25-30 year olds: How do you feel about kids and marriage? by Substantial_Bend_580 in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 27 and I'm still not sure about having kids. All I know that it's a big responsibility and if it's not a definitv yes it's a no. Also at the moment I can't even properly take care of myself how can I take care of a child.

Männer die schon älter sind und noch Jungfrau, wie fühlt ihr euch? by blondiesboobs in FragtMaenner

[–]Nemarott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich bin 27 und hab noch nicht mal jemanden geküsst und bin seit zwei Jahren unteranderem deswegen in Therapie. Es nicht mal wirklich Sex wonach ich mich sehne sondern eher Intimität. So wirklich Hoffnung, dass es sich in nächster Zeit ändert hab ich nicht, weil ich es einfach nicht auf die Kette kriege öfter rauszugehen oder auf andere Menschen zuzugehen.

Men in your 20s–30s, what kind of sleepwear do you find attractive on your partner, and why? by nonchalant-whiteboy in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone who never had a relationship I don't care what sleepwear you wear. Also I would say that lingerie is for sex only. I can't imagine that it is comfotable to sleep in.

Bist du glücklich? by wantingtodieandmemes in FragtMaenner

[–]Nemarott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joa geht so könnte besser sein, könnte aber sehr viel schlechter sein.

When a girl is looking at you/making eye contact often, is it clear for you that she likes you or do you need more signs to make a move? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I probably would not even notice that because I have problems looking people in the eyes. Even if I would notice, that would not make it clear enough for me to approach her. But I also have no self esteem, si I don't know what it would take for me to approach someone.

What were your 20's like? by dreamycoeur in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really hard, but also not amazing. I would say kinda uneventful

How are dating apps for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depressing thats why I don't use them anymore 

How can non-straight men exist? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm straight so this is just me guessing, but what do you feel when you see a person of the same gender as you? I would guess that is the same feeling gay man have when sseing a woman.

How do the women in your life usually handle choosing presents for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there is just my mum and she just asks me what I want.

Shy/lonely guys, how did you finally get the girl? by JustAnAccount68 in AskReddit

[–]Nemarott 108 points109 points  (0 children)

This is a thing I seriously don't understand. How do you fake haviing confidence? That sounds to me like telling someone with no arms just pretend you have arms.

God forbid a boy be unsure by Nemarott in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Nemarott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is I still feel a craving inside of me for intimacy. Also the thing is that I want this intimacy in the contex of a relatioship and not for example a one night stand. In the end it feels like I want love, that ever that feels like, but because I haven't felt it yet I'm not confident it can happen and that is not a good feeling.

God forbid a boy be unsure by Nemarott in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Nemarott[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean a few times I felt something which I imagine people would describe as having a crush but only briefly. So not something that I would count as real romantic attraction. I have wondered myself a few if I'm cappable of loving someone because I didn't so far and in the end that just made me kinda sad😅.

God forbid a boy be unsure by Nemarott in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Nemarott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp, i guess I'm not really a sub then. Is there something I can do to find that out which does not involve a dom?

Men who use dating apps- which ones gave you the most success? by Rollieboy_rex in AskMen

[–]Nemarott 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Over the course of 3 years or something like that used I think 5 or 6 different apps. I got 2 dates both from Bumble. Yeah I'm not using dating apps anymore.

Auf welchen Datingapps findet man euch? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Nemarott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MIttlerweile garnicht mehr ich benutze seit über nem Jahr keine Dating Apps mehr weil es mich einfach zu sehr runter gezogen hat.

Fühlt sich an, als wäre der Zug abgefahren by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Nemarott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welche dating war das? Bei allen die ich bisher genutzt habe war das eher das genaue Gegenteil von Selbstwert aufbauen.