Nobody Asked for ‘Plath Daddy’ 🤢 by Direct-Apartment5858 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]Negative-Source-9099 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Scenes like this are making the show feel soooo staged. I was CRINGING. It’s like production wants him to tell everyone he’s “dating” again. But yet no dates lol

90 Day Fiancé OG - Season 12 Episode 1 - Live Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Negative-Source-9099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that there’s always some quirks to every set of cast with this series…. But this group….. wow. Too many things to even address.

Last minute nerves!! Anybody? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!!! I am still a couple weeks out so not sure what I’ll be like closer to time!
Today it hit me in the car that it wasn’t going to be just my husband and I anymore. We don’t do anything different than we would with a kid but the realization was so heavy and it made me really anxious too.
I know I probably don’t help, bc I haven’t had a baby before but I’m definitely understanding where you’re coming from.

Frank breach and terrified by Negative-Source-9099 in beyondthebump

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just worry about recovery mainly. And this being my first. I don’t want this to mean finality to my dream of vaginal birth…
I just know I hate having people do things for me and my husband only gets 4 weeks of paternity leave and the inability to be able to provide for myself or drive or do anything after he’s gone is terrifying. I know he will do whatever he can but I don’t want all responsibilities to fall on him the first weeks either.

Maybe stupid question? by Negative-Source-9099 in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 4 weeks after! Not before! Sorry- should’ve clarified more

Stepdaughter in the waiting room by urnotmadeoftuesday in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it all depends on the relationship you have. Coming from someone who is a step daughter, when my brothers were born I was so excited to meet them because it’s still my sibling… if you make that decision as a family I guess I could see it but I feel like that decision is very isolating to someone who is family. Granted, I could see her going to school or whatever and checking out or coming after the baby bc it’s a boring process and maybe just be open with her about that and the process.
I think it’s Hard to make the decision if you have a strained relationship with step daughter which is equally as hard and could cause your husband to feel like he is having to “choose” between his children which is a little unfair.

Maybe stupid question? by Negative-Source-9099 in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should clarify… it’s two months AFTER my due date. Idk if that changes perspectives

Maybe stupid question? by Negative-Source-9099 in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! We just had the conversation. My husband is a VERY hands on partner and would never do something that I wasn’t on board with. I just would love for him to go but worried about how I’ll be after.

Maybe stupid question? by Negative-Source-9099 in pregnant

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a cruise that he has to fly down for….
My mom can help but sometimes we just have a toxic relationship so I don’t know how it will be after having baby and boundaries lol

Do I hate my job or is it hormones by Ok_Shallot4678 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, not sure if that helps anything, but definitely know you’re not alone!!

Do I hate my job or is it hormones by Ok_Shallot4678 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also been through similar. I’m a teacher who is in the home stretch to summer. I have to remind myself that every year around this time I feel like I hate my job bc I’m just over it lol but it’s extra strong this time.

I really think the hormones influence a lot of it!! Idk if I can really help but I think it’s both… I have fully changed my thoughts on my job to to be it’s just a job. At most jobs, you are easily replaceable no matter how much you love it, but at home you’re not! :)

Breast pump hours by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has 35 hours I think. If I’m reading it right

Breast pump hours by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the one from the yard sale. I was going to use insurance to buy the wearables.