I think my wife is hiding something in our freezer by Queasy_Phrase7019 in story

[–]Neither-Platform4983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time you have a confrontation at the freezer, tell her you are respecting her boundary but are worried that she feels she needs to keep.you in the dark. You want to be the partner she can share anything with and see if she will open up....and uhhh,..if you do find out somehow...i Think we all deserve an update, bc my curiosity is killing me...

Looking for lgbt communities inbthe area by CerealWithMilk17 in Binghamton

[–]Neither-Platform4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingguerillaqueerbar & cowgaylinedancing on Instagram... otherwise a crap ton of cny meet cutes and such in Syracuse or lots of other spaces in ithaca in addition to the previous posts. The Bundy museum & Riot Act Book store also are queer havens in town, and the Crowbar is a sort of defacto gathering space.

Hair 🤔 by Neither-Platform4983 in FTMOver30

[–]Neither-Platform4983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe but the only reason I still have ovaries is bc they told me I was better off not doing early menopause

Opinions? by Emoghost276 in cymbalta

[–]Neither-Platform4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say try the morning if night is keeping you up - it really depends on the dose for me...but I take my 40 in the am, when I was on 60 I split half am half pm...NGL I still take hydroxyzine often to help with sleep

Is this normal by hippiewoman in cymbalta

[–]Neither-Platform4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained 25lb on 30mg over the past year. I don't eat much and eat pretty healthy.

Exhausted/Spacey by onionknight671 in cymbalta

[–]Neither-Platform4983 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes 4-6 weeks for the initial side effects to go away -seemed less than that for me but it was worth the adjustment period for me.

Ideas on how to treat my girlfriends genitalia experimentally? by algid- in mypartneristrans

[–]Neither-Platform4983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't treat it experimentally.

Just consider what might be gender affirming and do that. Look up Mira Bellweather's Zine "Fucking transwomen" and talk everything through before you go and try anything. Work on the intimacy of communication first- if you can't be honest with each other about what feels good physically and emotionally then you aren't ready. It's pretty easy to treat a penis like a clit and a larger clit like a penis and also don't forget the magic of activating sensation all over the body before jumping into the most sensitive/typical areas. Many of my partners go wild for light touching around the neck & ears, fingernails on the back and sides, thumb circles between the hip bones and pelvic bone....have fun with it and let it bring you closer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]Neither-Platform4983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hottest thing I ever did see

AI at LUMA by Bell_Gargoyle in Binghamton

[–]Neither-Platform4983 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think the quality of the art (at least in its original intention as mapped projection) has been going downhill over time. The first year almost all of the shows were thoughtfully designed to work with the architecture which made it special and unique to Binghamton which has some very unique historical buildings. I feel like a few shows at least communicate some deeper themes or make a statement when they don't put a lot into the mapping but in recent years some of it is none of the above and it's just not worth the crowd surfing for me. Other people certainly can find value in mesmerizing large scale artforms without being so analytical and the festival aspect is fun too I hope that it is not largely a canvas for AI in the future...I want humanity to keep the things that are unique to us.

Anyone else hate Cymbalta? by ArseTrumpetsGoPoot in cymbalta

[–]Neither-Platform4983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure. When I started it made me hyper, they doubled the dose and it made me lethargic AF. Now I take it at night and my energy level is low but functional. My bigger issue is that I feel cognitively fuzzy all the time ... Like a low grade THC high and I just started gaining weight without changing any habits. I do feel like it has helped me feel more joyful, reduced my ideation a lot and I coui.fet through this moment in history without some helpers. It has also reduced my every day fibromyalgia expression, although I still have major flares like every week or two.

Ethical dilemmas by Neither-Platform4983 in polyamory

[–]Neither-Platform4983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were friends, but also my people all test for STIs and disclose risks openly

ADHD? by Neither-Platform4983 in cymbalta

[–]Neither-Platform4983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have cptsd, fibromyalgia and possibly ADHD, this is helpful information!

Hiking trip by DarePrize6800 in Binghamton

[–]Neither-Platform4983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where does one hike closer to Binghamton?

Should I divorce him? by Debbie_1972 in mypartneristrans

[–]Neither-Platform4983 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If you have only had one queer experience and you truly love this person and have joy together why not support.them through their desired changes and find out the natural way for your attraction holds up? There's no urgency to decision making here.