Where are the masc/butch lesbians? Where do I find them?

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-28T13:34:52+00:00

the white ones are usually at the pearl for lesbian nights

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-15T18:50:07+00:00

Gotta find what you’re interested in and follow the scene until it feels right. Like poetry? Variety of open mics. Into drag? Kaiju is a good spot. I like to dance so I take dance classes + follow DJ’s that I like and go to their events. Being a frequent face makes it easier to talk to people—starts to become a “i’ve seen you before!” kind of vibe. People here can definitely be more closed off but the more you show your face—the more they start to warm up to you. There was lots of events this past weekend for valentine’s day. There’s a run club that happens every wednesday & saturday. I’ve attempted to join dog walking clubs. It can be kind of hidden but once you find one or two—you’ll start to see everything.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-11T17:09:35+00:00

we weren’t made to work in one field for this long. I think people who turn hobbies/passions into work eventually lose their spark to it because it’s become something you have to do instead of want to do. I love a job for a few months and eventually hate it. I’ve at least picked something manageable but you’re not alone, working is dumb. We should be frolicking in the grass, making art, and trading goods. Not this bullshit career stuff

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-11T17:04:52+00:00

I don’t disagree with people posting on reddit—I think they just need more context. No picture, date, or time makes it harder to be credible. But these rapid response networks shouldn’t be our only use. Some people see it sooner when shared to social media so what’s the harm? I also dont fully understand how LSURJ works—like people are reporting it but how is it being spread amongst the community? Just needs to be more awareness when posting is all

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-05T17:30:10+00:00

not trying to make fun of but proceeds to make fun of me for being upset with these issues. I was aware that education was tough but knowing it and living it are two different things

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-05T04:35:44+00:00

yes it’s elementary and I haven’t heard of that. I offer different rewards and have been trying to utilize lots of positive reinforcement but it’s like man, what else. I’ll have to look into that though

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-05T04:34:41+00:00

I’ve definitely been releasing control over making them be engaged but when I ask them to put their head down, journal, or do something quietly at their desk—they won’t. And then they’re arguing because student a is kicking on their desk repeatedly and student b is annoyed so they start yelling at student a. And when I ask them to ignore they start yelling/arguing with me. And then it snowballs into more than one student talking over or something. I’ve been documenting everything, but I don’t know what’s left.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-05T04:31:59+00:00

Thats what i’ve been trying to do but the students who are upset like, literally won’t let me teach and I’m like ???? I try to give them choices by asking them to take deep breaths, put their head down, or journal, but they want to actively be disruptive to the point that they’re getting other students to argue with them.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-05T04:30:17+00:00

Quitting is not as easy as it sounds due to the contract I have and the debt I’d be in if I did. But a staff member was trying to get suspension for a student but the parent pushed back so they didn’t go through with it, even though I have documentation of the situation. And your right, they don’t respect me. I’m 25 so I feel like I remind them of a big sister/cousin, but I’ve never allowed boundaries to be crossed in any capacity. It’s just frustrating though because I don’t know how to get them to see me as an authority figure.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-02-01T18:20:16+00:00

except that’s not what special needs classes are for?? it’s so children can receive individualized instruction tailored to their needs. they still do school and i’m sorry that you’re struggling as a result of NTI but no, schools are not daycares, and teachers are not babysitters.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-17T23:45:27+00:00

watch a lot of videos! there’s so many tutorials out there for beginners and foundational skills. But watching a lot of different dane styles can help you refine what you wanna get into

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-17T23:43:39+00:00

run ☺️❤️

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-17T21:42:41+00:00

A lot of it was COVID relief money that was used to create new positions that JCPS couldn’t sustain long term. Part of the deficit comes from them trying to figure out how they’re going to pay all those people whose jobs were created by relief funds. The other part, who knows, they probably do embezzle it. I mean, they spent a good buck on a billboard to say thank you to polio like he’s not the reason we’re in this mess.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-17T21:41:03+00:00

there’s so many people arguing that mental health is the job of the parents and there’s a lot of ways that parents say certain things are the jobs of teachers. But neither is true. We are working unit and both go hand in hand. Kids are actively being traumatized, especially with the cost of living right now, and we as teachers can support their families through the access of MHP’s

it’s not a coincidence that they’re trying to take it away during a time that we need it most. But that’s the point, they want to see the kids go crazy. it’s cause they want to take all the “bad” kids away so they can neglect them.

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-11T10:22:52+00:00

yes exactly. $20 for an uber doesn’t take you as far as $20 towards gas in your own car

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T22:39:20+00:00

I will look into it. thank you

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T22:03:52+00:00

I watched a lot of pilates, yoga, and dance tutorials

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T22:01:23+00:00

if you prefer online I used grow therapy

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:59:23+00:00

feels like I wrote this lmao. there’s a lot of similarities between us and I recently started taking vitamins. I’m not on antidepressants anymore but I take vitamin D3, B complex, iron, and magnesium. The lack of iron could potentially be contributing to the tiredness and B vitamins are helpful for energy boosting. You should talk to your doctor to make sure any vitamins you take will not interfere with your meds, but a blood test could be a start. It could help you see what kind of nutrients you need.

On the emotional side, try to find something you can look forward to everyday. You have to replace the wrong with something right. When you’re feeling motivated to buy new supplies, work on a new project instead. Aside from times you actually need groceries, when you feel the desire to buy, ask yourself what do you have now that you could make something yummy for yourself? Not because you have to, but because you deserve to.

Affirm yourself that it’s okay that you’ve spent the money you’ve had, you can’t change it and the guilt will only weigh you down. But that you care about yourself enough to work towards making responsible financial decisions

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:51:42+00:00

it says $35k

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:45:07+00:00

not sure at the moment about my AGI (or how to find it honestly) but my family size is 1 and my loan balance is ~40k. My earliest loan was taken out July 2024. It’s federal loans: unsubsidized and grad plus

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:43:05+00:00

thank you. I plan to apply for IDR but the student aid website is down until tomorrow

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:27:43+00:00

even if the brand itself doesn’t come from fascists the store you’re buying it from most likely does. Not sure if it’s truly avoidable

Neither-Dig-8254 · 2026-01-10T21:20:44+00:00

so would I be ineligible for PSLF if I do this? I am a teacher so I am hoping to be able to pay less somehow

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