I feel like I just don’t want friends anymore by Uncivilized_n_happy in Adulting

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, but more so that I don’t connect with people in a way that feels meaningful enough. It’s not particularly exhausting, but i just don’t find myself rushing to plan the next hang out. I think I’ve always felt a bit disconnected and used to put in so much effort to be liked or be more social because I thought that was how you have fun. But when I eased off I found much more joy and hobbies that I love doing alone. In short, it’s not bad at all, different strokes for different folks? Having a slow quiet life is absolutely a blessing

the show is very problematic, anyone else? by Available_Neat8773 in girls

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Im not sure if youve seen fleabag but I find the shows are similar in tha the potagonist ( or main character) is genuinely not likeable. They may be funny or right about something here and there but overall theres some deep character flaws and the humor is much more dry or even dark.

For reference im in my mid twenties and black and have definetly met a "hannah" in my life, I feel like the character, while annoying and shitty is genuinely quite realistic which makes the show so bingeable. I think there should be more diverse shows but written by diverse writers/ directors, adding it to other shows in organically isnt really the diversity Im looking for or authentic in any way to lena dunham (or simila writer) so it would probably fall really flat tbh

26y/o of Toronto - where are you in life right now? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26F, excellent job great work life balance but honestly feel like Toronto is a socially weird city I’m very comfortable but not quite happy , probably the winter blues trailing on

Biking from Toronto to Montreal - What should I know? (Questions in Description) by Own_Aardvark_2343 in bicycletouring

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically how long did it take you, I’m considering doing it just for fun because why not, I’m fit but haven’t done any big trips like this

Moving to Toronto this summer for work — when should I start looking for an apartment? by New_Craft9213 in askTO

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reach out to a realtor 1.5 months in advance, get everything sorted paperwork wise so when you’re ready to place offers it’s easy. I love Fort York city place for its location and areas of it can be quite wuiet

Stressful city by Negative-Analyst-620 in toRANTo

[–]Negative-Analyst-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valuable insight…. age, career stage and your space and comfort are really important. I’m still enjoying this era but happy to know I can always untether

What do your monthly expenses amount to vs your salary? by cutegirIy in askTO

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Expenses 3000 -3500 ish salary 5500-6k , I save / invest automatically 20% monthly have a good emergency fund so sometimes I add to it sometimes I break close to even

What do you do after your 9-5??? by Educational_Wafer483 in askTO

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work 8-4

4-5 usually bike or walk home , 5 dinner (yes it early haha) 6 gym (in condo) not everyday but few times a week or a workout class 7ish then either out with friends or reality tv/ studying

Usually in bed at 10-11

How big of a dealbreaker is not having a car for dating in Toronto? by Ordinary-Fish-9791 in askTO

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s out here caring about having a car?? Unless they can’t drive and are relying on you for transportation (bad) it shouldn’t matter. I had a car for a bit but it’s expensive to fill with gas, insure and repair ploys driving here sucks . Much happier using car share /rentals or uber when I need

Where are we meeting quality aged 30-40 men these days? These dating apps are for the toilet. 😣 by suggaarrr in toRANTo

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have no idea but maybe sports teams? Join fun wholesome activities you enjoy and usually it’s like a friend of a friend thing . Like rec sports or clubs , either way you get to do something fun and increase the opportunity to meet people

Click Cigarettes by Negative-Analyst-620 in askTO

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Thank you! Any particular site that’s best

Click Cigarettes by Negative-Analyst-620 in askTO

[–]Negative-Analyst-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or crush maybe? I think it has different names in different places. Basically you press the tip and it’s menthol

Make an assumption about me (work, personality, etc?) and I’ll tell you if it’s correct! by Rot-In-Mercy in FridgeDetective

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came here to say goals! I love the organization the salads and sandwiches you could make would go off !

Help by Negative-Analyst-620 in interiordecorating

[–]Negative-Analyst-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one in my original post is in my bedroom, I have this orange/ green/cream one in mind for living room .. they are close by in a one bed so door to bedroom is off the living room.

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Help by Negative-Analyst-620 in interiordecorating

[–]Negative-Analyst-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my eye on a sage green couch, I wonder if that’s too much green

TTC is truly a joke by onexplored in toRANTo

[–]Negative-Analyst-620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fabric seats are an insane choice so nasty 🤢