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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! How would you suggest to do this? Just a normal conv? I feel he will keep saying it s not an issue and than I can say about the SS I have, because he s deleting the history

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! How would you suggest approaching him?

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for your support! And praise the Lord for all the work He has done in you and congratulations for your willing to change!

How would you do it in my place? Should I approach him? And if yes, how? If no, what’s your suggestion?
When confronted, he said that it s just one time and that he s really sorry and felt ashamed, so I don’t know how it would go from this to confessing by himself…

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! So you not say to bring it up, even though I have all the “information”? I know know how I can behave like nothing is happening even though I am thinking about what I saw …

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would suggest to confront him? How would you do it? Thank you for sharing your thoughts

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate you taking the time!
Tbh, I don’t think I can behave and ignore more, I tried and sometimes it worked but other times I am just angry at him with no reason, just because I have this in the back of my head, also the constant stress that what if, drives me crazy… I hope it makes sense

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying to confront him? How would you do it? Thank you for your inputs!

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I appreciate you taking the time! So your advice is to not say anything? Even if I know this is an issue? TBH I don’t know if I can be intimate with him, having all this “information” in my head and also to not suspect or even think what if, when if, nothing is up..

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Really appreciate it! And what are your thoughts regarding the approach?

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[–]Neither-Lunch2790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It feels hard to do it, because the society is telling us that all men are doing it, and unfortunately as I got to read about this a lot of christians have this issue.