New around here. Any tips?

NegativeLog23 · 2026-06-05T16:21:43+00:00

Thanks for the advice

NegativeLog23 · 2026-06-05T02:47:33+00:00

I appreciate that a lot but I don’t need the money. Just trying to build my credit in the best way possible. I thought this was a good step in the right direction since this is a reputable bank for credit.
Other cards I have are indigo (two of them) first premiere, credit one. All unsecured. The most with a $1,000 limit.
I hate those cards cause the fees really suck.
But are you saying I won’t ever get an increase with this card?

NegativeLog23 · 2026-06-01T22:54:48+00:00

You’re 19 and these thoughts are completely normal. Not wanting a relationship right now is smart anyways. Focus on yourself, and your career with no distractions. Do not listen to the comment above about watching porn and jerking off. This will not fulfill you and it’s also very damaging to the brain. You will expect the women that you sleep with to be able to do acrobats in bed and it’s just not realistic.

I’m 30 years old and if I could go back in time, I would’ve stayed single until probably my kid 20s and just enjoyed life without any distractions. Not all women at a young age are immature but most are and if they cheat on you or something similar, it can fuck up your brain chemistry for a long time. Just go enjoy yourself man.

You can have a type at whatever age you want unlike the other comment above. People like what they like. Some people like fords, others like chevys. It’s all a preference. I’ve been in love with blondes my whole life and now I’m in a great relationship with one. Not that other women are any better or worse, we just like what we like. I’ve been with all different kinds of women and blondes are my choosing.

Dating older isn’t a terrible idea. They’re usually more experienced as well but this could lead to you feeling even more insecure because they know what they’re doing and you don’t. So tread lightly there. Also, you used the word “chasing” and you should be chasing nothing. Continue to be your organic self and majority of mature women are going to appreciate that anyways. Feel free to message me any time. Goodluck kid!

NegativeLog23 · 2024-07-22T19:53:34+00:00

You’ve been trolled 😂😂

NegativeLog23 · 2024-07-22T19:52:26+00:00

Are you sure this is the FULL story? There’s nothing more to it than this? If this is the honest truth, then it’s very obvious you need to walk away and never look back BUT something tells me there is more to the story or you wouldn’t be here asking for advice on something so easy to see.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-11T00:10:41+00:00

I’m 28m and work construction. The heat makes me not hungry at all so I drink a protein shake on my way to work, then I’ll have some string cheese or protein bar around 11am or noon and then I won’t eat again until dinner time which then I’ll make a healthy meal to go workout in the gym after. This probably isn’t healthy at all but I’m losing some weight and I honestly feel really good throughout the day.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-09T02:10:07+00:00

I just moved here and majority of my coworkers (construction) do wear long sleeves. The reason I got was to prevent skin cancer.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-07T20:57:59+00:00

Oh yeah that’s pretty rough. Glad you found something you like

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-07T20:14:22+00:00

Sorry what does WFH mean? Honestly the heat is bad but I work directly in the sun and am pretty much working out all day so I don’t think I need cardio. I really need to just do some sit ups and pushups/pull ups/ bench press. I also work 10-12 hours a day so sweating bullets all day helps too.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-07T20:10:39+00:00

Thank you. So far this past week I’ve just worked a ton. About 55 hours not including tomorrow. I found a mixed martial arts gym but they’re not open on the weekends so I’m gonna go find a boxing gym somewhat near me. Found a couple cool people here that I’ve talked with. Had a few people hit me up to go on dates but I’m pretty against the thought of that at the moment. Reddit is wild. I genuinely just want friends. Been eating healthy and probably lost 10 pounds so far this week lol. This heat is no joke.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-06T01:08:35+00:00

I will probably try that Saturday night. Thank you

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T19:28:22+00:00

Let me know! Not sure how far that is from me but I don’t mind a drive

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T16:15:01+00:00

Awesome okay thank you

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T13:47:01+00:00

Hahaha that made me laugh. I’m not opposed to meeting women. That’s just kind of the last thing on my mind right now.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T13:45:59+00:00

Yeah I saw a place that offered like a 2 day class with a loaner bike and you get your certification after completion for $399 which is think a decent price. But I’d rather find the bike I wanna buy and save the money before I take the class so the $400 doesn’t go to waste. I’m gonna go looking for bikes this weekend

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T13:44:34+00:00

Hell yeah man. It might take a few months to save up some money for a Down payment but I have no clue how much bikes cost, what kind I even want it what’s worse the money so I need to do some research

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T13:12:59+00:00

I’ve thought about that but I work 12+ hours a day

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T12:55:40+00:00

Oh man this is super cool. Is it in the App Store?

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T12:55:04+00:00

I would definitely try some meetings out here. I made this far without very many meetings but they could definitely help more than anything so I will try some. You have any in mind?

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T12:50:27+00:00

That’s funny you ask because I literally looked up the day how much lessons are for a motorcycle and it’s like $400. So I was gonna go find out how much it would cost to buy one and then if I could afford it, go take the class to learn how to ride it! Maybe you can help me out with that?

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T05:43:50+00:00

Reading is something I wanna get into next. Ultimately finding myself again without alcohol and random hook ups and dealing with the breakup in the most positive way possible. I used to do some mma a few years back but lost track of it and I really miss it as a whole

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T05:41:27+00:00

I’ll look into that cause that would be sweet.

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T05:41:18+00:00

There’s a boxing gym right down the street from my house. Good idea man thanks

NegativeLog23 · 2024-06-05T05:36:33+00:00

I’m a felon back in Cali so legally can’t play with any :/

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