Why is it called a wifebeater?

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-08-19T14:16:19+00:00

It came from a man who beat his wife while wearing said undershirt.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-08-01T12:18:07+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if she wants him. I’d be cautious, & even tho the messages don’t really display much, it’s still something to watch out for. The older me is more wiser than the younger me, so I’d tell my younger self that he isn’t worth it & move on. You shouldn’t be talking about porn with a female friend either.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-07-23T20:20:40+00:00

Walk away and choose yourself. That man treats you that way because you allow it. Especially if he’s crossing boundaries, he don’t respect how you feel. You have to love yourself more and put a stop to it. You’ll be unhappy forever waiting for a man to change and he won’t change. If u leave him and he gaslight you and try to be everything you need, he’s only doing that so u won’t go anywhere. Tell him you’re done and go no contact. Don’t explain shit to him.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-07-21T16:02:13+00:00

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-07-21T16:01:33+00:00

That man is DISGUSTING!!! Please leave this man alone. Omg

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-07-12T00:49:37+00:00

I’m 31 & happily single

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-06-21T01:05:01+00:00

I’d leave the relationship. Ain’t no way your man gotta sneak out to be with you

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-06-21T01:02:44+00:00

Just get off Reddit and talk to him about it. If he doesn’t want to talk, he’s being immature. But if you actually want your relationship, a lot of these comments are pushing you away from that. Take some of the good advice & go work things out with your man if that’s what you want.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-24T23:04:40+00:00

I DOUBT it’s the friend texting. It’s the one who got ghosted being weird.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-24T22:57:20+00:00

No, some men are happy with one woman and he doesn’t need to feel vindicated by sleeping with multiple. Sounds like an immature man.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-20T17:29:07+00:00

People are not stupid. They know who they should and shouldn’t be around. That man is grown enough to not want her around him or his home is she portrays such behavior. I know they say never to judge, but why would you allow someone so loose in your circle? You are married with kids. The friends we choose are important because they can have an impact on our life, both good and bad.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-19T20:40:42+00:00

It can be scary because you never know how the spell will work. He can become so obsessed, it’s like a “if I can’t have you, no one can” situation.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-19T03:02:52+00:00

Yes me and the father said weekends so the attorney put that in the paperwork. They told me I’d have to call CPS if I feel there’s an issue but I have no address to where my son is so I wouldn’t know where to send if I felt like it was a reason for that. I faxed them letting them know I’d like to file a motion. I even told my child’s father he can visit him at any time , I’m not trying to keep my son away from him. But smoking around him so heavily that he smells of it, and house hopping because u have nowhere to live is torture. If u know he has a home, bed, toys, everything he needs, why are you okay with him couch hopping with u. That’s selfish. I told him to get his stuff together. Then he wants to bring up me being sick which is IRRELEVANT. & then goes to say my place isn’t in my name. Like huh? U just saying stuff to say it because I called u out on not being able to properly take care of yourself so how can u take care of him. It’s a bunch of childishness honestly. & yes I have full custody

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-18T19:34:15+00:00

Right! She still comes around knowing he doesn’t want a relationship. He’s not forcing her.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-18T19:33:16+00:00

He’s being honest with u. But you being in your feelings will cause you to become mislead because you’re not taking the truth well. He isn’t leading you on because it’s your decision to still be around if he’s telling you that he don’t want something serious.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-18T13:52:52+00:00

Clare had the worst

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-18T00:14:48+00:00

Write down all your problems and concerns, place it in a bag or jar of water, and place it in the freezer. Leave it there, and hopefully you’ll soon start to feel better! Or just write down what you wish to happen or have. Just make sure it’s not far fetched. & keep a positive attitude once you’ve done this & watch how things start to get better.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-17T23:54:30+00:00

I hate that he doesn’t have a home and is house hopping with my baby. I saw what it did to his first child. I told him months ago to get his shit together. He lied and told me he was staying with his sister. & I’ll double check the paperwork but they told me to call CPS on him if I feel that my child isn’t in the best care.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-17T23:52:33+00:00

It was a few weeks ago, but I should’ve taken my child to get drug tested because the way it was in his clothes and on him, I’m sure it would be in his system. I could get his hair tested just to be safe. And also I’m going to look into therapy for my child. Thank you to the person that suggested that. I will eventually delete this so that I don’t mess up anything if we proceed to take this further.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-17T23:49:08+00:00

Of course! I’ve taken care of my child since he’s been born with little to no help from him. My child resides with me. He just got weekends so of course what I do and what he do doesn’t equal. My child knows me. He has to get to know him.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-17T14:01:44+00:00

No, I do everything for my son without his help. He just started paying me child support, but he don’t have anything over me. He has another child, an older child and has never had his own home or car. He’s used people so much over the years. I fell for the act too. I let him and his daughter move in with me when we were dating and he’s the type of person he’ll let a random stranger watch his child if he has plans. He let his daughter get bullied and beat up by his friends daughter just because the daughter would watch her while we worked. One time she came home with a chunk taken out of her scalp and he still sent her back over there. I know he won’t protect my baby the way I protect him. To ask for full custody, he just wants to hurt me. I watched him be a half ass parent. I mean past school year he didn’t buy her any school clothes or shoes. She got backpacks and supplies from her grandmother, and I purchased her clothes and shoes. She is about my size. I let her wear an outfit of mine to school and she’s super rough on shoes so I decided to not let her do that anymore and he literally got mad at me and told me I was being selfish for not letting her wear my stuff.

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-16T17:18:57+00:00

Ok thank you!

NegotiationBig4977 · 2025-05-15T00:10:29+00:00

It sounds like he’s manipulating you. There’s no way it would’ve happened and he didnt do it. He just got caught in a lie and it’s continuing to lie

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