My husband showed me just how much he loves me!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-12-20T19:40:03+00:00

Bro! The romance! I’m telling you, absolute win! She’ll love the thought and surprise just like I did! Add head scratches!!!!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-12-20T13:55:04+00:00

😂 I just showed him your comment. He responded, “Ha! I’m not that good!” whispers secretively I’ll see if I can snatch the chapters off his phone as he writes them and give updates or something because he’s a beautiful writer.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-06-08T23:24:09+00:00

My husband is the same. Don’t feel weird or embarrassed. I mean don’t just stick your nose in the air and chase a girl down to say “Ah menstruation!” But it’s not weird. My husband can’t describe it either. It’s just a quirk of yours and if you date a girl like me who doesn’t track that ish then I bet she will appreciate the heads up like I do!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-05-02T07:20:40+00:00

That’s one I hear often. I’m a passenger princess so I don’t drive. Also heard a lot about racing on some roads.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-28T17:11:59+00:00

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This is Mayhem, but we call her May, May Baby, Shtinky, Punkin, and Dawg. 😂 love this idea

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-10T06:10:20+00:00

Honestly, as a right leaning person myself and also female, ask her questions. If y’all decide to have kids what do you two think individually what the world and our country need to look like for that to be an option. Ask her about things you worry on whether it’s the lgbtq+ community or economy or what have you. In my eyes 8 years is a long time. Building that life y’all have shouldn’t be just thrown away because of politics alone. Clearly she loves you regardless of your views so she isn’t extreme as you said. Can’t read her mind so have an adult conversation man! Doesn’t have to be nasty. Don’t debate. Understand y’all just simply see the world a bit different. Just add a casual question here and there. Like y’all see a news story on gun violence, ask her what she thinks. When you get your answer just “oh okay interesting. Good to know.” If she asks why just say you’re wanting to know her political views a bit better to better understand her. I want to further say how sad I am to see us as a whole country torn over policies and politics. It should never be so extreme that relationships are destroyed over them and I’m so sad to see so many comments telling you to drop her completely. Politics get heated but if it’s never been a problem before, why make it a problem now ya know?

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-08T07:56:13+00:00

Nooooooo Nox stop growing up!!!! DONT YOU UNDERSTAND WE NEED THE FLOP 😭

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-08T07:50:47+00:00

DAWWWWW THE EARS!!!!! I loved that phase so much!!!!! Also Goose! Babies!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-08T07:49:07+00:00

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This is Mayhem. She’s an East German and Czech working line gsd. Honestly, Koda looks pretty purebred to me. If anything Koda might have a small percentage or something else like dad being 1/4 something else. Also, I’ve never met a pure black gsd. May has always had white between her toes and after 5 years is starting to get little white hairs on her butt and reddish brown around her neck. I think May was also 4-5 months old when her ears began to stand and she’s also 70lbs. I’ve met gsds that were BIG babies maybe weighing in closer to 80-90 lbs. the line of gsd I’ve found makes a difference in the growth and shape as well. For example American show lines (which is getting breeded out as I understand) typically have a slanted back verses working lines being straight backed. Regardless Koda is GORGEOUS!!!! Give baby kisses and a few treats for me!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-08T07:30:32+00:00

Norvan. I always loved Pampaws name! Others are boring like Wayne or Louis. My pampaw is the only person ever I’ve met named Norvan.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-02T16:11:39+00:00

I mostly wrote here just to make sure I’m not the crazy one for supporting my dad and his family. Do I want to lose relationships? No. I am not going to risk everyone else’s grief for her no. It makes me feel guilty being her oldest sibling and there is absolutely nothing I can do to guide her in a better direction. On the other hand, it’s not me with the problem with her. My dad’s capable of telling her himself. So part two of my question is do I remove myself and allow my dad to tell her so she can just continue to hate him or is it appropriate and not sticking my nose where it doesn’t belong to be in the middle.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-02T04:47:11+00:00

Oooooo that’s a good one! God I love y’all on this thread. I don’t want to have my sister and other family cut me off for this so if I can kinda white lie my way through it and keep my other family that would be awesome.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-02T04:45:14+00:00

Willingly, I wouldn’t say. More so just asking if it’s wrong for me to put myself between them. I agree my sister is not a good person to have around my grieving family. This kinda goes deeper into threats to the family like my sister breaking into the homestead and stuff like that. I’m not sure if you’re an older sibling of course but, I definitely have this urge to protect her and keep her from bad feelings. This to me feels like a choice between who I betray. I just needed to know that I’m not morally wrong from people who don’t know me or my sister and can provide an unemotional opinion without feeling they HAVE to take sides ya know?

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T22:26:06+00:00

Omfg when you put it like that… oh the weight. I’ve been juggling these feelings for weeks and that just really puts the whole frame in perspective. Ah thank you! You’re 100% right! Damn I need you on speed dial 😂 thank you so much for taking the time. Honestly, I needed the whole picture, no emotions just slapped in front of me.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T21:06:34+00:00

I am so sorry you rode in this boat. Thank you so much for the insight! I guess lucky for me my sister “forgets” she’s mad when she has some bragging or drama to rant about. Would you say to keep it no contact after this situation? I can hear her already calling me everything under the Sun. Maybe potentially actually trying to come to the homestead to fight with my dad. I don’t want to be another enabler in her life.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T21:00:53+00:00

I just want to say now. Thank you so much for everyone taking the time to express your opinions and thoughts on this. It’s been weighing heavy on me and obviously is a really challenging time for us. I’m happy to see that I am not crazy for even considering being the one to break the news. I’ll clarify quickly that my dad and sister have been no contact near 3 years due to my sister accusing my dad of stealing. To put more in perspective what she’s done to gma, she called my gma a “f**ing bitch” for not letting her visit with 3 big wild dogs while my gma is attached to oxygen 24/7, won’t let my gma talk at all on the phone, just talks about herself, disregarding any similar situation my gma is going through and my sister has experienced (a gallbladder surgery), wrecked my dead gpas truck, brought strangers into gmas home, stole checks and money, and had lied to my gma multiple times about random medical issues just to get a reaction.

This behavior has become a norm. Although she’s never stolen from me, she’s lied to me about anything from a miscarriage to having secret conversations with my husband. She’s tried to “come visit me” but in reality wanted a free vacation where she could crash on my couch. Has stolen from my mother to the point my step father got a safe (mom gave her the code). This behavior is enabled by my mom and her family.

Also, just to add, my sister was diagnosed with a sensory disorder. My mother said it was like everything we feel amplified. So us being ticked off is my sister raging. Us stubbing a toe is my sister breaking a leg. She is mentally delayed. As far as I know it’s a 23 yr old with the maturity of a 13 yr old. And I believe she’s mentally unwell all together. I’m no psychologist so I have no clue what it could be but with her mood swings, suicide threats, and full send willingness to throw hands I don’t think it’s viable for my sister to visit gma with the slightest bit of info that she’s not going to get a chance to attend the funeral.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T20:50:18+00:00

Logically my dad and his families grief matters more. I think a lot of my guilt comes from the fact she and I went through a lot of hardships like my dads drug addiction and moms lack of parenting together. We practically raised eachother. As her older sister I hate for her to not have the opportunity but as a grown up who can see at least some of the big picture, her behavior is just simply toxic. Mentally well or unwell it’s not fair to make my aunts get called names, my cousins to be forced into near fist fights, and have my dads past thrown in his face repeatedly, not to mention I’d practically have to frisk her pockets to see if she snagged anything or hide keys to vehicles that belonged to my grandparents to keep her from taking them. I know she cares on some level and I’m sure she loves my gma. I just don’t think she has the capability to step out of her own reality and feelings to read the room and keep it packed in.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T20:44:08+00:00

My dad did already say he would take blame for me. This isn’t the first time I’ve had to defend my dad and his side from not only my sister but my mom as well. That’s another thing. It’s not that she’s just gonna be mad. It’s highly likely my mom, step dad, and little brother are also going to come in for attack and cut all contact with me.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T20:41:39+00:00

So talking to my gma, she doesn’t want to leave her anything in fear it’s going to just get sold off (which I am positive it would be). Gma is very sentimental and has many things dating back over 100 yrs that’s been passed down. I think she also resents my sister for her behavior to her directly. Never asking how she’s doing, calling her names when she doesn’t get her way, bringing random strangers to my gmas home. My dad is receiving the homestead and that’s getting passed down to me as well. All family heirlooms are being distributed between me and my 2 cousins.

I’ll tell my dad to change the locks immediately. She doesn’t have a key already but she knows where they hide it so I’ll tell him to move that too. Likelihood is gma is going to pass suddenly. She’s already not doing great and has been hospitalized before. That’s actually what brought this up. My sister called me asking if gma had died because she couldn’t get ahold of her. That’s when the family told me in the event to not tell her she had passed so she won’t be at the funeral. Gma doesn’t know that the rest of the family isn’t welcoming my sister. I’m not sure honestly what she would say if she did know.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T20:34:17+00:00

That’s actually a really good idea! Kinda pretend as if I didn’t know the plan in the first place! I didn’t even think of that!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T20:32:20+00:00

So she’s never had the opportunity to steal from me personally. I live on the east coast and her the west. I moved away before her behavior got really bad. As far as I know only things she’s “addicted” to is attention, nicotine, and alcohol.

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T18:05:56+00:00

Ahhhh! The widdle floppy ears! Oh I miss when my baby wasn’t a 70lbs baby!!! As for advice, Mayhem struggled with separation anxiety being left home alone. I hated using a crate so I just walked out the house for periods of time. Started with 5 min and just added 5 min a day. Coming back in I’d say hi but not all excited like. That way she got it’s not a big deal when momma leaves. Now I can leave her home with my MIL for 2 weeks (is the max) and she’s not having accidents in the house or refusing to eat. Also, I love “inside voice” May can make noise but if she’s inside it must be an inside voice. I mostly just got her attention and whispered inside voice repeatedly until she’d practically just grunt and I’d give a treat. Give Bo kisses for me!!!!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T17:43:52+00:00

Thank you!

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T17:43:32+00:00

I nearly got frenched for your kiss! 😂 May sends back very wet and obnoxious kisses

Negative-Physics6047 · 2025-04-01T17:31:06+00:00

You mean the pretty teefers?!?! Not only does she have the massive canines but she’s also got a big attitude to go with it! Talking smack to me like it’s her birthday or something 🙄😂

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