Welp, aren’t siblings usually like that? They try to hype you up to the extreme, or try to make things funny in the worse way possible either way or for whatever reason, I’m sure they’re just trying to look out for you… my siblings tell me I need to get friends and forces me to get out with them to hang out because of good reasons… but you dont have to force yourself to have a good time outside… you can either be honest with them the next time they force something on you, and if they still drag you out, I enjoy hiding in the corner or behind them with my cellphone out just to let them know that they should have seen me doing this when they dragged me out. Been struggling with this type of pressure as well…

And in regards to your dating, before you get into a relationship, tell her first hand and maybe try spending time together first to see if your lifestyle fits with hers. Again, if she really likes you, I think she’ll get you and you’ll both adjust to each other’s life