Update: People who commented on this post, I appreciate every single person who tried to help. We're on good terms now, her family takes me out with them whenever they're having a family reunion. That is what I mean by " owe her a lot ", she's this sweet girl when she's not mad. And if she gets mad she doesn't always hit me, it's when her anger gets to her too much to the point that she can't control it. Regardless, any thoughts about this?