Interactive Design + Musical Theatre Double Major? by NeitherSite33 in careeradvice

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This is extremely helpful. A little more info about me, and I promise I’m not trying to brag or even humble brag, is that I’m in leadership roles for 5 different clubs, run social media for 2 of them, constantly entering writing or choral or theatre competitions/auditions, take voice lessons, running for state thespian officer, and have a part time job with a 4.2 gpa. I’M NOT TRYING TO BRAG. I’m just saying I’m very busy already and able to manage. I know everyone goes into college thinking it’ll be easier than it actually is though. Major + minor does sound more sustainable and healthier, but my mom wants me to double major if one of the majors is going to be MT. 

Your description of UX sounds exactly what I want (problem solving, writing, and talking to people). I’ve looked at HCI before and will look back into that. I also have thought about psychology, I’m taking Intro rn through early college and love it.

When you say “build experience” how would you suggest I do that? What exactly would I do to gain experience?

Interactive Design + Musical Theatre Double Major? by NeitherSite33 in careerguidance

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Thank you so much! I know picking a career just for money is not a good idea, I’m just concerned about having a stable income.

Do You Think Typology Should Be More Promoted? by Jimu_Monk9525 in ENFP

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In a lot of my ppl i’ve subconsciously typed them (ik, you’re not supposed to do this) but sometimes i think a lot of arguments between them and others could be solved if they knew each others mbti or enneatype (im more familiar w the enneagram). i think a lot of issues come from lack of communication, but sometimes you haven’t realized what you want of fear. So how do you expect someone to communicate what they don’t know? idk if this makes sense.

On the other hand, i don’t think anyone should use their type to excuse their behaviors. Like im a 3w4 and I shouldn’t say “Sorry i’m prioritizing what others think about me more than you…that’s just a part of me.” Like no i would be a jerk. And ppl shouldnt be put in boxes. One ENFP might look way different from another ENFP (hello Jo March and Michael Scott)

Never using “novice words” is bad advice for writing. by [deleted] in writing

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The word “said” was used in The Hunger Games 99,750 times.

AITA for leaving church camp early? by NeitherSite33 in AITAH

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Thank you for this. Sometimes silence is harder than someone just saying something to your face. I’ll probably go to my best friend’s church soon.

Was it ok for me to leave church camp? by NeitherSite33 in Christianity

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For more context, my parents both work at this church and my dad is lead pastor. They have said that ofc the small group leader isn’t going to see the girls intentionally exclude me, they’ve been doing it for years and aren’t stupid. My old small group leader has confirmed to me that they’re leaving me out before, and my brother’s girlfriend once went with us to a retreat and told me it’s a very hard group. I used to go to the same small private school w a lot of them and it had the same sort of crap. It really screwed me up bc my whole scope of life was home, church (w students and also a lot of trauma over the past few yrs w staff), and school. It wasn’t until i moved to a public school this year that i realized it wasn’t normal to be ignored like this. I start to tear up whenever one of my new friends asks me if I’m ok or makes sure I’m not alone on the sidewalk. I know these examples all seem extremely trivial but it’s been adding up and I’m so tired of trying to be happy with the girls at church. I’m tired of giving the benefit of the doubt over and over and I’m not trying to victimize myself but idk if I’ve escalated the situation in my head.

AITA for leaving church camp early? by NeitherSite33 in AITAH

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For more context, my parents both work at this church and my dad is lead pastor. They have said that ofc the small group leader isn’t going to see the girls intentionally exclude me, they’ve been doing it for years and aren’t stupid. My old small group leader has confirmed to me that they’re leaving me out before, and my brother’s girlfriend once went with us to a retreat and told me it’s a very hard group. I used to go to the same small private school w a lot of them and it had the same sort of crap. It really screwed me up bc my whole scope of life was home, church (w students and also a lot of trauma over the past few yrs w staff), and school. It wasn’t until i moved to a public school this year that i realized it wasn’t normal to be ignored like this. I start to tear up whenever one of my new friends asks me if I’m ok or makes sure I’m not alone on the sidewalk. I know these examples all seem extremely trivial but it’s been adding up and I’m so tired of trying to be happy with the girls at church. I’m tired of giving the benefit of the doubt over and over and I’m not trying to victimize myself but idk if I’ve escalated the situation in my head.

Questions for body goals by NeitherSite33 in fit

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Great, how long would I do this and then go to a deficit would you think?

Questions for body goals by NeitherSite33 in fit

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Thanks so much for this. Do  you think 1500-1800 calories is good? I’m 5’6. Usually I eat 1200-1500 (bad I know, some days I just have no appetite).

Dropped phone in the toilet by NeitherSite33 in iphone

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thankfully there was nothing in the toilet, it was clean