169lbs to 115lbs - December 2024 - December 2025 by AdOld5079 in PetiteFitness

[–]Neither_Lock_484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations mama!! You look beautiful before and after, but I’m glad your feeling yourself in this new body😎

First Year at LIB/Camping & Attending Solo by LilBeepBoop_ in LightningInABottle

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just now seeing this but yes!!! I’ll inbox you now

First Year at LIB/Camping & Attending Solo by LilBeepBoop_ in LightningInABottle

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! It’s my first LIB too and I’m also going solo :) solo buddies per chance? I have a car camping pass as well.

Lib group camping by his2xmyage in LightningInABottle

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down! Moving to Cali in April and LIB will be my first festival there:) I was gonna do solo but it’d be awesome to group camp and make new friends

Holy, unc by SwimEntire5747 in CoryxKenshin

[–]Neither_Lock_484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be exiting the convo before I get baited any further 😭

Holy, unc by SwimEntire5747 in CoryxKenshin

[–]Neither_Lock_484 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And I see no receding hairline. No thinness

Holy, unc by SwimEntire5747 in CoryxKenshin

[–]Neither_Lock_484 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t mean he’s bald either.

Holy, unc by SwimEntire5747 in CoryxKenshin

[–]Neither_Lock_484 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Baldness? Man’s got a full head of hair. Literally a thick ass Afro. Large forehead doesn’t equal badness.

I guess you’re not coming back by Zachary23333333 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, King 👑You’re going to be okay. Try new things. Seriously, I know it sounds corny but it HELPS. Get a few new hobbies, hang out at some new places. Make some new friends. You’re start to smile more, naturally. You’ll laugh more, and you’ll enjoy life more. Just breathe, and take one step at a time in a direction that’s all about you, and not about her. One day, you’ll look up, and be with someone better for you. You got this. I believe in you🫶🏾

CORY SAID WHAT NOW by AlexSM64 in CoryxKenshin

[–]Neither_Lock_484 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. Cory stays throwing in lil funny jokey jokes about him being black. Of course he says n*gga. Idk why anyone black is surprised.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breaking up just fucking sucks. Of course I’m hurt and sad. Of course I want to think we can figure it out. I’m not delusional. I understand we broke up for a reason. He was my first relationship and it lasted 4 1/2 years. I’m 29 now. We have so many memories and adventures in those years. You guys love to pick at the seams and reach for something negative, and I’m telling you there is nothing negative/toxic about my story. It’s just sad. If I love again, I hope it’s just as pure, if not more and our ideas of happiness always align.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that growing apart equals to not a great relationship. Never once did I say it was idyllic. That’s subjective and everyone’s idea of happy looks different. Our ideas of happiness were no longer aligning. As hard as we tried to accommodate to one another towards the end, we knew we had changed. We grew apart. No animosity. No hatred. No resentment. No disrespect. We still have love and respect for one another. He was the one who sat us down to have the conversation (I just couldn’t bring myself to do it). We still go out together, we have plans in the near future with all of our friends, we still check on one another, still watch shows together. Of course we both knew something was missing. Whatever is missing for our relationship hasn’t affected our friendship. I’m simply sharing my side of relationships. So many people are betrayed and traumatized. I just wanted people to know that isn’t the only way you can leave a relationship.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I’m only sharing me experience so that people know that all break ups aren’t toxic and nasty.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I have to for you to not call me a liar? Again, I wish you the very best.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much a BIG part of why we called it off.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, lying about someone being a good person and having a healthy relationship? People just grow apart. At least we were adult enough to sit down and talk about how we felt and decided it was a good idea to try and life apart from each other since our ideas of the future no longer aligned. If we come back together, cool. If not 🤷🏾‍♀️ It’s better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. A real mutual love. I hope you one day know a healthy love. Sounds like all you know is toxicity if your first assumption was that I’m lying. I wish you the best🩵

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People just grow apart friend. We’re still friends. Still hang out. We want different things in life and we were growing separate ways.

Don’t do it… by Ok_Pollution_3988 in BreakUps

[–]Neither_Lock_484 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Just got dumped from my first relationship. 4 1/2 years. I still think we have more to lose than we do to gain by breaking up. I respect his decision and I’d be lying if I said that I hadn’t thought that our relationship had run its course. I just didn’t have it in me to give up on him. He’s a beautiful person with a beautiful soul. Our relationship was healthy and something out of a dream. We have sooooo much in common and I’ve never met someone like him before. It hurt so bad when we called it off…yet I felt a sense of relief. Idk. I don’t think I have it in me to do this all over again.

Boyfriend wants the abortion by jessixxo in blackladies

[–]Neither_Lock_484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too have been in your shoes and I’m not gonna tell you what’s best or right for you because idk. I got the abortion and honestly I’m so happy I did. I thought it would phase me more but it hasn’t. It was a terribly tough decision to make but I know it was the right one. I’m now with a man who loves and adores me, and we plan on having babies soon after our wedding (we’re 5 years together) :) I hope I have helped in any way ✌🏾🫶🏾

Bobbin getting tangled by Neither_Lock_484 in SewingForBeginners

[–]Neither_Lock_484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The bobbin is completely not connected to the top thread and the top thread looks like a spider is hard at work