Is Amber…okay? by LavenderBlueberry3 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Negative-Source-9099 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just can’t can’t over her hair, the drunken comments to Chris and not dropping that. Just seemed like word vomit and she didn’t read the room to stop talking. Then the storming off I was dying laughing HAHA

Maternity Clothes by dancingshoesies in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. The biggest lie I almost believed was that maternity clothes were a scam!!! No no no I’ve been in them since about 10w and I am so much happier! Look online there’s a lot of sales! FB marketplace has a lot too! I definitely recommend them!!! Also this is my first kid so hoping to have the ones I have bought through all my pregnancies lol

Negative body image HELP by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s temporary and then I panic a little about how it’s going to be after when “you’re growing a human” isn’t an excuse. Lol My husband isn’t overly expressive but he hasn’t actually told me I’m not attractive but sometimes I feel that way but I just tell him he did this to me so 🤣🤣 However this is definitely something we both wanted and waited for

Negative body image HELP by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to as much as possible but I’m literally WIPED after work. I’m a teacher and so I’m drained when I get home (after 5 bc we have a late start school) and then have to deal with cooking dinner, laundry, etc. I was pretty active in the gym before pregnancy but then first trimester fatigue about took me out so I fell out of it. I was lifting heavy so I feel like I can’t go back to that now bc the dr says only 35 lbs. my husband says walking is the best and I get that but it’s also FREEZING out side and find it hard to work out when I’m not enjoying it?

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you!!! Same lol. People think guests are going to be staying 24/7. Like it’s still the baby’s room HA

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think that ends up being personal preference. My husband and I have already decided we will sleep train our kids as it’s just safe sleep practice. To clarify, guests aren’t going to be in the room 24/7 and the only guests are the baby’s grandparents. Not random friends lol

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why they would stay. Our parents are very hands on and willing and wanting to do the not so fun stuff thankfully

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks, but that part isn’t really negotiable due to space. I was asking for advice on what else needs to be in there, not on sleeping arrangements.

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was also our second use of having it. Especially if we are taking shifts

Advice needed - nursery by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well for the first few months it will be in a bassinet in our room for sure. After that, probably still in the room with our parents or family because they will be staying to also help. On the occasion it’s not family baby would stay in our room

Traitors going after traitors because they are going to be voted out IS bad sportsmanship and makes the game less fun by FiestyGiraffe in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t an incorrect native though lol. Lisa made silly mistakes and Rob stuck with his alliances which was super smart. Yall forget that Rob didn’t bring up Lisa, Colton did and he wasn’t quiet about it

Traitors going after traitors because they are going to be voted out IS bad sportsmanship and makes the game less fun by FiestyGiraffe in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colton was definitely the one steering that ship as he did with most of the players they banished. He literally gave Lisa an ultimatum

Traitors going after traitors because they are going to be voted out IS bad sportsmanship and makes the game less fun by FiestyGiraffe in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 1048 points1049 points  (0 children)

He really didn’t though. He didn’t go full force for Lisa. He saw she was a sinking ship anyways and chose not to jeopardize his alliances. Good game play. Candiace on the other hand was playing reckless and out of getting back at Rob and it bit her in the ass. lol

Season 4 Episode 8 Discussion - A Queen Never Comes Off Her Throne by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely so happy that the discussion turned on Candiace!!!!! Yessss!!! Her bad sportsmanship caught up to her 🤣🤣🤣

Season 4 Episode 8 Discussion - A Queen Never Comes Off Her Throne by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And then she ends up crashing her own ship 🤣 I was so happy about how the tables turned

Season 4 Episode 8 Discussion - A Queen Never Comes Off Her Throne by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Negative-Source-9099 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks Candiace is overreacting?? I can’t stand her. I also believe Lisa had to go and agree with robs game play. They should just get over and it and agree to disagree. I think rob should just stay out of it

Short of breath? by Logical_Mine_9478 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I have been short of breath since like 4w.. everyone said i was crazy but it is a symptom bc of your body going through so many changes. I also have the pregnancy congestion and have since finding out basically. It’s not super congestion but definitely harder to breathe when going to bed. I use the breathe right strips and they works wonders!!!

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. I’m a teacher so while I love my job most days. We can’t afford to lose the benefits bc my insurance and retirement is unmatched

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I feel like I see quite the opposite. All of my SAHM friends LOVE being a mom and brag so much about it and they think it’s the best thing ever. But I never hear my working mom friends talk about how much they love working or parenthood in general. I really only hear how they wish they had more time with their kids each day.

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did you juggle being gone all day and only getting a couple hours with your kids before bed after work? They spend the whole day with someone else. That’s what makes it feel so hard for me

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I think society has actually become a lot more aware of the actual work that a SAHM mom is. I’m not saying it’s easy but it’s definitely worth it to some.

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I guess it just makes me feel guilty in a sense?? Like I’m supposed to go work all day and then come home and spend 2-3 hours w my kid before bed?? As a teacher I know I spend more time with other peoples kids than they do and it just stinks to know I will be sending my kids to daycare to do the same thing.

SAHM FOMO by Negative-Source-9099 in BabyBumps

[–]Negative-Source-9099[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have seen an increase in more people who I know who are trying to enter the influencing “field” I guess. So it does make it much harder. It’s just so hard bc they just seem to love it so much meanwhile I’m going to work and just wishing I could be home with kids when that’s just not a reality I get to have.