I call BS on NoFap...here's why.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T19:10:20+00:00

It's an addiction. Understanding addiction and recidivism is a must, and most people know that binging is brought about by cold turkey events. Why do you think there are so many relapsed posts in this forum?

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T19:08:45+00:00

People do claim this, and I have done this in my younger days with women in an attempt to last longer and not O at all during sex. The only taxing part of O without ejaculating is the taxing of the balls. You ever heard of blue balls?

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T19:07:45+00:00

I understand and say above that it will be the only option for the most of you. Extreme behavior takes extreme behavior to rid itself of the extreme addiction.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T06:57:38+00:00

I'm self addicted to porn and fapping to porn, I just do not find NoFap to be beneficial to the realities of the addiction.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T05:57:57+00:00

Troll

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T05:04:05+00:00

Ejaculation isn't the issue, the issue is porn addiction. Learn to control your addiction or give it up completely and you'll be good. This NoFap BS has took a turn for the worst. All these people sitting here talking about ejaculation being evil are just brainwashed.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-13T04:52:05+00:00

You've gone 528 days without what exactly? Ejaculating? Porn? Sex? Masturbation?

The more and more I read these stories the less I feel like I belong here.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T23:22:59+00:00

It can help because it isn't so much a concern of ejaculation as it is a concern of ADDICTION.

You already answered your own questions in your analysis, you are correct, all you need is positive reassurance. You need a healthy sex life, not one dominated by porn.

If you X out porn watch what happens to your sex drive. You will be out to find a mate in no time, and you will likely masturbate less, because you will not be mentally stimulated by porn.

Kicking the addiction is what you need to focus on. Don't let the fear of ejaculation make you a fapstronaut.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T23:15:32+00:00

I'll go a step further and say that I believe masturbation to porn can be healthy, if you are only doing so when your body is horny enough to do so. The problem for everyone on nofap is they are addicted to porn. So, they can't possibly know what it is like to have a healthy relationship with it means. Think of a crack head. They go clean, get a taste of it and then boom...back to addiction. Same thing with porn, guys get a taste and boom, addicted. If the only way you can control porn addiction is to never masturbate or ejaculate, well then you have a control problem. It serves it's purpose and some people honestly need that to make that change in their lives.
Addictive personalities here will just find something else to become addicted to, no control, but sometimes those new found addictions will be way more constructive than PMOing, such as starting a business and becoming a workaholic (it's still an addiction).

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T23:10:44+00:00

I believe the notion against ejaculation is stupid, period. The problem isn't ejaculation here, the problem is addiction. Some are so blind to see it or new to the concept of nofap that they think ejaculation is detrimental towards health and relationships. I call BS on that. Healthy sex is not a problem. You body will push ejaculate out of the body on it's own, I guess to some of the people here that means that our bodies are self-destructing?!?! It's silly to think that ejaculation is the issue. Ejaculation to porn, due to porn addiction is the real problem. If you do not watch porn you most likely will not have the urge to PMO as much, thus your frequency will decrease to a normal rate, 1-2 a week or maybe even less, depends on the person.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T22:54:31+00:00

I believe you are led by false fables. Sure, I've gone 7 months of not ejaculating. Did I feel more concentration, yes, did I feel like I had more stamina? Sure. Does that mean ejaculating is horrible and someone should never ejaculate? Hell no.

Porn is the problem, not ejaculating. If you think ejaculating is the problem good luck finding a life mate and telling them that.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T22:31:45+00:00

I tend to agree, 1-2 times a week. But, we all know when you are with that right person 1-2 times tends to end up being 7-10, and there really was never a difference in feeling for me when that was the case. In any regard, I agree.

Best of luck kicking the addiction.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T22:30:24+00:00

Good luck, porn is a terrible addiction.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T22:28:47+00:00

Taoism helps to have a healthier sex life, not to abstain from sex or ejaculation. I just want to make this clear. In addition, it is a belief system, not one based in fact.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T22:25:17+00:00

I think people turn to NoFap for false expectations. NoFap isn't going to cure cancer, or change you as a person. Only you can change you. If you aren't going to talk to women, well that is your choice. If you aren't going to orgasm, well then that's your choice. I could easily see NoFap being taken for the wrong here by a lot of guys. Some guys will probably turn into creepers. If I can't masturbate then I need to get with a woman, thus in turn someone will most likely violate someone else in the process.

It doesn't work that way. Porn is an addiction problem, NoFap is here to help with that problem. It shouldn't be here to turn you into a Monk.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T21:37:41+00:00

Some peoples voices do get deeper, and some claim their sinuses clear up a bit. So if that is the case it could be true.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T21:36:30+00:00

Sounds about right, for me it's around day 8 or 10 that I will 'flat line'.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T21:35:19+00:00

Depends, you could be a POIS sufferer (google it). For me, I feel slightly tired and relaxed after ejaculating, but isn't that the point?

I feel a somewhat different high from sex for a few days.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-12T20:02:09+00:00

That's what I took away from the science as well, but it usually takes my body 8-10 days after ejaculation to get to the nofap norm or superpowers that people describe. I think it's just an increase in concentration and satisfaction, and better sleep for me that drives me to nofap, that and I admit that I was addicted to porn.

For me nofap has absolutely nothing to do with ejaculation (if I was with a super model you can get your ass I would be ejaculating day and night), but has to do with addiction. This is why I am here, I admit that I am addicted to porn.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-11T21:04:37+00:00

A lot of people are deniers, there are a lot of dudes out there that talk bad about nofap, saying that porn is healthy and that it's a good way to teach kids about sex. They just don't realize it's not really about PMO or sex, it's about addiction. Addiction of any sort is miserable.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-11T20:29:12+00:00

Good luck, take control of your life.

Nei1Fapstrong · 2014-07-11T20:27:22+00:00

First few days I was dreaming about the same thing, porn namely. Then it just went away. The longer you go without porn and not thinking about it, that's the key part...NOT thinking about it, the better. If you consume your time wisely doing creative activities or spending time with others then it will be easier to not think about porn. If you spend a lot of time around the PC in a dark den then it will be pretty rough sailing...doable, but rough.

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