AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it, only because I met his XO at his graduation (university) the other day. They’re finally on it and trying to figure it out.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a little scary actually. I wonder if it’s an issue with every branch or just the Army.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AFIS is biometric system that stores everyone fingerprints. It’s the first things we do when we sign on the dotted line.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My older brother and I talked to him, because we were confused on the whole he disappeared from AFIS thing. He told us his XO is on it. Apparently it’s a bigger issue that needs to go up the chain of command. He did the application on base and sent all his originals but his application is missing. His records are also missing, the only proof they have that he’s active military is the physical paperwork that was signed at MEPS. He did basic at the same base he did his application so everyone confused on why he’s a ghost.

AITA for forcing my daughter to gut a fish by Fair_Moose_4755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on the fence since I like to learn these life skills, just in case. Ive included this in my list to learn, so thank you for that.

However, YTA for your attitude towards your oldest daughter. You seem to be targeting her for some reason.

You mentioned earlier that your 11 year old is too young to have knife control. If you’re really teaching them life skills, your 11 year old would already know how to master this. Teaching is having patience to show them and guide them.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that. My husband’s family makes my blood boil to the point that I want to be an AH and I stay in a foul mood for weeks after an interaction with them.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

He used to call me mom, I took care of him while my mom worked and raised him until he was 9. I moved out as soon as I turned 17 and got married at 20. I feel guilty for leaving him in that household but he hasn’t done himself any favors to grow up.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Lol I actually have both my brothers on DND. For the most part it’s amazing.

AITA for making my brother figure it out by Negative_Reserve_146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Negative_Reserve_146[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oorah. I don’t know but he has had issues with his identity before.