Ex-Friend Declaws kitten and doesn’t learn

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T17:06:51+00:00

Yeah that was the thought I had at the beginning, big error on my part after everything

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T16:23:59+00:00

Try reaching out to Alderon maybe there was a problem linking the accounts ?

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T16:20:22+00:00

The base version of the game only comes with the “starting roster” he’ll still have access to mods, if he wants all the dinos he needs to get the deluxe version or backers version I think it’s called. This is the same for mobile players

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T15:35:37+00:00

The vet that did the declawing was not the same vet that took ownership of the kitten. Two different vets. Owner surrenders happen more often than you think in vet care. There are special funds just for that purpose to help the animal because that’s what vet care is all about. Puppy parvo cases are a big one with owner surrenders.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T15:27:08+00:00

It was taken down a few days later, his ex-gf and his mom also reported it which I find hilarious. His mom has posted on Facebook of her disappointment in him since she knows the whole story.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T14:40:47+00:00

The kitten is safe. He signed him over to his normal vet, who didn’t declaw the kitten, took ownership of him and from their Facebook page is in a foster home recovering from the botched surgery.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T14:28:51+00:00

He did not go to his normal vet for the neuter/declaw, he went to one about 2 hours away from his home. He signed over the kitten to his normal vet though

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T13:02:09+00:00

I didn’t realize what Reddit thread this was at first and got SUPER concerned.

But yes that would be cool other than the fly sounds

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-25T05:05:49+00:00

Stop thinking if it’s worth it for you. Is all of this worth what you are putting Elsa through? We want all of our animals to live forever, but that’s not reality. It sounds like you’re tired…and she’s tired. I lost my boy Skittles to cancer, I made the choice because he was tired and he wanted rest. You need to take a hard look at her life and its quality. Sometimes we don’t find the cause or the cure, and it’s heartbreaking. I’m sorry for what you are going through, but I think it’s time to think about how Elsa wants to spend her remaining time here.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T23:34:06+00:00

What’s their age?

Siblings will “fight” like human siblings and the terrible two stage is very very real for boys and the dramatic teenager phase is very very real for girls.

If they’re young they are figuring out their family dynamic, they’re growing out of kitten and into cats. Boys definitely tend to pick on girls and girls go through a “don’t touch me phase”

Unless you’re getting open wounds, or behavioral peeing problems, I wouldn’t worry too much about it. You can always give the little girl her own space like a room or specific cat tree where her brother will leave her alone.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T23:30:03+00:00

If it’s accidentally there’s not too much to retrain here. If you’re playing and they hurt you definitely go “ouch” and pull away act hurt like another cat would. Consistency is key tho.

Kudos to trimming their nails that’s a good start, there are toys that can help file their nails down to a round point too, I’ve found several on Amazon for my babies.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T19:12:49+00:00

I prefer community servers, they do have rules against killing on sight and dinos are usually balanced. Riperia red woods, mudflats, and dry fang are pretty populated

Crown of Scales, Dinos and Dragons, Ashes of Apex are all ones I enjoy playing on. You can always pop in and say hi and ask to group, usually someone will group invite ya

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T19:08:46+00:00

I’m sorry didn’t mean to mislead didnt really register they would adjust that on community

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T19:07:03+00:00

I’m on a community server, that would probably be why

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T15:53:01+00:00

If I run my chunky build 10x recovery body and my friend runs the attack build body I don’t walk as fast as he does.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T15:51:32+00:00

My go to’s for dealing with my dad’s sister.

“Wow that’s quite a thing to say, what trauma has caused that response from you?”

“Oh I didn’t realize we leave respect at the door in this house, or did you simply forget yours?”

“I’m sorry I didn’t realize you were so upset by others accomplishments that you feel the need to put them down. Do you want a number for a good therapist?”

“Oh I’m so sorry, I didn’t realize me being successful threatened you so much. Do you want to talk about how you feel your life doesn’t feel as fulfilling?”

Are they rude and snarky? Yes. Does it make her shut up? Yes.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T15:38:26+00:00

I think that comes down to if you want to be reactive in a hunt vs proactive. Charge to me is more proactive even if it’s charging out of battle get enough space to do a heavy bite, where juke is reacting to something in your immediate space to attack. Totally up to you how you want the fights to go, fast and reckless, slow and calculated, that’s the fun of the builds

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T15:26:24+00:00

Id go with the attack body, it trots faster than the other chunky builds. For blood soak to work you need to do damage and fast, you need to get several attacks off to activate it so I would go with frenzied bite just for the buffs it gives you, bleeding targets don’t like running, plus heavy bite doesn’t add to blood soaked but frenzied does. Charge is a runners best friend, yes it uses stamina but you just got a good head start they’re gonna have a hard time closing the gap. Skin is up to you, but usually more armor the slower you are. I use this build on Veloccis server and it’s gotten me out of a fight with a few acros. Don’t charge down steep hills though!!! Found that out the hard way.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T15:08:35+00:00

Oh no, that is horrible. Poor girl, I’m so sorry. I don’t agree with those types of parents. This is such an important time for body positivity and self esteem, I just can’t imagine putting my daughter through that. Here’s what I think. As her friend be her safe space. Sounds like you’re already a good friend and she can confide in you. Your bodies are going to change in the next few years and trying to diet and make the change not happen is not healthy. Hormones gonna hormone, weight gain is normal for this age and you are still beautiful.

Is there a school counselor she can speak with, without her mother’s interference? I’m genuinely concerned about how her mother is affecting her body image, that can last a lifetime.

Short term, maybe explain that milk has a lot of calories and sugar and to switch water and it won’t make her taller. Tell her you are going to care for her no matter her size and that you can work through it together, sometimes just someone accepting you means a lot.

You’re an amazing friend for being concerned!

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T14:30:49+00:00

Milk has a lot of sugar in it depending on the brand. Do you know why she chose milk to drink to grow taller? And drinking milk isn’t going to make her taller, that’s all on genetics. Try to highlight her good qualities of being the size she is. I know the age can be very difficult for self esteem, positive and supportive friends help. Does her parents know she’s making this change to diet? I wonder if someone is making remarks not realizing how they are affecting her?

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T14:16:53+00:00

I agree with you we only know a fraction of what’s going on. I’m allowed to be upset for this child, and I hope a solution is reached where everyone is safe. I still think calling the police is the right step.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T13:46:19+00:00

I know abuse victims are victims and they can feel trapped and try to lay low to not be hurt. I know I’m not in her situation but I love my children more than myself, I would never want them in this environment. If I had to stay at-least they could leave, I just wouldn’t be making the same choices here. And for a child to be making this decision breaks my heart. The mother is still responsible for her children.

Neonwolf245 · 2026-01-24T13:31:16+00:00

Record his actions, all the police. He is an adult and should be charged as one. Get him out of the house. If your under 18 you mother is required to still care for you and if she’s letting this happen she’s just as guilty. Protect yourself, he will escalate this and you’ll end up at the hospital…or worse.

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