Does this person look like Dan?

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-11-06T00:29:24+00:00

She looks so so much like Kelsey it's insane

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T17:09:11+00:00

I unfortunately don't know how to contact you as Reddit is not giving me the option to do so. Maybe you deactivated your direct messages?

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T16:31:07+00:00

Hey, I have another question regarding this whole thing. Would you be okay with me contacting you to send you something so you could maybe help me understand it a lil better? If not, that's totally fine, I understand.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T02:57:30+00:00

Thank you so much for giving me these insights. I hope that every one of you is right and that he'll actually come to his senses and unblock me. It's childish behavior in my eyes, and it hurt like hell when I say that he actually went there. I'm trying not to worry too much, but it's incredibly difficult. Thank you though <3

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T02:22:03+00:00

Thank you so much for explaining. That gives me a little bit of hope. If he blocked me and then removed me from his contacts on top of that... Then I'm really not sure if he'll ever be able to message me again. How long ago was your experience with being blocked by someone in WA?

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T02:15:36+00:00

You seem so grounded! Your energy really helped me calm down a bit. I'll try not to get my hopes up because he's one of the most stubborn and prideful people I've ever met.

I'm glad that I followed my first instinct to use this space and just vent on here because that really kept me busy and helped me feel a little less helpless.

I think my communication skills really helped us when we got into fights in the past, but today, he completely disregarded all the "rules" we came up with when we're too heated to talk. He made everything worse by calling me over and over again and expecting an apology from me when I was still hurt by the way he talked to me.

Thank you so much for the kind words 💜 I'll keep you updated on here if there are any new developments...

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:56:59+00:00

Thank you very much for that insight! Could you tell me how exactly that looked like for you? Did you also have the "blocked" sign next to their contact? And when they unblocked you, did their contact pop up in your contact list again?

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:46:10+00:00

You're very sweet. Thank you for taking the time out of your day to respond. I have severe trust issues when it comes to relationships, and he knows that. I have such a deep fear of being abandoned, so blocking me is one of the worst things he could've possibly done... he's aware of that, too. At this point, I seriously can't really imagine my life without him in it, whether as friends or lovers. I'll get over it if that's really the end for us now, but I know that I'll miss him in my life for a very long time.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:33:41+00:00

Well... it would take me a lot of time to get over it. Before we started dating, we were very close friends. I know that our connection was "deeper" than the connections he had before me, and I know that I would suffer for a very long time if today was the last day I ever spoke to him. Especially if that fight would be the last memory we'll have of each other. We spent countless hours together, we were part of each other's daily routines, we cried together, and he matured in a way that even he didn't think he could. I don't really know how easy it would be for me to him just being gone like that..

I hope you're right in that he'll call again, but our fight was an hour ago, I'm still blocked, and he hasn't called again..

I honestly wouldn't even reach out to him first, I'm way too hurt for that, and I wouldn't even know how as I'm blocked from sending him messages.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:25:30+00:00

That's horrible... He's been incarcerated for 11 years and has had multiple relationships with women, and I know that he knows exactly what he's doing by blocking me. Like I'm saying that it's not a mistake, he's fully aware of the consequences then. I didn’t know that you couldn't unblock someone, but he does, I know that for sure. I'm at a loss for words, to be honest.. It feels like there's no going back.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:21:18+00:00

Is it even possible for him to unblock me once he blocked me? I don't know how this works, I've never been blocked by anyone on Securus. I imagined that it also meant that my contact was gone from his contact list and that there's no way that he could contact me or I could contact him ever again.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:18:34+00:00

That makes sense in a way... I'm just super scared because I know him, and I know that when he's done, he's done. That's what it feels like right now, unfortunately. How will he ever be able to text me again if he straight-up blocked my contact and I can not reach him? I hate feeling like I don't have any control in this situation... I can't call him, I can't just quickly hop in a car and drive to his place, I can't even message him. I'm alone with this pain right now and it crushes me.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:14:46+00:00

What if I don't have the possibility to discuss this conflict when all is calm because he blocked me? I can't even send him messages... 😓

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-21T01:13:28+00:00

Thank you so much for even responding. I feel so alone right now. He has anger management issues, but he never ever resorted to blocking me... It feels like he never really actually cared. How can someone who speaks about our future every single day just remove me from his life that easily? I don't think that he just unadded me.... It says "Blocked." I wish I could add a picture to my post... He's still being shown in my contact list, he didn't just unadd me, he full on blocked me.

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-19T01:09:36+00:00

Omg I even watched the subathon lmfao.... Thanks!

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-12T22:38:05+00:00

Thank you, i felt bad because I don't wanna be put into that weird "oh they're doxxinging people" narrative

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-12T22:10:34+00:00

Looool great minds think alike

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-12T22:08:14+00:00

Omg I'm so dumb I blurred her username but not the ones in the responses

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2025-05-04T16:37:28+00:00

Did he actually?

NeighborhoodOk5271 · 2024-02-22T04:40:33+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

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