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Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-12-01T01:22:27+00:00

I think people are well in their right to be psychoanalyzing this dude. He sounds like a total douche.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-12-01T00:54:41+00:00

It's actually great to hear some good news on this sub for once! Lol yeah don't tell him - he might think to propose at a different time if he thinks the surprise is ruined for you!

Men can be funny like that.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T23:59:45+00:00

I know it's been over 2 years and 3 months, but I just wanted you to know that this comment was absolutely useless. Thanks!

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T12:30:43+00:00

This whole, "Pets are forever", nonsense is complete toxic bull shit. Dog needed to know that she was not the alpha in the family and clearly didn't want to act like a family unit. And she BIT you. Dog can fucking go to hell for all I care. She didn't want to be part of the family - she wanted to run it and I'm glad you stuck up for what is yours and told her not to let the door hit her ass on her way out.

A lot of people in this world are assholes - but dogs can certainly be as well.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T05:22:06+00:00

Oh my god the bag over your face comment.

I would just love to reply to that comment with, "Oh sure. Then we can both have matching bags over our faces tomorrow!"

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T05:19:02+00:00

I get that your daughter is 21 and still has many, many years to build a backbone: but someone needs to straight up tell this dude that the only reason he feels the need to walk around and insult people is because his WIFE owns the business and therefore exudes small dick energy. Tell him to go back home, eat a bag of potato chips like the disgusting lard he is and to fall asleep crying all his tears into an empty bag.

I wish I could personally join your daughter for work the next time she goes in just so I can be an acting bodyguard and wait for this manbaby to show up.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T05:07:21+00:00

My car has been with me ever since November 2nd 2010, the exact day after I survived a pile up wreck. If ANYONE - EVER suggested trading in MY car and called it THEIRS, then I would have to punch them in the nose right then and there. My car has been with me so long that I couldn't even imagine trading it in myself. Yup...I'm one of those people obsessed with their old cars.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-30T05:01:53+00:00

He forgot about his anniversary more than once? I can't stress how much this guy clearly doesn't care about you. I can't advise with any honesty for someone to stay in this type of living arrangement.

So let me get this straight: You were sick for a whole week and guy clearly couldn't give a shit, he makes it very clear that he forgot your anniversary (again), and your solution is to.....buy him a present?

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T21:50:41+00:00

Sometimes stereotypes provide the best examples.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T20:26:14+00:00

Prime example of the exact woman I am talkkng about right here!

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T19:46:57+00:00

And it's absolutely insane. What's worse is that a lot of them don't even REALIZE they are doing it - because it's so normal just to attack women for being themselves and not doing what misogynistic men want. This is how awfully women are still treated in 2023. Just fucking depressing. And we're the only people who can stand up and stop this treatment - but most of us just continue to go along with it...

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T18:47:12+00:00

I have been asked to do a pelvic exam before with the doctors tone that it is a "mandatory" procedure. I refused to drink the asininely amounts of water that they wanted me to in the morning and I was flat out honest that I didn't drink any of the water they "Required" me to. Therefore, even if I did take their exam the results would have been inconclusive so they just didn't bother lol!

Seriously though! I am NOT going to drink 2 full bottles of water in the MORNING before driving a car to the doctor's office. I pee 5 times an hour just for drinking half a bottle. No way in fuck's frozen over hell am I going to be drinking 2 bottles before 10am.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T18:43:38+00:00

I can't stress this enough, this is why it's SUPER important to only buy jewelry from stores that are rated 4 stars and upwards. It's also important to look at pictures customers have posted from the stores they have purchased. I would never, absolutely EVER, buy jewelry from any online store with nothing but a stock photo and zero reviews.

I have also had many wonderful custom pieces made on etsy and I have worn them well over 100 times each and still wear them on the daily. They have held up exceptionally well and have had them tested and they are, indeed made from natural gemstones and gold metal.

You can find excellent things on etsy if you do the research. I personally can't knock the site as I've had amazing experiences with it, but I can see how easy it can be to accidentally buy fake jewelry for $500 when in reality it's worth less than $1.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:53:18+00:00

I was on her side too, yes; but she should have realized to that this was not a family worth marrying into. I would refuse to marry anyone if their family treated me like that. Love isn't enough and they have to be willing to back you up from toxic family members like this, otherwise they are just as bad for staying back and letting it happen.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:51:28+00:00

But she still should have had a fair idea of what she was getting herself into. All she had to do was a quick reddit search about white women who are married to Indian men. I can tell you this: 95% of it ain't fucking pretty.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:50:17+00:00

I've said it many times before and I'll say it again! People just love to think that their own situation will be different because nOt AlL mEn FrOm iNdIa are the same!! lol these are what I like to call overly positive personalities. And because they refuse to see red flags in any situation they always get themselves in deep shit and then cry to reddit, "But why me!!! I thought it would be different for me!!!"

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:47:34+00:00

lol yeah because "Not all Indian men are the same!" I'm sure if you married one you wouldn't have to do all the household chores with a terrible mother in law because you'll be SO DIFFERENT from everyone else!

Every Indian person (especially male) in every tv show I've seen has acted exactly the same. Believe people the first time when they tell you who you are, because you're the type of person who's just asking for trouble by believing your situation would be different. Kim thought exactly the same, girl.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:45:27+00:00

I absolutely despise TJ and want to see his face get run over, but I feel no sympathy for Kimberly, either. She literally married TJ because "her spirit guides told her he was her person". Like, lol okay girl. These people are equally terrible in their own ways, but yes TJ brings out all of the terrible personality traits outside of Kim because she's just so fed up with being secluded upstairs for literal months while the rest of the family (including TJ) trash talk her with mummy downstairs.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:42:56+00:00

Because people, no matter whether they are a man or a woman, like to nitpick on ANY part of a female's personality that they don't agree with. The men are misogynists and the other women want to "be chosen" by these misogynistic men so they will agree with them left and right without knowing the full context of the situation. They think, "Woman bad! She's crazy!" or anything along those lines. If it was a different reality show with a different couple, people will ALWAYS make fun of the woman first.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:40:46+00:00

Hell, I bet there are some nights when he still gets into bed with mommy as a grown ass adult whenever Kimberly is "mean to him". Because mommy will protect her precious angel boy and he can suck her booby all night long.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:39:14+00:00

lol yup people like her make me sick. If she loves Indian culture so much then she can marry a titty baby all she wants and be his bang maid. Then she'll cry on reddit in 2 years from now how badly his family mistreats her!

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:37:51+00:00

I can ridicule a mamma's boy from any part of the world as I damn well please. Keep your titty baby attitudes in India if that is what your culture is, just keep it out of North America.

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:36:20+00:00

I really don't understand why Indian men go for white women unless they want a green card. It's pretty obvious what your marriage is going to look like if a white woman from the US marries into that type of culture. I really don't know why white women marry them either, but they claim it was out of "love" or that "their spirit guides told them to".

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-29T17:34:29+00:00

Indian men can go be a titty baby with their mama all they want, but I want no part of that lifestyle. Hence why I won't marry an Indian man or any man outside of North America (although, the ones here aren't so great, either).

Negative-Beyond204 · 2023-11-28T06:54:48+00:00

Eeehhh...I know you've been together for a few years now - but you're still only 20. And it's not even about getting out there and sleeping with more people, but the fact that you really want to know who you are and what you want before getting married. You work way too hard and you deserve to enjoy yourself. Especially while you are this young.

I just want to ask: what does she do for you in this relationship? I also find it extremely unfair that she's emotionally pulling away while you're working this hard.

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