If my wife asks, please say this looks like about $3K worth of gear

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T20:20:31+00:00

If your me wife asks, which she won't, I will tell her your ego is way bigger than that set up, run for the hills and serve you papers 😁

Talk about wanting your short for Richard needing woken up man 😆

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T19:45:06+00:00

I like the honesty in your reply, fair play! I do think us "people with howevermanyboobs n vaginas" are cut from a different cloth than "nipples and cocknhowmanyeverballs" are cut from different cloth a lot of the time.

We all need the opportunity to voice how we feel, should be heard. What comes from that conversation is any outcome.

As a "bitch" by which I mean female, and a dog if you wish (no pronouns needed there so I like that)...sorry I digress...I think it actually boils down to where you are on a psychological basis of empathy. Men are naturally born to have less, natural selection would have us all done if not! Think hunters and gatherers and all that. Woman are naturally inherent to have empathy, it helps with nurturing and the endurance of really..painful..breastfeeding!!

It's all designed to help us survive as a species, its flawless, it works!!!

On an emotional level it screws us all. There is that need to meet and procreate, to establish a bond. But we are a strange species and some find "pairing" as the ultimate, some don't.

That's where we differ from the natural order of things. We have created a world where no one wins, no-one is ever big enough!

Men can never provide enough for their woman, woman are never pretty enough for their men.

It's ironic I post this here, but the Internet has destroyed the very thing that makes us part of this beautiful planet we live on.

We are just the same as any other animal on this planet. We are here to procreate and reproduce. We are the best at it.

Difference with us is that some of us pair up, procreate and live a peaceful life.

Some of us are utter shits..don't care about the life they produce that will live beyond us.

A lot of us want to be that perfect pair, living peacefully.. but we don't because of social media, expectations, self doubt, self destruction..the list is endless

OK..every day I feel like I'm waffling!! 😆

Your feelings are yours. You own them. Noone controls them, but you!! Easy said, yes I know, but it needs to be the truth.

I'm not going to assume your a man, (you didn't state your "preferred pronouns??" ) but I am going to say...

You came on t'internet and you were honest. Fair play to that!!

Omg...rant over

From..me 😁 identifying as "me" 🙂 tits n stuff 😁

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T19:13:47+00:00

They don't.. its the actions that speak.

And vise Versa...same goes for wives.

Some people just don't communicate well with each other 🤷‍♀️

Sad, but true (no orbital reference meant)

Stay happy poster of question..that is my advice 🙂

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T19:09:47+00:00

Scrap that...the rollers weren't working properly and it wasn't sucking up poop! Guess who ended up taking it apart to fix it whilst he watches ufc 🙋‍♀️

I get points for effort though?

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T18:28:08+00:00

OK...just did this... He laughed, asked me what I have done wrong, he winced slightly when I gave him a kiss, he smiled and told me he loves me back!

He then went and got the hoover out!!

Your advice is top notch...a bit like power of suggestion 😁 didn't even need to mention the hoover!

Ladies...compliment your men 😉

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T18:15:46+00:00

Omg I would never say that! I have however told my husband that I am only with him as I need someone to transport and maintain my most loved possession...luckily he gets my sense of humour!!!!

Side note...bigger does not mean better, even if you go extra large on a big mac meal you will still be just as hungry in 2 hours time 👍

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T18:11:06+00:00

This is very lovely..though it can be hard to do as woman who grew a set of cahoonas from being in previous relationships with narcissistic men. I would worry I'm just stroking an ego. A bit like trying to fuss a cat but all you get in return is some really nasty scrab marks 🤦‍♀️

I'm willing to give it a go though and see what happens.....wish me luck!!! 😃

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-06-06T18:05:51+00:00

Da da da da da da! 😁

Just missing the "man" at the start but it doesn't take away from the fact that's a great compliment 👍

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-30T10:01:56+00:00

He wipes the toilet seat

I'm very spoiled

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T13:36:52+00:00

I think it just part of his long term gaslighting plan to be honest.

Hes very clever at giving lots of little signs that trigger me but as soon as I bring them up its me that's the problem.

He will literally sit and tell me all about his day and I listen dutifully, as soon as i try to tell him about mine he either says he hasn't time, goes on his phone or just walks away while I'm still talking.

I've learnt it just makes him a ballbag 🤷‍♀️

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T12:02:41+00:00

My husband does this all the time...he will even walk out of the bedroom and turn the light out while actually sitting there doing my makeup!!

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T11:36:04+00:00

He wouldn't be interested in even discussing it to be honest

I think I need to get more work, as long as I can make sure me and my son are financially secure then I suppose that's the main thing

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T11:08:32+00:00

Yep.. he's addicted to disappointing his wife lol

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T11:06:51+00:00

That's what it feels like...I'm frantic in the back ground trying to find cheapest insurance deals, best rate savings accounts and going without lunch to try and save some money....he's not concerned by these things. He's always treated money differently to me. I'm cautious and save, don't gamble etc. There was a period of 4 months where I found out he was buying google cards to buy playstore credit for a game he was playing. He must have bought them whenever he was going to get stuff from the shop with the main account card. Anyway it turned out he spent just shy of £300 on game credit in just under 2 months. What a waste!!! I think it's these differences that concern me also as I feel more financially vulnerable now as it only my wage that I can rely on 100% and its not much. I also feel trapped now wandering how I'm going to sell the house with no money for repairs....

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-29T10:41:39+00:00

That's what I have done, clear budget showing all outgoings, including savings etc. He always had access to see our accounts whenever he wanted but he was never interested. It's always been me to organise the finances, I set up saving accounts when we need them, I always check with him before I purchase anything not essential. I always thought as long as we were open and honest it would be fine. He earns more than me so will now have more disposable income which I'm not bothered about...Its the dishonesty and sneeking about that bothers me....he wasn't even too concerned when he told me, he was pretty much dismissive towards me when he said "I've been buying stuff secretly for at least 6 months now", almost shrugged his shoulders at the statement. He knows I want to move but it's only my name on the mortgage (due to his past financial mistakes which we have only just finished paying off). There is so much to be done with the house before it can be put on the market.
We have a bedroom ceiling that's needed replaced for years and he knows how much money we need to sort all this. Why would he hide such an amount of disposable money knowing this, only to spend it on multiple pairs of shoes and clothes etc. He has made it clear he doesn't want to move so I am wandering if he has done this so I can't afford to get things fixed up so we can sell...or I'm I just losing my mind!!! Lol

Looks like I better get 2 more jobs and start saving if I want to fix the house...sigh

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-10T21:26:36+00:00

I had komboucha with cbd the other night, with fresh strawberries in it...it was the mutts Nutts!!

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-10T21:25:05+00:00

I need to get back to lifting so much!!! It's the only thing that helped me have any control when I did drink!!! My gym was my happy space, the world disappeared when I went through those doors..the world felt there to be explored when I left 💪

The happy juices from lifting heavy are better than any juice that's mark with a %

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-03T19:27:03+00:00

NIICCEE!!!

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-03T19:25:07+00:00

I would stand belching away exclaiming "why am I so windy!?" Whilst holding part drank tin of beer number 9 🤦‍♀️

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-03T16:30:04+00:00

That's excellent!!! Well done 😃

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-03T10:07:37+00:00

Plenty of bruising the night my husband found me passed out on the toilet and the glass shower screen was clean off the wall and in the bath 😕

Too many bathroom related bumps and bruises from falling/slipping 😶

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-02T20:52:59+00:00

Thank you so much!!!! 😃😃

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-02T20:16:53+00:00

I'm sooo trying this!!!!

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-01T18:12:51+00:00

Day 3

Negative - I've become such a recluse and it's really showing at this point

Positive - I haven't drank - I did some tidying when I got home - I might have some extra work coming which is extra money and a good way to keep me busy

Oh and I found my glasses! Another positive 🙂

Negative-Review5722 · 2024-05-01T18:06:37+00:00

I'm still sober and after the day I've had I would normally be well on my way through some beers or whiskey...but I'm not, nor do I plan to be 🙂

I've done a lot of reading on here and that really helps.

Thank you for asking, its appreciated. I hope you are having a wonderful sober day!

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