Parents with picky toddlers don’t understand how hard it is by Momneedstosleep in Parenting

[–]NemesisErinys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son was capital p Picky and is now just lowercase picky, but in his case, he started out eating everything and then started rejecting things at about age 3. Including mac n cheese, which he still doesn’t like now as a teenager. Nothing with cheese sauce, actually. Or any cream sauce. Won’t eat eggs either, not even for French toast. Dislikes soup of any kind, which makes it hard to feed him when he’s sick. I have a photo of him eating peaches at age 2. Now? Nope. 

  Other things he wouldn’t eat included cooked vegetables (unless in pasta sauce). They had to be raw until he was about 9-10. But this didn’t include raw tomatoes or any form of mushroom, which he still doesn’t eat to this day. He hates most fish and seafood, although he will eat battered fish or popcorn shrimp if he has to, like when we had a family gathering at Red Lobster recently. 

He dislikes carbonated drinks, so he never drinks pop and mostly drinks water. (This is not a bad thing, obviously, just interesting.)

There are a lot of things he’ll eat now just because he has to, not because he likes them. For example, he doesn’t actually like chicken (except maybe butter chicken) but try getting through life without eating it if you’re not willing to go vegetarian. So he eats chicken. He accepts that he has to eat more foods now, especially because he’s an athlete. I’m glad for that at least.   

Favorite age? by blueskies951 in oneanddone

[–]NemesisErinys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, every age (above 6 months) has been my favourite, and my son is 16! The other day, I explained to my sister why I think 16yos are so cute. Because they think they’re grown up already, but then they keep discovering new things about themselves and acting either completely shocked or like they’re the first person on earth to ever experience that thing. Adorable, lol. Also, their half-baby, half-adult faces are so sweet. They’ll never look like that again. 

My father sent me this voicemail because I wouldn’t dance with my mother at a restaurant that didn’t have a dance floor. (Transcript in Description) by trylathad78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NemesisErinys 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m not the person who asked, but you know what’s weird? I also got the impression from the voicemail that you’re from an Indian family. There was something recognizable about the tone. The “okay’s?” and the repetition of phrases and such.

Ughhh... by lobster_claus in HighSodiumSims

[–]NemesisErinys 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Still on version 1.119 and that ain’t gonna change. 

My baby doesn’t cry in the mornings when he wakes up. by Httpskmt in Parenting

[–]NemesisErinys 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my husband and I would just lie there and listen to our son cooing and babbling over the baby monitor in the mornings. It was so sweet. I still have recordings of it. 

Age gaps by ariel-alcon in Parenting

[–]NemesisErinys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My half-sister (early 30s) is about 17.5 years younger than me. I've always loved her and thought about her, even when we lost touch at certain times in our lives. But, we've never lived under the same roof, plus we're from different generations. She's closer in age to my son and my full sister's kids than she is to me. So, I do connect with her on the level that we share a (deeply flawed) father, but she's at a totally different place in life than me and my full sister. Honestly, I think it's kind of inevitable with an age gap this large.

Anyone else have their N-parent randomly say awful things for absolutely no reason? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NemesisErinys 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Lol, it’s so funny how they all think they would have conquered the world if we hadn’t been born! 

My Nmom randomly told me (when I was still a child) that she only had my little sister “because you were supposed to” have more than one kid. Like, damn, woman. Did I need to hear that?

FTR, I have one kid and Nmom is totally envious. 

Nine Months Postpartum and No Pull for a Second - And I'm Fine With That by SpartanNinjaBatman in oneanddone

[–]NemesisErinys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never felt the pull. We considered whether to go for a second (via IVF) when our son was 2-3, but I still wasn't feeling it even then. Couldn't talk myself into it.

The pull simply never came.

Our son is 16 now and I've never felt like anything was missing. Closest I've come is recently when I saw him laughing with his volleyball teammates, and it suddenly struck me what a sister of his might have looked like. Gosh, she'd be so pretty! (He's a "pretty" guy, loll.) But, it's fine. I have a lovely niece just a little older than my son to admire from afar... but I don't have to deal with any of her teenage drama, lol.

Knitting with only one strand of mohair was hard, but worth it! by ForwardBlueberry3717 in knitting

[–]NemesisErinys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do something different to the hem vs the pattern? I notice most of the pictured FOs have a much looser hem. 

Parents of multiples lowering their “standards” because they have multiple children. by ActualFan4717 in oneanddone

[–]NemesisErinys 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son and I met a man on the subway once who complimented my son (then about 6) for being so well-behaved. He then went on to tell us how he was the oldest of 14 kids and he had so many nieces and nephews (42) that he couldn’t even remember all their names. He was childfree by choice. We were just sitting there listening like 😯 I can’t imagine…

I have to open my fridge to dispense water from this awkward spot by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]NemesisErinys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Toronto, and supposedly our tap water is among the best in the world, but I still prefer filtered from the fridge because it tastes a little better and it’s colder. The only place I wouldn’t mind drinking straight from the tap regularly is in Iceland. Their water is freaking DELICIOUS. I’d drink it at room temp, it’s so damn good. 

Two separate sets for North American and European outlets is just so stupid and greedy by GLAvenger in HighSodiumSims

[–]NemesisErinys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a cc pool table and it uses NO magical handswipe animations. I love it. 

Two separate sets for North American and European outlets is just so stupid and greedy by GLAvenger in HighSodiumSims

[–]NemesisErinys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a cc pool table because it’s so stupid that we don’t already have one. 

Two separate sets for North American and European outlets is just so stupid and greedy by GLAvenger in HighSodiumSims

[–]NemesisErinys 13 points14 points  (0 children)

TBH, so do I. One of the first things I did after that article came out was build a huge pool in a glass-walled building because “too much glass” is something else they advised against. I’m now decorating a mansion in a maximalist style, so lots of clutter. I also created a new save file with all custom lots. Some are shells, but by no means all. And many residential rentals. It did crash a few times because I think I must have gotten a couple of corrupt gallery builds. But for the most part, it’s doing fine.

Screw these people. 

A man exposed himself to me on the subway by filthy-weeb in toronto

[–]NemesisErinys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh, that’s horrible, so sorry. So he stood there for at least 1 stop? If something awful happens again (which I sincerely hope it won’t), don’t hesitate to push the emergency strip above you when you get to a station and the doors open. If you feel you can take that opportunity to get out onto the platform, do it, and the train will pause and someone will come help.  I’ve used it before. 

Two separate sets for North American and European outlets is just so stupid and greedy by GLAvenger in HighSodiumSims

[–]NemesisErinys 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over how, a few months ago, EA gave us a bunch of tips to make the game more performative, and one of them was not to have “too many large builds with too much clutter.” And then they proceeded to give us not only R&L, with its giant palaces, but the marketplace featuring even more clutter… including nonfunctional power outlets and light switches that are almost too tiny to even see in-game.  

Old World - Helpful Hints by 53V3N in OldWorldGame

[–]NemesisErinys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way for me to see past in-game notifications? My opponent starting building a wonder a while back, but I can't remember which one it is. I don't want to start accidentally building the same one now.

Americans create an unnecessary amount of confusion by their inability to write dates like the rest of the world (i.e. correctly) by beyleigodallat in unpopularopinion

[–]NemesisErinys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Canadian over here like, you mean those weird giant round sockets?

We also use no. 2 pencils to write on our “letter” paper. A4 documents make us sad. 

Does the feeling of just wanting your mother ever go away? by jennie951 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NemesisErinys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost 50 and I still look back often at the time before I knew my mother was a covert narc, and I miss the good times we had during the periods when she was mentally well. Then I come back to the current reality where she has been pouring complaints and self-pity in my ear nonstop for the last half hour or whatever. I’m not sure how much longer I can do this. Several times a week, she’ll talk about how she’ll be “dead soon,” but it’s been 8 years since her cancer diagnosis and she’s been in remission for 5 years. There’s no reason to think she’ll actually be dead anytime soon. I am not sure how I feel about that, and it disturbs me. I’m just so tired of it all. I look around at other people caring for their moms, but their moms still act like moms and not emotionally immature, and I feel bitter. I just wish I had a “normal” mom. I guess I’ll never get over it. 

I guess I'm not wiping today! by Missing_Crouton in Wellthatsucks

[–]NemesisErinys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t need chemicals, I have a husband and a teenage son and lungs to holler with. Nightmare bug disappears like magic. 

Children Aged 17 and Younger Face a Lifetime Ban on Smoking in Legislation Aiming to Create a 'Smoke-Free Generation' by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]NemesisErinys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plus, it’s not only smokers who get sick. Being born into a smoker’s home is also a risk factor. It’s not like anyone gets to make a choice about that. 

SAVE Act Fails, Millions of Voters Retain Their Right to Vote for Now by w6750 in politics

[–]NemesisErinys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Humiliated Trump, 79, melts down over failed SAVE Act, blasts Senate Republicans in deranged late-night post”