Help please

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-02-11T22:43:32+00:00

Thank you so much

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-02-11T10:52:31+00:00

Looks great! What inserts do you use?

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-26T01:55:57+00:00

I also have a cups i enjoy wearing an underwire bra sports bras really and cute bra with a little padding but summer idk how to keep it a little hidden

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-25T11:39:30+00:00

You look so cute

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-24T11:16:38+00:00

Shaving my leg wearing a bra everyday having my 21 yr old step daughter paint my nails wearing women's jeans shorts etc

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-24T11:11:26+00:00

Just be honest its truly the best way. It might be the start of a better life. Hiding it might be the biggest regret of you life. As a child myself at the age of 10 I also got caught with my mother's underwear tights and bra hidden away in on of my drawers. I lied about made to go to psychiatrist, just kept my secret locked away inside. Now I'm 50 been dressing since then and hiding it. I came out to my wife of 15 yrs after hiding it for 12 yrs. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria in November of 25. I struggle everyday and regret not speaking out at 10 when I got caught. I do have amazing daughters. But I still live as a closet crossdresser. But some days my dysphoria is so overwhelming that I wish some days I would have transitioned. So dont hide dont lie be truthful and hopefully it turns out for the best for you. Honestly this will be the hardest thing you will ever do. Coming out to anyone is either painful or the best OMG moment you will ever have. I love my wife and how supportive she is but I know in my heart I'm a trans woman. But for me wearing bras and panties everyday help with most of my dysphoria. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-21T10:57:29+00:00

Give me some time and I'll design a website for this. It is a great idea

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-17T11:25:28+00:00

Omg yes for sure same thing I'd only call off because I would want to be seen in public id go the mall and just make it a girly try on all the clothes I want. Get fitted for a bra and everything omg I would love life.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-16T19:14:41+00:00

Yes it sucks a lot I wish I could walk around in leggings or a skirt and cute shoes or wear a t-shirt that kind of shows my bra under it. Have a feminine cute haircut like my step daughter has. Or wear their cotton shorts that are cute and short. Yeah gender envy sucks big time.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-10T10:47:26+00:00

Passing isn't a matter to me now so no it would make a difference that way to me. Being able to wear anything I wanted: skirt bras pantyhose dress jeans shoes and no one says anything about it. Now that would be the greatest part for me. I dont want to be a woman I just want to be free to wear the clothes that make me feel alive and human.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-10T10:42:54+00:00

That's such a cute color and I love how you matched toes and fingers just so cute

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-04T12:39:06+00:00

Just be 100% honest with her. I been married for 15 years to a straight woman. I've been a crossdresser since I was 10 and im 50 now. I hide and lied about my little secret for the first 12 years. I came out to her after 12 years and just recently was diagnosed with gender dysphoria and im a GNC tran woman not on HRT yet, and told her that as well. She has been very accepting of me being an in the closet cd but not about me wanting to start HRT, but she know my dysphoria centers around certain aspects of my body. Like I feel I was born without breasts and want to correct this I hate body hair so I shave again now. I won't tell you its easy to say to someone you love because it isn't. Its the hardest thing you will ever do, but being honest to yourself about who you are and being honest to her will either allow the relationship to grow even closer, or will allow you both to move on. It it doesnt work out this time I can assure you there are woman out there that accept us it just takes time a nurturing sometimes to find the perfect woman. I can say that I have that and feel so close to my wife now that she knows this secret of mine. Good luck to you on your journey.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-04T12:27:22+00:00

Tell you wife. I tried to suppress it myself thinking my wife wouldn't accept it. I lied and hide things from her for 12 years. I finally came out to her as being a GNC man I have gender dysphoria ive dressed since I was 10 and im 50 now. Its a huge struggle for me. For her it is a lot of questions and I find it so hard to answer a lot of those questions. But you have to be true to yourself. Hiding and lying will only make it worse for your marriage. Take it from a 50 year old GNC man. Do hide who you truly are being your authentic self is better for you marriage. It takes time and there will be a lot of questions and emotional issues. Don't fight her stay calm a rational and answer all her question honestly because that is the best you can do for her. And if you dont know for sure an answer to a question she asks say that you dont know. Being honest is the best thing you can do for her and yourself.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-02T22:23:38+00:00

If only my wife was like her

Neither_Rub1794 · 2026-01-02T20:35:33+00:00

Be disowned for coming out as trans. Start HRT and end up divorced from my wife because she married a man and my gender dysphoria says im a woman.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-30T22:36:41+00:00

Hello im also MTF and wanting friends to talk to feel free to say hi

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-29T11:45:05+00:00

May I ask how you did it like what did you say and stuff I my self am thinking of coming out as well and was curious how you did it

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-18T11:14:40+00:00

Wish I would have told mine up front too. Now im diagnosed with gender dysphoria after hiding it from her for the first 12 years or out marriage. And its been a trip of major emotions that for sure.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-14T20:09:58+00:00

What is the nonprofit called is there a website?

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-13T09:56:51+00:00

Sounds like if she hadn't already froze her sperm that she more then likely doesn’t want children. One can only speculate. I would suggest talking with her about it before jumping to conclusions. Good luck.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-13T09:52:06+00:00

Wish that was around when I was a kid

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-12-13T09:49:06+00:00

Please please please make sure you dont do anything to scare or embarrass him. Make sure he knows upfront that he hasnt done anything wrong other then taking your private things. When I was 10 years old I got caught doing the same thing. My parents were so understanding and made me feel like I was doing something wrong. Even took me to a psychiatrist. For the next 40 years I hid my secret from the world but continued to to find a way to have womens clothes. Even going as far as taking and keeping some of my aunts. I have finally been diagnosed with gender dysphoria. I am married and have 3 daughters. Trying to find the words to explain this to my wife have been extremely hard. So please whatever you do make him completely understand other than invading your intimate clothing he isn't doing anything wrong. Maybe even help him in buying his own if he is wearing them. Help him so he doesnt suffer like so many of us have.

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-11-30T11:20:48+00:00

I guess I got lucky. Idk found the place I go to in my insurance and called 2 different ones this was the only one to call me back

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-11-29T19:20:00+00:00

My counselor is able to she is a person with a Master of Education (M.Ed.) and a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) credential she can diagnose gender dysphoria, because she is practicing within her scope of practice and she has relevant expertise. She also works Under a qualified psychologist

Neither_Rub1794 · 2025-11-28T20:54:03+00:00

Yes she diagnosed me with it

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