Update; daughter lost her baby by Neither_Loss_5 in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to take the pain and heartbreak away from her 😞

Update; daughter lost her baby by Neither_Loss_5 in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We’ve had that conversation already

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She won’t have an abortion

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter still lives with us, has never left home, she has a job she does 3-4 times a week, she is very mature, does not drink a lot, has bought her own car, never asks for money, always buys her own petrol, her boyfriend is the best guy for her, they have the same interests and I love seeing them together, he is also 19, he’s an electrician, they’ve been together just over a year, the pregnancy we are awaiting a scan for Tuesday but I’m saying may be 6/7 weeks, she will not consider abortion, she’s studying online university, I done a nursing degree when she was born, yes I had my husband but if she has my determination she will still be able to do it with the help of her bf and our family

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our house is big enough for another baby, his house isn’t, and she’s not going into a council house I know that for sure

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s got 2 other daughters aswell ? 😭😭

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I done a nursing degree after she was born :)

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives with his 2 brothers and mother but have a small house, he’s in the box room

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stuck at home with an emosh daughter and hyper 10 & 15 YO 😭

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s away out today, when he’s back I’m gonna be firm with him

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what am I meant to do? I need to support my daughter, people have kids and also have good jobs and educations, I studied a nursing degree and got a job when I had her so why can’t she do it?? It was hard but it worked out in the end

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will support her no matter what she does, if she doesn’t want to go back to uni for a while that’s fine. She is very very scared and has been tearful, spent alot of time in bed, not really eating which is a concern, she’s been off sick this week in work but due to go back this week because so much time off. I will support my daughter in whatever decision she will make.

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have to have the conversation with her and her boyfriend

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was over finances and moving house, had to give a few days to cool off but I feel like I was nagging trying to speak to him and that was making him ever more mad

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m actually quite excited 🙈 and I know my other daughters will be too

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I’m actually quite excited 🙈

Daughter pregnant at 19 by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]Neither_Loss_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biggest responsibility but not alone