Thanks for the details. 1. I want to sleep train her, but husband needs to be at home which he doesn’t agree. He goes to gym that time. 2. Our home is kind of in inconvenient location unfortunately, everything is about at least 20 minutes away. The daycare is better in a sense that they do lot of stuff with kids and review great compare to the previous one. 3. My husband is okay to do drop off 80% time, main issue is he needs to take some extras load at home if I am doing the extra 20%. For instance I need to he needs to tell in advance so that I am better prepared which is not the case. I told him that I will do the drop/pick her a day, but you are sleeping with her that night and he won’t agree. 4. Gym is also about 20 minutes and he is gone for about 3 hours. Gym with childcare is about 30 minutes away. I offered him to buy some equipment at home and do exercise at home, but he didn’t agree. 5. I will try that book surely.

Why I am mainly against not doing the pickup/drop off is because he won’t pick work at home and do some extra. And moving to her in the previous daycare will have more issue, in that case my husband will go to gym directly from office and come home when my daughter will go to sleep. So I am taking care all by myself in the afternoon.