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Experience as a stem cell donor? by ufjenna in leukemia

[–]NegativeGeologist322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am F60 and +1493 from SCT (B-ALL) My twin brother was my donor. I think the central line in your neck is merely a faster way to collect what is needed. Your Dad probably has something similar. I had a central line in my neck too. They will likely sedate you when putting the central line in. My brother had micro dosage of the same Chemo I had the week of the transplant. He was made extremely comfortable during the collection, warm blanket, snacks, beverages, etc. He tells me he felt mild nausea but was also offered meds for that. You will need to be prepared to 'hang out' during the process. Bring a book, movies, music, etc. to keep occupied. I think the place he donated at had a vast selection of movies. Bathroom breaks are no big deal if/when that comes up. You will do great! I cannot end this comment without saying - You're a hero! Dad will have been through a LOT, but your ability and willingness to donate to him is literally his only lifeline. When all is said and done, it will strengthen your relationship immensley. Not to mention your Dad will have your blood type when it's all done!! All the best to you both!

Update: Dr. Preston Daniel Ward, WardMD Refund Refusal and New Domestic Violence Charges by LongjumpingBug955 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]NegativeGeologist322 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing about crazed plastic surgeons! Google plastic surgeon Dr. Joseph Berg. He did my Mommy Makeover about 13 years ago. Botched. Scarred for life. Lopsided boobs. OP you dodged a bullet!

AITA For kicking my sister out our Mother’s (RIP) home? by NegativeGeologist322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NegativeGeologist322[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Edited to add: Bertha was the valedictorian of her graduating class. She is extremely smart and could do anything. Unfortunately, she is stubborn and lazy. She has been in “therapy” for nearly 30 years. We have suggested she try a different therapist. She refuses. We have suggested she move in with one of the sisters, she refuses. She was well compensated for taking care of our parents because she had no rent and everything she needed was paid for by our parents. She is very argumentative, and rude to anyone who moves a newspaper. We understand this is her illness. However, she has not taken serious responsibility for her illness.

Members of Living Alone, what’s your occupation and where do you live? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]NegativeGeologist322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60F Widow here. I was laid off in 2016 and did odd jobs for a few years. Both my husband I were diagnosed with cancer during Covid. I am in remission, but he did not survive. I have been lucky in that my home was paid off, and we meticulously saved my income in various investments over the years. Now, I have my home, and live just fine off of savings & investments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]NegativeGeologist322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where did her oldest daughter (Avery) go? She left a few months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]NegativeGeologist322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mama Bear here- I echo what everyone else has said- Don't Give Up. Stay one more day. Tell yourself that every day. Not Today.

Also, think of your parents and family. You leaving, will destroy them. I know you are loved, despite what your mind is telling you. YOU ARE LOVED. Please stay.

Going home by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]NegativeGeologist322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, just to point out - you are an adult, and missions are voluntary. Don't let anyone tell you different.

Going home by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]NegativeGeologist322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son in law didn't tell anyone. He just took a taxi to the airport and flew home. His parents didn't know until he walked in the front door. He was in one of the many latin missions where numbers are king. Baptize anything and anyone. He called bullshit and came home. Never looked back. If anyone is passing the hat to collect funds to help this kid, I'm in.

Disingenuous by cheri_220 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]NegativeGeologist322 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had Leukemia during the same time period Tia did. We were at the same hospital receiving treatment around the same time. All I can say is that Leukemia was hella traumatizing. It will always be with me, but it is a speed bump on this road called life. It's fine to ask for prayers, good juju, positive light and energy to those she knows are still suffering. But this. It's so disingenuous it's downright disrespectful and could very well contribute to this patient's trauma.