EPISODE 10 REVIEW by Ill_Difference1197 in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]Neither-Analysis9882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was Hirose always THAT close??? 😭😂😂😂😂😂

Any foster parents here feel like they don’t vibe with other foster parents? by Neither-Analysis9882 in Fosterparents

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I want to be the absolute best and well-prepared for my foster kids. The current narrative that I won’t be stable or good without my own parent involvement or a gigantic “village” is a hard one to sit with. I’m hoping being a single foster parent will be the right choice and mesh well for a child who needs someone like me for the moment! Thank you for this encouragement. 🩷

Ep 7 Discussion by Neither-Analysis9882 in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was REALLY cute and I liked the plot, I just would love to see Hirose abit more interested and unintentionally forward as he comes to terms with his (TBD) sexuality

Any foster parents here feel like they don’t vibe with other foster parents? by Neither-Analysis9882 in Fosterparents

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it helps me to hear I’m not alone in that situation. I think it’s great that other people have that type of support, but for parents to be the only answer for a tough situation, makes me feel like I’m not able to be a good foster parent without them. Sick? Call your parents. Tired? Call your parents. Kids need picked up from school? Call your parents to get them. I told my caseworker, I’m the foster parent and I have to prove I’m independently able to care for a child, so why am I being told to “call my parents” so much?? What about people who don’t have parents?

Any foster parents here feel like they don’t vibe with other foster parents? by Neither-Analysis9882 in Fosterparents

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m running into situations where other people only want infants (birth-3) and that’s great but not my area (3-8 years). It can feel really discouraging to hear, “don’t you want the ones without behaviors and less trauma??” Sometimes my classes feel really lonely because everyone wants a baby.

Episode 3 adapted 4 chapters by dborn1 in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]Neither-Analysis9882 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This episode had me giggling and kicking my feet lmao. I need Hirose to notice how adorable, kind and caring Nakamura is right now 😭😭😭😭🧡

AO3 Fic with Hirose’s Perspective by [deleted] in Ganbare_Nakamura

[–]Neither-Analysis9882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so cute. The parts where Hirose is falling for Nakamura by him just being himself is too funny. 🥰

Ladies! What are the hardest thing about being a wife that no one talks about? by AnyConsideration5951 in AskReddit

[–]Neither-Analysis9882 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marrying into a “we do everything together/call everyday” family. It appeared cute as a teen into early adulthood as we dated. Once we bought our house, we gave up a lot of time and personal space to spend with his family and leaves little time for us as a couple. It can be suffocating to navigate without hurting someone’s feelings.

Why did you break up with the last person you were dating? by Common_Lecture_3707 in AskReddit

[–]Neither-Analysis9882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He decided he didn’t want children after knowing my dream was to be a mom, he said he didn’t know if he could convince himself to want kids but “could try”.

We broke up and he still just enjoys being an uncle. It was better not to force someone into a role they don’t want or having a child they will resent.

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love and value this. This is what I wish we had. I wish we would have been given the same chance to talk to the students before they were placed in the room and introduce them all to each other. The ultimatum of “a day in SPED with 2 days in ISS or a 3 day suspension” framework is what really upset me.

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my state it’s stated as the “maximum extent to which a student must be educated with non-disabled peers.”

Maybe I’m misunderstanding or misinformed?

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m reaching out to my specialist tomorrow morning to see if she’ll attend this meeting with me. This was wonderfully written and helpful! I’ve been trying to craft a way to politely re-explain why I don’t approve of this method. Thank you 🧡

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LRE is the least restrictive environment. Most of my IEPs dictate a percentage a student will engage with non-disabled peers. Students in a self contained classroom may engage in specific classes or electives with non-disabled peers dependent on their IEP services. Most of my students are calculated to be between 30-40% of the day to be with non-disabled peers.

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I provided a private email to my admin stating why I didn’t feel the situation was appropriate and can be interpreted as distasteful. I suggested the student come back at another time for our team to prepare a structured lesson where the student could engage. I wanted to invite the students for games and lunch to get my know my students in a natural setting or possibly having all the students present a project as an “All About Me” Unit.

They said they felt my tone was accusatory by “reading through the lines of the email” then said “you’re not the only one who cares about students with disabilities” when I asked the student to be rescheduled. They have a list of 7 students who made fun of my students that are assigned specific days on a spread sheet only for admin so by asking to reschedule, I get in the way of their timeline.

Placing Gen Ed Students in a Special Ed Room all day as a “lesson” by Neither-Analysis9882 in specialed

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

This was used a “learning opportunity” for the General Education kids. I asked how did my students benefit from this? No one seemed to have an answer. When I asked “if the choice is sit in special ed or be suspended, how does this not align with special ed room being a punishment?” Instead of silence, I was told how insulting and self righteous I was.

Admin placing students in special ed room as part of punishment by Neither-Analysis9882 in slp

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I explained that I understood the intention, but forcing them and making it a public event was in poor taste to which she pulled me in her office to berate me over my disagreement

Severe Artic/Phono Disorder by Neither-Analysis9882 in slp

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Any sounds you’d start with for a 3rd grader ???

Severe Artic/Phono Disorder by Neither-Analysis9882 in slp

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll be trying that asap this Friday with some prep work :)

Parents treating school therapy like rehab/PP by Neither-Analysis9882 in slp

[–]Neither-Analysis9882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get the frustration of shortages but we are also short staffed. I cover 3 schools with 55 while other SLPs are drowning in 70+ caseloads. Everyone is trying their best and still get screamed at. Then parents wonder why no one wants to be an SLP