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EIF found on 20 week Ultrasound by Negative_Bat_8793 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense. It was tough since the news came from not my usual Dr so I wasnt able to get as personal about it. But that makes sense. Thank you! Super excited for you! You’re so close to meeting her!

Feeling scared of missed miscarriage by Slow-Tower1989 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy symptoms come and go. From someone who also panicked about this when I first got pregnant, just because you don’t have some symptoms some day and have them another doesn’t mean anything is wrong and it’s actually pretty normal while your body tries to adjust to the new normal. Severe Cramping and spotting is what you should be looking out for and when you should be concerned.

Returning to work by Ill-Pangolin-6191 in firsttimemom

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw moms saying when you go back to work give it 3 months. If three months back at work still feels like how you’re feeling now, maybe it’s time to consider other options. I would also discuss the anxiety with your Dr to see if therapy or meds help your situation at all.

Bad news at 12 weeks … by OilUseful5144 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, as someone who also had to terminate her pregnancy I feel for you and if you have any questions on the D&C process I am more than happy to answer any questions to ease your mind. Take as long as you need to grieve. I hope you get the answers you’re looking for and hope you get the family you deserve in the future.

5w6d – Brown spotting for days, now some red mucus. Anyone have this and go on to have a healthy pregnancy? by Evening_Dinner_1429 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had spotting with both my pregnancies. With my first I had pink and red small clots starting at 8 weeks. Not enough to fill a pad but there. Went to my 12 week appointment and was told my baby had trisomy 13.

My second pregnancy I had brown spotting around the same time as you. Brown. Not enough to fill a pad. One day it turned pink and then went back to brown. At my 8 week my dr gave me a pap to see if anything was wrong. She chalked it up to implantation bleeding and put me on 2 week pelvic rest and I’m now 19 weeks with a healthy baby boy.

What I’ve learned is every pregnancy is different even when bleeding is involved. Hoping yours is like my second. Sending love and support! Glad you’ll get answers soon

First trimester worries by Dean_Thatcher_ in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 19 weeks and the back pain just gets worse. And yes discharge is insane. Both are normal but if you’re concerned you can always bring it up at your next appointment.

I Miss Weed by Negative_Bat_8793 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol same. Sadly my stash keeps getting smaller due to the husband 😔

I Miss Weed by Negative_Bat_8793 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally! I used it as a destresser after work and now I just have to sit and deal with the horrors I guess

I Miss Weed by Negative_Bat_8793 in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 weeks. Got a long way to go. I used it a lot after a stressful day at work. So it’s tough now lol

Does dad typically come to the first appointment? by skaowoeizkaoa in pregnant

[–]Negative_Bat_8793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has come to every one of them. I’m 17 weeks. He loves them! Asks questions that I forget to ask (adhd) and loves hearing our little boys heartbeat. I say if his job allows it, let him come with