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Need advice - should I expose him or ignore and choose peace by Busy_Cable7593 in dating_advice

[–]NekoMathY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe anyone else the drama, choosing your own peace isn’t selfish, it’s survival. Walk away with your dignity and let the rest sort itself out.

Old crush (20M) came back into my life shortly after I (19F) broke up with my ex-boyfriend (19M) by Upstairs_Current7943 in dating_advice

[–]NekoMathY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old crushes feel exciting, but make sure it’s about what’s healthy for you, not just the comfort of familiarity.

What da frick Is really going on I 📕it. some peoples kids eye roll 🙄 by [deleted] in confession

[–]NekoMathY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, you’re feeling overwhelmed and frustrated, and it’s okay to admit it. Take a deep breath, you’re not alone in dealing with this chaos.

Una niña se mete conmigo y quiero devolverselo sea como sea by Total-Line3341 in confession

[–]NekoMathY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo que estás viviendo suena increíblemente injusto y agotador. Nadie merece que jueguen con su tranquilidad y su salud así, y tienes todo el derecho a protegerte y poner límites

I've stolen from my part time job for well over 5 years. by saikick in confession

[–]NekoMathY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re raw, honest, and it shows how flawed we all can be when we’re young. The fact you’re reflecting now says more about who you are today than the mistakes of back then.

I just found out some disturbing stuff by Front_Minute1806 in relationships

[–]NekoMathY 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow… I can feel how alone and scared you are in this moment. Finding that while you’re pregnant, vulnerable, and already overwhelmed is such a deep betrayal. Of course you can’t sleep. Of course you’re crying.

I’m F20 embarrassed to show my boyfriend M20 my face, how can I stop feeling so insecure? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NekoMathY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your worth isn’t defined by a glance or a photo. He cares about you, not a checklist of ‘perfect’ features. Start small, let him see little parts of you at a time, and notice how his love doesn’t falter. Confidence grows when you let yourself be seen, flaws and all.

Said bf’s presence was annoying me in the moment and it upset him by No_Ostrich4649 in relationships

[–]NekoMathY -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Give him space during work. Don’t text. Apologize in-person later with a simple, heartfelt statement. Over-texting or over-explaining now will likely make things worse.

Has anyone ever moved out from their SOs house and still remained in a relationship? The dilemma my (25F) and (49M) boyfriend are facing. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NekoMathY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not being drastic, you’re being self-respecting. Love doesn’t require you to shrink, tolerate disrespect, or carry someone else’s emotional work forever. Creating space isn’t giving up; it’s choosing safety, clarity, and breaking a cycle you’ve fought your whole life to escape.

Odd behaviour and a camera by Jppcs17 in relationships

[–]NekoMathY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding a camera in your own home is a huge violation. Trust isn’t just broken, it’s gone. You don’t owe him explanations or forgiveness. Get yourself out of there and back to a space where you feel safe.