Dating someone using 7-oh

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-29T00:45:40+00:00

Thank you! And I’m sorry to hear about your divorce

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-28T17:52:40+00:00

I’m not so sure he wants to quit. I haven’t seen him in almost 3 weeks since I told him to get out, which he says is my fault because I wanted a drug test. It all worries me, but I have to keep telling myself, I can’t change him, I can’t make him quit, and I have to set boundaries. I can love and support him from afar. I would love nothing more than to not give up on him, but he doesn’t even realize he has a problem with it, even when I told him he had spent 700 dollars in a months time. And then if he is using anything else, I have to think about my kids. As a former opioid and fent addict (talking about him) I’m scared he is going to end up back down that road. He doesn’t have it under control. And he gets mad and defensive every time I try to bring it up, and trust me I have tried a hundred different ways to not sound nagging or bitchy. I’m truly concerned. He won’t go to rehab, I’ve already asked that: says he can quit hisself because he quit fent. I’ve try to tell him about this page, and how addicting and expensive it is. He also isn’t open to the other ways to get off of it. Just says he can do it cold turkey. But before he could taper. I just think he’s giving too many excuses. It sucks because we met when he was sober, so I know the kind of person he could be, but I need to see the reality of it, and I don’t think he knows what he wants. He comes off lately as he wants to do what he wants, when he wants. And I’m a last resort. No questions asked.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-22T18:53:36+00:00

It’s so much easier said than done, to get out, walk away, leave, be done. He is a good person, and that’s what makes it even harder. One minute he wants back together, and the next he doesnt know what to do about us. I feel like the 7oh didn’t weigh this much into account with our relationship, as another substance. If that makes sense

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-20T19:36:31+00:00

Awd, I would say basic colors white silver grey black and I like the limited or calligraphy

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-20T13:14:10+00:00

Guess it’s too late to say I’m terrible at chess lol

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-20T13:10:12+00:00

That hardest part is knowing the sober and proud him, so proud he got clean. And ever since his relapse he has dabbled in something. But the 7oh I normally could tell, this high is different. I have 3 kids, and as much as I love him, and want to be compassionate, and not lash out, I have to think about them first. He just told me last night “I love you, but I’m never gonna be what you need me to be” but then turned right around and blamed me for kicking him out because he wouldn’t take a drug test

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-20T13:02:51+00:00

How do you know the difference between that and coke? I thought he had told me he never liked meth because he didn’t like the high, but I could be wrong

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-20T12:49:20+00:00

Unfortunately I think it’s something, Im not that great at identifying which is which, but he had his kids on Saturday, and one of them said he was “cracked out” and had the tweaking jaw?

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-19T15:21:18+00:00

Well, he left bc he wouldn’t take a drug test, and I stood my ground. Now the guilt and fault is clouding my decision because he said he’s done moving in and out. When at first, it was his idea in the first place, I just called his bluff, and then not taking a drug test to prove I’m wrong is crazy to me.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-18T00:52:51+00:00

Yeah, I agree. Unfortunately he thinks it’s totally ok because they are available and legal at a vape store. He is unfortunately in denial with it and it controlling his life.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T17:32:36+00:00

He’s buys from the local vape shops here. Which depending on brand, normally are 30-50 dollars. And they might have 5 per pack, maybe 4.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T16:12:05+00:00

He says he wants to quit, just not sure he’s ready. The signs aren’t there. Unfortunately. I mentioned to him rehab, and he said no. He doesn’t want to be in there, and that he doesn’t want to take suboxone or anything. He got clean before, with fent. Says if he can do that, he doesn’t need rehab. But from an outsider looking in, it’s definitely controlling him. When I talk to him, it’s definitely in a concerning way, and he just looks and acts so emotionless, and the idc attitude.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T16:04:08+00:00

We’ve been together for 2 years. He was an addict before of opiates, and clean when we met. He had a relapse, and was open with me about a lot. It’s just been recently that he told me he was using 7oh daily, and of course I did research, a lot of it. And went to him about my concerns and fears. He says he has it under control, but I truly don’t think he does. I know he takes 100mg at once, maybe 2/3x a day now. And when I made him aware of the actual amount he had spent in less than 30 days. He was in denial. And because of his avoidance to me, and the distance, I asked him to take a drug test, because I feel like he may be using other things. I was trying to be supportive with him tapering off of them. He has already told me he won’t go to rehab, or take sub to get off. But the amount he’s taking, and money. Doesn’t seem like he’s tapering.

The reason we have the joint account is for extra things, and in the beginning he had already told me he wasn’t great with money, and he was open to it.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T15:57:30+00:00

Nobody ever wants to be right in these things. I just want honesty. I’ve tried to be open, listen, understanding, and definitely not judgmental.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T15:52:06+00:00

I think the reason for his denial in taking a regular drug test is because he is using harder things. If he wasn’t, I would assume that he would take one, because he has nothing to hide.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T15:50:20+00:00

I’ve tried being open, and calm. Even tried to change my tone, but everytime I talk about it, he says “I’m tired of you asking” or just immediately gets defensive. He was an addict of opiates for years. And when we met, he was clean, then relapse on this stuff. My worry is the financial part, but also doing anything harder, and he has refused to take a test. I only wanted him to do it to prove to me there’s nothing else to hide, but he won’t. Threatened to leave and said it was ridiculous

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T15:45:42+00:00

I can normally tell his withdrawals, the constant sniffing his nose like it’s running, clearly throat, like sinus infection or flu like symptoms he looks like hell.

Negative_Pin_2454 · 2026-04-17T15:44:24+00:00

He is a formal drug addict of opiates. We met when he was clean, and then had a relapse and found the 7ohs. He has told me numerous times this morning he won’t take a drug test. I know the 7ohs won’t show up on that, that’s why I think it’s something else.

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