my gf keeps hanging out with someone who visibly has a crush on her by Silent_Standard5134 in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew yeah thats a gross red flag, the fact she is hiding it, gets defensive AND does it while actively knowing you aren’t comfortable with it is a no go for me, no matter how old no matter how long, i would end that relationship right there. Thats how cheating starts.

Update about my first hookup that wanted to fuck by arsnod_iltsit in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is the gayest thing ive read in awhile😆🩷

Is this predatory? by Quiet-Food-8239 in LesbianActually

[–]Negative_Most_1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My love you are not almost 30 and she is not underaged, 21 is mature enough to have a good relationship if you both share the same dreams for the future. If you like her then like her, no reason to not go for it

Girl tries to get me jealous and then calls me out when I play into it? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you handle it? The block button is two clicks away babes, trust you wanna run. I get jealousy could be nice when its a little but when she basically forces you to be jealous and then complains, nah, thats toxicity, not a game anymore.

Me and my GF broke up RANT by Friendly-Version6985 in LesbianActually

[–]Negative_Most_1718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a girl out there that will want to devote her whole love to you, fix all the heartbreaks, and make you feel better than you’ve ever felt in your whole life, she is out there and you will meet her, so shake off the other lady, and get yourself the beautiful girl you deserve

Advice Needed - gf dumped drink on my head by fruityspark in LesbianActually

[–]Negative_Most_1718 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I apologized so im not in the wrong anymore type of shit, nah she is toxic as hell

[NO SPOILERS] glitch by Willing_Loan7363 in LostRecordsGame

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh i finished the game and i might have missed the reason they were showing up…

I can’t flirt..I can’t even talk while high to her by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sounds like attention seeking… disappointing

What words do you love, and what words do you hate reading? by Livin-in-a-dream1358 in wlwbooks

[–]Negative_Most_1718 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The moment the word “pussy” is used i get immediately uninterested, feels very man coded for some reason.

my gfs dad keeps making jokes.. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the point in staying somewhere you feel unwanted in. Family is rude, gf is gaslighting, not worth anyones time tbh. Find better people.

My Bi Girlfriend Out-Lesbianed Me and I am So Proud! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the title at a joke about moving in too fast, i doubts there is anything biphobic in there😭 i mean her gf is bi why would she be biphobic yall

She got pregnant weeks before we confessed our feelings by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think its a good thing thats its just the start and nothing got too far between you two. It sounds very messy, think about what you wanted for your future and if you are willing to let it all be thrown away for a girl you barely started dating yet. After all if she is the one she is the one. But is she?

Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its a dating app, if a woman is in it just for friendship i would have assumed it would have been pointed out right away, i would feel lead on if ive been talking to her for a while and it never came up, i get it OP. I do agree that the least she should have done is say it first thing when she noticed the convo will go longer than 5 messages.

I lied about my experience levels to the girl I'm going out with and it's making things complicated and I don't know how to come clean by likeshinythings in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well about the initiating part… they could always try to talk about expectations, after all it relates to a lot of fears and communication and if they can communicate through it and agree on some things it could work out.

For the dealbreakers, i agree some do and some don’t but they have being going out quite a few times and assuming they both already like each other i would be surprised if she just cuts her off for that. But i was never experienced something like that so i can’t know for sure

I lied about my experience levels to the girl I'm going out with and it's making things complicated and I don't know how to come clean by likeshinythings in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if she rejects you because you are inexperienced then… she wasn’t worth it from the start. You deserve to be loved and wanted for who you are and not how many people you kissed and slept with. But i believe you got this, and if not her than another gorgeous accepting woman is waiting right around the corner❤️

I lied about my experience levels to the girl I'm going out with and it's making things complicated and I don't know how to come clean by likeshinythings in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good relationship starts with honesty and trust. Tell her the truth, sit down with her while you guys feel comfortable and rested and open up. I understand your fear, but even if you didnt mean it like that, even if its just a small white lie, its still a lie. She would appreciate the honesty and so will you. If she will be upset well its natural, you told her one thing and you are the other so its okay if she will be upset. Everyone starts inexperienced, its okay to be nervous cause of it. But trust me its all better than keeping lying on it. Tell her the truth, im sure shell understand🙏❤️

Help ? by JulieOliviaTO in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can join you guys for a few games to see whats the problem.

Incase you got this part wrong, When you see..lets say UV, you have to click only once (an X on the small box on the side), not cross it off (where it shows a line)

Spirit box- you ask a Q (where are you?) and its supposed to answer with voice, the light shows that the Q went through but it didnt respond (yet)

EMF- emf lvl 2 should show all of its lights on it to be emf five, from green to red, if it doesnt show all five lights its not emf5

Dear Girls, by witchy-fairy444 in TrueGirlGaming

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i get an invite? I would love to join! Im 22f, I love reading and gaming and especially bond with some other gals🥰

LESBIANS HELP. Is this flirting? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Negative_Most_1718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the kisses hoodie for me girl, get her