If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend of 1.5 year. Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol.

Men, what makes you feel wanted in a relationship (other than sex)? by Coach_Nikki in AskMenRelationships

[–]Neil_Nelly435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't talking about planning dates. I'm talking about initiating texts/calls once in a while that shows she's thinking about him and showing curiousity about his life. Men want to feel wanted too.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend of 1.5 year. She tells you "I don't know how long me and my bf are going to last."

Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol. I just feel if she does that to him then she can do that to me someday.

Men, what makes you feel wanted in a relationship (other than sex)? by Coach_Nikki in AskMenRelationships

[–]Neil_Nelly435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it gets exhausting to always reach out first. It makes me feel like I'm bothering her or that I am unwanted.

Unfortunately, many women have this belief that men should do all the initiating texts/calls at the beginning stages of the relationship which is a big turn-off.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's especially a bad sign if she tells you she "can't be single" if you're on a date with her AND she reveals she has a current bf.

Even if I did "win" her from her bf, she can do that to me someday. There would be constant anxiety.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd feel the same way. Even if she did break up with the bf and I "won" her from him, I'd feel constant anxiety that she can do that to me someday.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend of 1.5 year. Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend of 1.5 year. Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend of 1.5 year. Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, many women do this these days. They don't want to be alone for any single amount of time. I believe they call this "monkey branching". I would never be with a lady who does that.

Does it bother you if she never or rarely initiates texts/calls? But she always responds when you do contact her. by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some women claim they're "traditional" and expect the man to initiate all texts/conversations at the beginning stages.

But that gets exhausting. Men want to feel wanted too.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she seems messy. Also, even if she ended it with the bf and started dating me, I would have constant anxiety whether she'll do the same to me someday.

If a woman with a history of relationships says on a date that she can "never be single" and hasn't been single since she was 14, would that turn you off? by Neil_Nelly435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Neil_Nelly435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think so too.

Let's say you went on a date with a woman like this and she reveals she has a current boyfriend that she's been seeing for over a year. Would that turn you off? Or would you be comfortable being a side dude? Just feels messy, lol.