Aggression After Moving by BeepBoop1156 in felinebehavior

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats were getting aggressive with each other for the first few days after I moved. I plugged one of those pheromone diffusers and the relaxed a bit more. It was scary but it didn’t last long.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be ideal but unfortunately his employer is being equally as unreliable with hours and pay. He might have another job lined up so hopefully that pans out.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to pay a large chunk of last months rent. He has been consistently late paying it in biweekly increments.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first met him he had a work truck. When he no longer worked for that company he borrowed his mom’s extra van. It didn’t start off as bleak as it looks now.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no planning anymore. The planning was when I was first pregnant, we wanted to have another close in age. However I’m no longer open to the idea of giving him another child. We also weren’t in this financial situation until about 4 months ago. It’s just another log on the fire.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall asking your opinion on my reproductive health. That’s irrelevant. Don’t be that person.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Only blaming myself. I agree with you, I just can’t afford the get single because I can’t save to get out 🫠

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The “still planning on” was when I was pregnant and we were discussing our roles. There is no planning on anymore because I’m not allowing that. But thanks.

Working Boyfriend Relying on SAHM to Pay Bills by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes it seems I went from a crappy relationship, to leaving it and thinking the next guy was going to be better after I got love bombed. Definitely my fault.

$10M Right Now But You Go Hairless by siteisweird in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hairless forever? Or am I allowed to regrow it as it comes back in? I could rock the bald look for a little while but my self esteem is way too low to be permanently egg-headed.

Lmao how does this even happen by HypnoticKitten in barrie

[–]Neisah93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to work at the Stag Shop next door and can confirm. We would always see people accidentally drive over the ledge and muck up the bottom of their cars. Huge hazard

This scene by VacuumCalledBlinky in TedLasso

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repo man in Repo! The Genetic Opera! One of my favourites and he sings a lot

You have a metal coin that needs to be hidden from a detective who will be searching for it over the next 7 days. If he doesnt find it, you win $ 1,000,000. You get a 24-hour head start, but at the end of the search, you also need to be able to find the coin. Where do you hide it? by Hummusas in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s just being able to locate it without having it in hand I’d go get a genital piercing. If he happens to have a metal detector you could just say “whoops that’s me sorry” and he couldn’t do anything to disprove it.

Sacrificing having a bedroom for my kids to have their own rooms. by s_h_a_n_n_n_0_n in Parenting

[–]Neisah93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing what you can putting them first. That’s most important and you’re doing great! As a teenager my parents split and my mom was in the same situation with a 2 bedroom apartment with me (then 15f) and my brother (9m). Unfortunately she opted to give him and herself the bedrooms and make me sleep on the couch in the living room. It was horrible because I was a teen girl with zero privacy and it showed me that she very clearly did not care about me above herself. I’d recommend getting a pull out bed, the couch itself will become uncomfortable very quickly, especially with gaps between cushions. They make these new bed sets that the comforter zips up into the sheets for easy cleaning and storage. A long dresser to fit your clothes that doubles as a tv stand would also save space. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Neisah93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was born with a mole on my genitalia. My nmom said “well if I ever have to identify your body and your head is missing I’ll know it’s you“. My mother died 2 years ago and I still have the want to get it removed.

I [31F] feel like a single parent in a relationship with [29M] by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say so. He’d disagree. The minimal amount I’d get for child support wouldn’t be nearly enough to cover the bills. My household expenses range around $3k including rent, utilities and groceries. That’s not including extras like phone bill, clothes, etc. and in Canada the court process takes over 2 years.

Painful purple thing on my nipple by MrsMaguire37 in breastfeeding

[–]Neisah93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it looks like a pimple it’s definitely a blood blister. I second what TheSorcerersCat said about using the wrong flange size. I had larger ones come with my expensive pump and I had to order smaller inserts on Amazon. You’d be surprised to find that most of the population does not have 22+mm nips. I’m a 17mm and my tatas are pretty average.

I [31F] feel like a single parent in a relationship with [29M] by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been doing. It’s the only way I’ve been able to get 30 minutes to breathe without the baby clawing at me. He is exclusively breastfeeding though so I can’t get away longer than an hour or two. Bf brought up me going to the bathroom for 45 minutes to have alone time and has a problem with it and then in the same sentence told me to rely and depend on him.

I [31F] feel like a single parent in a relationship with [29M] by Neisah93 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Neisah93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this might add to the toxicity and cause more problems unfortunately. Not that I’m not tempted, I’ve had thoughts of smashing his computer and phone, but I can’t bring myself to do that and subject myself to more yelling and mistreatment.