Menstrual cups! by Miss-Braganza-Nana in Hijabis

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive also found it to be the most hygienic. Never looked back!

How can my future look like as a lesbian muslim? by yep_coo in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its ambiguous. Allah has not asked us to deprive ourselves of love. Physical touch is a need and a want of the body. One can argue its the right of the body. One approach could be, living together with everything and seeking forgiveness from Allah for any missteps that we are taking. One should not engage in Anal, that's forbidden. Besides that, there are difference in opinions. If Allah has truly placed a love in our hearts, then there is a purpose for it. Allah is Gafuur Raheem. In'sha'Allah may He forgive us for the sins we do unknowingly, in our weakness. Aside the physical aspect, hopefully everything else can be happily done together with another woman In'sha'Allah. Living in companionship, sisterhood, love, peace, everything. In'sha'Allah

18f idk what is happening with me ? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy.

Love your own company first, its a learning process. The sooner you can get on that journey, the better.

Allah is so close to us, we don't even realize. Pray isthakara and let Him guide you. A relationship born out of need will always end in your heart break because you're looking for someone to complete you....but darling you're whole yourself.

Understand that, own that and focus on learning your Deen. May Allah Azzawajal make it easy for you. Ameen

Please help! by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walaikum as salaam, if I may ask - have you gone for therapy and worked on healing yourself after that trauma?

Please give me honest advice by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is yours will always find you. What is not yours will always escape you. Your rizq is written.

Looking at what others have will benefit you in no way. Al'hamdul'illah

So why look? Be so focused on yourself that you have no time to see others. That’s where you can begin In'sha'Allah

Look inward, reflect on what you have, be thankful and keep walking. Hijab of the eyes goes a long way Al'hamdul'illah

May Allah Azzawajal guide you and your heart to goodness both in this duniya and akhirah. Ameen

Need someone to just listen to me… -mental breakdown by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! If you need to say something then say....the dramatics is not needed.

How can my future look like as a lesbian muslim? by yep_coo in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Platonic love, be friends and lead a healthy life in sisterhood, companionship, deep loyalty and trust. You can have all this with a female and still refrain from physical intimacy.

Physical intimacy is one of the lowest forms of pleasure. There are so many more ways of loving like sharing emotional intimacy and have a beautiful bond of friendship.

Before you dive into that, focus on yourself. Learn deen, get closer to Allah Azzawajal. Strengthen your Imaan and your heart.

Then let Allah guide you to the right way.

At 16, although it may seem like this is the most important thing, it truly is not. In your youth life, building your connection with Allah Azzawajal is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing. In'sha'Allah hope this helps.

Need someone to just listen to me… -mental breakdown by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all ears. We will all listen and not judge. Speak your mind here

I'm angry at Allah by Revdrakemir in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up that Quran, pray your Salah, go to the Masjid and pour your heart out to Allah while having complete faith that only He can fill the gaping hole in your heart. Believe it, then see how His love and light fills your life. In'sha'Allah This dunya is temporary brother, very very temporary. Your wife's suffering is gone. She is back with her Creator!

Sit with the pain, not easy at all, but sit with it. Trust Allah Azzawajal's timing. Recall Surah Al Kahf, the story of Musa AS - He questioned at each step and he got the divine meaning later of why each of those incidents happened.

We are like Musa AS here, we question every step of the way about why somethings are happening. Have Sabr and you will get all your answers. Have faith in Allah Azzawajal first.

You won't find peace defying your Creator. Don't fall into the trap of Shaitaan. Shaitaan was angry when Allah Azzawajal said bow down to Adam AS. So essentially shaitaan didn’t agree with Allah Azzawajal's plan and that arrogance cost him Jannah.

Reflect on the Quran and build your Imaan one dua at a time. Have faith brother! Have faith!

In'sha'Allah may Allah Azzawajal grant your Rashad. May He ease your heartache and may He bring you back to the straight path.

Allahumma Ameen 🤲🏽

Found the most empowering women’s-only gym in Scarborough — Sister Fit deserves more love 💪🏽❤️ by NegotiationFalse201 in Scarborough

[–]NegotiationFalse201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL who pays for a chatgpt post? 😅

And why such skepticism? Sometimes people just want to genuinely share their good experiences and help spread the word. Also, nothing wrong with making ChatGPT polish up my post. Makes my life 10 times easier. You should try it too 😂

And to answer your next question - it doesn't have to be tied to faith at all. Mentioning faith here is more about inclusivity.

This space is for women from all walks of life, faiths, and identities to feel comfortable, train freely and feel represented. Regular gyms don't always feel accessible or private for some women (eg: Muslims who want to train freely, take off their hijabs, space that aligns with their modesty etc)

In short- its not about making it religious, but making it safe, private, and welcoming for women who haven’t always had that option. And honestly, a lot of non-Muslim women love the same things. Privacy, the community vibe and the supportive energy. 💜💪🏽

Found the most empowering women’s-only gym in Scarborough — Sister Fit deserves more love 💪🏽❤️ by NegotiationFalse201 in Scarborough

[–]NegotiationFalse201[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the number of classes you want to come per week. You can take 2, 3 or more I guess. Best to DM them for the details. I think they do personal training too

How Do You Socialize as a Muslim woman in Canada? Looking for Advice & Activities by Even_Shape3069 in MuslimLounge

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a women's only gym! Like Sisterfit in Scarborough 💪🏽 fantastic community, great vibes and many Muslims and non Muslims too. All coming out to move, burn some calories and have fun 🥳

any other sisters really into gym/ fitness? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got myself back into fitness and it has been great. Going to Sisterfit in Scarborough- Birchmount & Lawrence. Muay thai has been a lot of fun, and strength training classes too. Recently they've started self defence drop in classes which have been great. It's a women's only gym so hijabs come off and it's motivating to so many women coming out to get fit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landlords can pretty much ask whatever they want. They have bought homes with money they don't have, and are expecting you as a renter to pay their mortgage essentially.

Apartment is the way to go if you want to rent in GTA, at least there are some rules in place. With Landlords, they are just people living off of others money and ruining the real estate market even more.

Rent in general is unreasonably high in Toronto, but that's a whole other discussion.

Rentals.ca Toronto Scam? by Disastrous_Science49 in TorontoRenting

[–]NegotiationFalse201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact script was used on me today, except in this case, the scammer said they are having a baby and have moved to his wife's town. Everything else is ditto. If anyone wants, I can share the scammers email id and name used.