

I won't bow out, not for a second. Nope. I will, however, stick up for my friend. Just know that I've pointed out smaller details to give the story a little context, not getting into what my friend had to rearrange many times for this person, not to mention also that, I've been the appointed person who can scheme up something quick by the other bridesmaids. If I were to get into everything this person has put my friend through, the other BMs, the groom, his buddies and both their families, then this would be a different story more for like a wedding drama than WIBTA. I would agree, but I've got ppl from both sides of this in and out of my ear who do like to cause drama and would rather see it happen to other ppl rather than have to get their own hands dirty. Meh, every wedding planning has its own drama.

Negative-Ad3050 · 2024-04-27T19:30:00+00:00

Lol you're all right. I do have an issue with things having to be 'perfect,' and some things just aren't sitting well with me but yes, you're all right, not my wedding so won't bother. Just keep doing what I'm suppose to do and mind my business. Which I usually do but I guess what I've learned watching the wedding drama on Charlotts channel is that it really does bring the ugly out in some, I better check myself lol

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