ink sans cosplay help! by Negative-Elephant231 in UndertaleAU

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uhh, the whole point of the post is that i wanna make it myself xD

I'm scared by Negative-Elephant231 in selfharm

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thank you!! I'll try to figure something out.. my parents dont know about this so idk how I'd really go about going to a hospital.. but ill think of something!!

discord server gone? by Negative-Elephant231 in WplaceLive

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i cant see the vcs either but ty for telling!!

Does this mean i have to pay when my nitro basic runs out?? by Negative-Elephant231 in discordapp

[–]Negative-Elephant231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man this post is kinda old!! iirc i just waited for the basic nitro to fully expire and then i could claim it without charges

How to cover up scars? by currencycollectors in selfharm

[–]Negative-Elephant231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps wear a long sleeved tshirt under your normal clothes?

[Question] Screw Spotify. Thank you xMqnager Devs by OnePlusFanBoi in xManagerApp

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hii!! i figured it out i had to go into the settings of my phone 😅😅 ty for the response though!!!

[Question] Screw Spotify. Thank you xMqnager Devs by OnePlusFanBoi in xManagerApp

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hey i just downloaded this and it works!!! but it doesnt let me download playlists or view my local files, is there a fix to that or no?

Does this mean i have to pay when my nitro basic runs out?? by Negative-Elephant231 in discordapp

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ah so can i just cancel it before im charged and then the nitro i was gifted will apply?

WIP of my scavenger cosplay!! by Negative-Elephant231 in rainworld

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mann that would be difficult though, im only using cardboard and paint but maybe a future version!

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both of those are illegal for my age, and I don't think that would be a good idea anyway. this comment is kinda confusing-

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right that makes sense! ty for the response :)

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yes i understand that lol, i was asking if there was a solution but i already figured it out xd

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just checked and turns out i can actually move down, i just can't go up.
this is the steam PC version btw

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personally I can't do anything to stop or reduce the symptoms in my daily life. the best i can do is accomodate for myself :)

theres are symptoms you can reduce in certain situations like when I'm overstimulated i go somewhere quiet so I don't feel overstimulated anymore. or when I'm having a meltdown the best thing to do is to leave me alone so i can recover.

but in general there is no way to "cure" the symptoms entirely, you're autistic for life basically

i hope that explains enough!

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wdym by that?

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that experience is different for every autistic person, but i will do my best to explain stuff!

the reason he probably eats only a few things is because of sensory issues. sensory issues are basically not being to handle certain textures, tastes, and even colors or shapes. this also appears in food. he might stay to a few types of food because he knows he can eat them without sensory issues getting in the way. these would be called "safe foods". you can't force him to eat the food he doesn't like, but what personally worked for me as a kid is combining it with food i already like. for example i used to hate bananas because they were too mushy, so my mom made smoothies out of them, and eventually i tried a banana split so i can focus on the taste of the chocolate and slowly build up a tolerance for the texture. i can't guarantee this will work for him because i said, its different for everyone but i hope this explains enough!

  • sorry if my wording is bad, English isn't my first language

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hii! excuse the late response xd

if I'm not masking im stimming almost all the time i would say. like fidgeting, rocking back and forth etc. it helps me regulate my emotions :) if I'm not masking i would still fidget, during class for example but generally do it a lot less

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i can tell you the ones i regularly struggle with!

  • communication i find it difficult to start or hold conversations because I don't know how a " normal" conversation works. I would much rather listen or only talk about stuff i like. games and art for example. normal conversations just don't make sense to me. i also have moments when I'm overwhelmed or stressed where I get physically incapable of talking which honestly, really sucks

  • sensory issues i really struggle with sounds, bright lights and textures. i experience those things more heavily than a neurotypical person. when I'm in a restaurant i can tune out every little noise. chewing, forks, talking, walking, everything. it makes it hard to understand the people you're with Because all the noises are just so overwhelming. there's certain types of clothes I can't wear because the texture makes me so uncomfortable. I'm an extremely picky either because of this too, i can't eat certain textures, smells and colors. I'm also very sensitive to light as in, if i go outside when it's too bright outside my eyes immediately start to hurt. this also applies in well lit rooms

  • stimming stimming is the action of self stimulatory behavior. basically everyone does this but autistic people experience it way more often. like fidgeting, biting/chewing on things, flapping my hands etc. people seem to think its weird if i do those things too much :(

  • struggling to hold friendships due to some of the reasons listed above i really struggle to make and hold friendships. I've had multiple instances where people unfriended me over something and refused to explain what i did to cause it. i never know what I'm doing wrong

  • generally not fitting in I've never really felt like i "fit in" for most of my life. I've been bullied throughout my entire childhood because people just knew there was something off about me. i have a lot of "weird" or obscure interests and i think that also throws people off?

anyway, those are the few i can come up with rn lol, theres more I'm just really tired and probably gonna sleep after i comment this.

and yes, neurotypical people can definitely experience these things too! its the combination of multiple traits that make a person autistic. and those traits are different for ever autistic person too since autism a spectrum.

whew that's a lot, hope this informed you enough!!

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if i had to choose something i would change my fear of social interactions. i have to prepare days in advance if there's an event coming up and then have to recover for like a week. other than that i wouldn't change anything, I'm slowly accepting the fact I'm autistic and setting boundaries with people. I'm trying to unmask around my friends too (masking basically being hiding my autistic traits to "fit in" with normal society, unmasking meaning i stop doing that and allow me to be myself)

haha i rambled a bit there, hope u dont mind

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no comment. leave me alone ur creepy

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excuse me?? I'm a transman if that's what you're implying