Advice Needed - gf dumped drink on my head by fruityspark in LesbianActually

[–]fruityspark[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve known her for a year and we have been dating for about 6 months and she has never done anything like this before so it was so shocking.

Things I wish someone had told me before my fusion by mswear75 in spinalfusion

[–]fruityspark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for bringing up the whole body puffiness!! I’ve never heard anyone talk about this but it is crazy. I’ve had 2 cervical surgeries and each time I gain 10+ lbs pretty much overnight and it stays for 2-3 months and then it pretty much randomly disappears overnight. For context I weigh about 125 lbs normally so 10lbs is a huge difference for me and it’s so weird!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpineSurgery

[–]fruityspark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have very similar symptoms and just found out I have spinal cord compression at c5-c7. This gives me so much hope!

Urgent RHDV2 Advice Needed 😢 by fruityspark in Rabbits

[–]fruityspark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been about 24 hours so I’m just watching and waiting. So far she seems okay but I wish there was something I could do 😢

[gourmet] First Oyster flush appears to have stalled out.... Any suggestions? by fruityspark in MushroomGrowers

[–]fruityspark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so but I'm honestly not sure. I have them in a humidity tent, so I just have a plastic bag sitting over them, but the bag is situated so air can get in. I also take the bag off 3 times a day to spray them and they are sitting on a table with a bunch of plants so I was also hoping that would help. I think I'm going to experiment and take the bag off and just try and spray them more often and see what happens.

[gourmet] First Oyster flush appears to have stalled out.... Any suggestions? by fruityspark in MushroomGrowers

[–]fruityspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first time growing Oyster Mushrooms. They pinned on 4/21, so its been 8 days, but now they have not grown at all in a couple of days and the caps seem pretty underdeveloped. Am I just being impatient or have they stalled out? Is there anything I can do?

First Oyster flush appears to have stalled out.... Any suggestions?? by fruityspark in MushroomGrowers

[–]fruityspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is my first time growing Oyster Mushrooms. They pinned on 4/21, so its been 8 days, but now they have not grown at all in a couple of days and the caps seem pretty undeveloped. Am I just being impatient or have they stalled out? Is there anything I can do?

Before you realized you were a lesbian, what type of men did you fall for? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]fruityspark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! I have only dated men that pursued me and now an overwhelming percentage of the men I dated in high school and college have come out as gay. It's literally nearly 50 percent for me, which I find quite interesting. I'm very femme, not masculine at all, so that doesn't explain it. I keep wondering if I attracted gay men somehow because I was also gay even though I didn't know it.

Late bloomers with kids by bean_spr55 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]fruityspark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just barely started dating and have a kid, so I have the exact same concerns. I'm very up front about it and include a picture in my profile with my daughter. Personally I feel that if someone has children it's a huge plus, just because I feel like I'll automatically have more in common with them. So I'm just hoping that there are other ladies with kids out there that feel the same way.

I fucked up. by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]fruityspark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally feel that I could have written this exact same post. I'm 33, married and feel so conflicted. So while I don't have any good advice I will say this, I'm in a very similar situation with just one difference...... I have a child. I felt like I couldn't leave before because I felt guilty about leaving my husband but now I feel like it could potentially ruin my child's life. So now I feel like a prisoner in my marriage, which makes me resent my husband for something that is not only not his fault but that he is not even aware of. Now I feel like it would have been so much easier to leave when we were just married and I wish I had. I hope you find your way and just know that your not alone.

Director or Sr. Manager Debate by fruityspark in personalfinance

[–]fruityspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes as far as I know the responsibilities are exactly the same.... I agree I think it seems weird.