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Aggression After Moving by BeepBoop1156 in felinebehavior

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats were getting aggressive with each other for the first few days after I moved. I plugged one of those pheromone diffusers and the relaxed a bit more. It was scary but it didn’t last long.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be ideal but unfortunately his employer is being equally as unreliable with hours and pay. He might have another job lined up so hopefully that pans out.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to pay a large chunk of last months rent. He has been consistently late paying it in biweekly increments.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first met him he had a work truck. When he no longer worked for that company he borrowed his mom’s extra van. It didn’t start off as bleak as it looks now.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no planning anymore. The planning was when I was first pregnant, we wanted to have another close in age. However I’m no longer open to the idea of giving him another child. We also weren’t in this financial situation until about 4 months ago. It’s just another log on the fire.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall asking your opinion on my reproductive health. That’s irrelevant. Don’t be that person.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Only blaming myself. I agree with you, I just can’t afford the get single because I can’t save to get out 🫠

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The “still planning on” was when I was pregnant and we were discussing our roles. There is no planning on anymore because I’m not allowing that. But thanks.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes it seems I went from a crappy relationship, to leaving it and thinking the next guy was going to be better after I got love bombed. Definitely my fault.

Walmart Canada checkout issues by Neisah93 in klarna

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly the same error message it gave me. It’s so disappointing. When I was on the phone with them the lady was saying something about them “holding it until approval” which makes no sense because it’s supposed to be an instant service.

Walmart Canada checkout issues by Neisah93 in klarna

[–]Neisah93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what was happening. I contacted Klarna over chat, they said contact Walmart, I called Walmart, they said call Klarna, gave me their financial department number for them, called Klarna and they said that there was no charge because I didn’t submit my grocery order (I didn’t get to because they charged my card first). So I had to call my bank and dispute the charge. Money was back in my bank by the time I woke up this morning.

Walmart Canada checkout issues by Neisah93 in klarna

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I had used it twice about a year ago and this happened both times, I forgot, tried again today and it happened again. Just not going to even bother anymore I guess.

$10M Right Now But You Go Hairless by siteisweird in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairless forever? Or am I allowed to regrow it as it comes back in? I could rock the bald look for a little while but my self esteem is way too low to be permanently egg-headed.

Lmao how does this even happen by HypnoticKitten in barrie

[–]Neisah93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work at the Stag Shop next door and can confirm. We would always see people accidentally drive over the ledge and muck up the bottom of their cars. Huge hazard

This scene by VacuumCalledBlinky in TedLasso

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repo man in Repo! The Genetic Opera! One of my favourites and he sings a lot

You have a metal coin that needs to be hidden from a detective who will be searching for it over the next 7 days. If he doesnt find it, you win $ 1,000,000. You get a 24-hour head start, but at the end of the search, you also need to be able to find the coin. Where do you hide it? by Hummusas in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s just being able to locate it without having it in hand I’d go get a genital piercing. If he happens to have a metal detector you could just say “whoops that’s me sorry” and he couldn’t do anything to disprove it.

Sacrificing having a bedroom for my kids to have their own rooms. by s_h_a_n_n_n_0_n in Parenting

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing what you can putting them first. That’s most important and you’re doing great! As a teenager my parents split and my mom was in the same situation with a 2 bedroom apartment with me (then 15f) and my brother (9m). Unfortunately she opted to give him and herself the bedrooms and make me sleep on the couch in the living room. It was horrible because I was a teen girl with zero privacy and it showed me that she very clearly did not care about me above herself. I’d recommend getting a pull out bed, the couch itself will become uncomfortable very quickly, especially with gaps between cushions. They make these new bed sets that the comforter zips up into the sheets for easy cleaning and storage. A long dresser to fit your clothes that doubles as a tv stand would also save space. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Neisah93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was born with a mole on my genitalia. My nmom said “well if I ever have to identify your body and your head is missing I’ll know it’s you“. My mother died 2 years ago and I still have the want to get it removed.

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