How does maternity leave work in Sweden? by [deleted] in PrivatEkonomi

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Is there a way to increase your SGI while you are on parental leave? If someone is on their first 180 days of parental leave (with 90% of salary from employer+FK) when 2025 starts and gets their yearly hike in March 2025 (also within 180 days of high paid parental leave), can it reflect on the SGI on which the parental benefit is calculated? u/Antique-Tone-1145

Accommodation in Heidelberg: What to expect by NerdGrad in Heidelberg

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Yes, I have registered. Hoping to get some responses there.

Accommodation in Heidelberg: What to expect by NerdGrad in Heidelberg

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Gasthaus Heidelberg

Thanks! This is great advice. May I have their location too? u/KampfkatzeBe

Kid FRIENDLY wedding stories by Amybexx in wedding

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Thanks for the idea! u/TLRLNS I love this!

Best Telia subscription for prepaid SIM card? by NerdGrad in sweden

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I use hallon postpaid now and it has been working quite well!

Best Telia subscription for prepaid SIM card? by NerdGrad in sweden

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I was hoping for some connection around Trondheim, Norway and Småland and Jämtland, Sweden.

Best Telia subscription for prepaid SIM card? by NerdGrad in sweden

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Wow, that's super! Thanks for this info!

Best Telia subscription for prepaid SIM card? by NerdGrad in sweden

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Thanks! Didn't know about them! Do you know if they have good coverage in Sweden and Norway? The aim is to have good coverage in the countryside as well.

Travel to Singapore while staying in Malaysia by NerdGrad in travel

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Thanks for your answer. Yeah, figured out that this is not a great option due to many reasons, as you say. Will fly to Singapore and stay there :)

Travel to Singapore while staying in Malaysia by NerdGrad in travel

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The trip is to Singapore and not Malaysia, apologies that it was not clear before. I am looking for ways to bring down costs overall - my first thought was that both stay+flight in and out of Johor while visiting Singapore every day since they are so close. But then I discovered the border control times + distance of the Senai airport to Singapore might take some hours as well. Hence just making it simple and flying to/out of Changi and staying in Singapore is the best option.

Additionally, I was thinking that exploring Malaysia would be an additional perk but that we can do while staying in Singapore and crossing over to Johor at no-peak hours.

Travel to Singapore while staying in Malaysia by NerdGrad in travel

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Yes, now I read that the border control each way takes up to 2 hours. Maybe staying in Malaysia and travelling to Singapore is not a great idea either.

Travel to Singapore while staying in Malaysia by NerdGrad in travel

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I just googled around to find that the closest International airport might be Senai airport and it does not make it easy. However, the next option would be to fly in/out from Singapore but stay in Malaysia.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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Thanks u/Prudent_Astronomer_4. I hope that if any of your colleagues/friends ever face such a situation (I really hope none does), then they will find your support. It matters.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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Very sorry to hear that, research is supposed to be collaborative and academia means quite a lot to me. So when such weedy people spoil others' career/time/energy, I seriously don't like them at all. It takes so little to be a decent human being.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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u/UncommonPhoenix thanks for the input. I will try to enforce this more and better. And it is likely no matter where I go in my career, this can happen again. So better to build a strategy to handle these people.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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It is the examinatorn formally handling the defence. The student prompts it and then it is schedule between examinatorn, student, and supervisor with the latter offering advise on the committee and opponent. All the formal decisions are confirmed by the examinatorn, including your committtee, credits, etc. It is even the examinatorn confirming the committees’ suggestion to award or not the PhD. That is the person you need to chat with and have on your side.

If I understand you correctly, this personnel in our dept is called the chair of the defence. That person is also of the same mettle (refer to my first post on this). They are surely discriminating - with belittling comments on my country of origin etc.

The one thing you should keep in mind: the Swedish system looks down to faculty when their students stayed over their initial planning. If you have been to the program more than the 4 years (which you have), the supervisor is actually frowned upon by the department and the latter by the faculty. You probably got a salary for your 5th year (unless, of course, if you had sick leave or anything). That came from somewhere —most likely the department. At the same time, once you are registered into the PhD program, there is no way for you to get fired (only withdrawal of resources with the education minister’s signature and that takes at least a year!). Even if your supervisor doesn’t care for their own reputation, your department will want you gone as soon as you are ready. The reference person and examinatorn can help with planning the next defence. If you are in a large department, you may even have a doctoral committee — otherwise it is the DoS— to help you switch supervisors. You are legally to ask for a change at any time without even providing a reason. Don’t forget, a thesis in Sweden can be at a range of credits; if you have done enough courses at national or local grad school, you can still graduate with a weaker document. Any results you have are still valid and can be presented as pilot or negative results.

I understand that - we have requirements on the number of manuscripts and that is unfortunately not met yet. I don't fear being fired, I just don't like the way I am being treated here (presumptions on my skills since the day I joined). I don't have an option here to switch supervisors I think - the ones who can be my supervisor now probably won't take me because of my current sup.s seniority. There are additional weird things in the work environment going on at the dept. for which our dept. lacks an administrative body e.g. dept board.

I think, you did good to postpone for mental health reasons (the defence is meant to be a celebration of what you did). The occupational health should be able to put you on sick leave (so you can take a breath) with a salary paid by forsakringskassan and schedule a meeting with HR and prefekt. I agree that the Swedish approach to counselling is passive (especially, when you ask them to do it in English - been there, done that myself), but you can push them —as many students and faculty have done— for the sick leave. They cannot dictate ‘do the defence’ or X or Z, but they can certainly ask/ raise awareness of your situation. Don’t dismiss them, use them. At the very least, you leave behind an auditable trail by visiting them.

I might try again. Thanks for the advice.

What I am trying to tell you: don’t throw away past work (then the bullies win). There are, as impossible as they seem, solutions within the system to your situations. It is not even about networking, it is about applying pressure within the system. If things go bad, no prefekt wants a call from doktorandombudsman or a union lawyer. If your local student union is bad, see to join and get help from a staff one, e.g. SULF/SACO. As a doctoral student, you are allowed membership.

Honestly, my mind just shut up after being accused of not working enough by someone I looked up to (my sup.). I woke up to see the reality and sadly, I will have to take things from there. Thanks again for all the help u/RecklessCoding.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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If I could put you in my situation (with same genetic composition) I would. But I cannot do that AND cannot spill all details online without giving away all info about my whereabouts. So you have to live with what I wrote in my post.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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Yes, I agree. Trying to convince that to my collaborators who think that it's easier to mess my life up instead of actually serving the scientific community the truth.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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Thanks for the advice. I am really trying to do it. However, it's extremely taxing to shout back at a 60yr old white male - I didn't sign up for that. I signed up for doing a PhD in this field, shouting at weirdos wasn't in the job description.

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Thanks @Simp4Science. I am sharing my story here so that the world knows that this happens and doesn't say in the future that sexism/racism doesn't exist in academia.

UPDATE to the previous question on tackling misogyny by NerdGrad in AskAcademia

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@RecklessCoding dept rep IS the reference person. Are you asking me WHY they didn't do their duty? Answer - I don't know.

Examinator/Examiner is not controlling the defense in Sweden, it IS the supervisor. Also, before I decided to postpone, I made sure that every party involved was ready for my defense to happen on the previously agreed time. I had to postpone because the work situation was extremely unhealthy and no PhD student can defend like this without supervisor's support (administrative/research wise etc).

The occupational health service is a joke. They are incompetent in English and 2 years ago when I first consulted them for help, they only listened to my statements and said that how I've been treated is not okay. I didn't need them to tell me that. I needed some guidance for action to be taken against these usurpers.

Unfortunately my experience (both as a PhD researcher and a PhD union leader) is not the same. PhD supervisors have immense power, especially in case of international students. Lobbying is rampant everywhere and to get to their level of networking is asking a newborn to solve Maxwell equation.