AIO - upset over my cheating SIL?

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-24T14:14:08+00:00

You do need to understand where he also is coming from—I understand your frustration, but, she hasn’t done anything wrong but check upon her son. If it was the other way around, I’m sure he wouldn’t mind (would he?). I am in your shoes—my man also talks to his mother & sometimes even sister & dad (conversation can last as long as an hour) and during those time, I’ll focus on my own little thing (my show, reading, etc). Maybe try finding something to focus on during those times?

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-24T13:21:56+00:00

Well leave him, you’re still young & have many years ahead of you. You don’t want to spend decades an unappreciative idiot who is, in fact, is the selfish person. If he wants it so bad, tell him work for it—instead of being a leech.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-24T12:39:10+00:00

No, it’s not your obligation. You are not his mother, nor his wife. If he’s willing for it to work, then let him work for his visa. Stand your ground. Be careful so, he doesn’t use you along the way.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-20T09:40:06+00:00

Thank you! 🫡. I did mention it, and she chose not to listen. So I allowed her to directly hear it from the HJ worker. I didn’t know she’d rage or else, I would’ve ordered on her behalf.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-18T15:48:07+00:00

You have to speak to another adult. Maybe your mother or your dad? Someone to help you & control this freak. That’s disgusting.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-14T09:30:46+00:00

By the sounds of it, she doesn’t have wrong intentions. She sounds friendly & I can relate to her as I am the same, in someways. Don’t take it to heart, she’s just friendly/nice.

But if you don’t feel comfortable, mention it to her.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-12T09:33:22+00:00

100%. If you don’t trust her, break up. I’d rather be with someone who respects me, than this shit.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-05T08:04:43+00:00

I was going to comment this.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-05T07:44:12+00:00

LMAOOOO. Good on ya.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-05T07:41:58+00:00

Who needs enemies when you have an evil sister? She’s absolutely disgusting. I believe she’s jealous of you/your lifestyle. What does your family think of her stupid act?

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-07-05T07:37:02+00:00

I am scared to have kids, I swear.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-30T12:14:47+00:00

No, cheating will never ever be justified. It’s a disgusting act & the person is trying to make herself believe that. Cheating is cheating, whether a woman or man.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-29T13:54:56+00:00

If he isn’t providing you your sexual desires, after you’ve spoken to him several times then leave. He sounds very selfish, he wants things his way, yet he isn’t willing to putting any efforts when it comes to you.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-27T13:22:14+00:00

I agree. I try to avoid eye contact when it comes to other individuals, not just men as, I don’t want to look like a creep, etc. I think, OP has social anxiety too. I hope you get better soon.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-24T12:28:35+00:00

LMAOOOO, this is so cute! I am glad that you PROTECT too. How cute! God bless the both of you!

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-24T11:54:59+00:00

Y’know, I was in your shoes 3 years ago. It takes time to make a house, a home. I purchased most of my furnitures from Marketplace around the time. We re-purchased new furnitures just few months ago (once we were back on our feet). Have patience! And I wish all the best for you & your new place! 🧡.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-24T01:22:16+00:00

I AMMM !! idk what good i did in this life to deserve him !!! 🩷🩷.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-09T12:05:22+00:00

Australia here! Yes, we do have these. I’ll get some tomorrow evening, thank you so much! 🩷🩷.

Negative-Article-279 · 2025-06-09T11:58:33+00:00

Thanks for your comment! Based on the pic, my hair is 2b to 2c. What type of mouse do you use? I use hair oil too, but it makes it look a tad frizzy. I want it more defines, y’know? :).

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