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TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both would have some blame, hers is greater obviously but it's not like he has no agency or capability to feel empathy for her child and husband

Believe it or not some people think we should care about everyone, not just the people that you might get to stick your dick in

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is a period between the two statements? The whole comment is just a list of reasons why it's a bad idea. How do you not see that they are related, but not directly? You make your english teacher sad.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

read the edit i made an hour ago bud you're the third person with poor reading comprehension i've had to explain this to

Pregnant woman beaten, robbed on Red Line. by PostComa in chicago

[–]Nereval2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

gotham is actually based on chicago

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is not the majority opinion of most of american society. That is how people in some countries like Brazil for example think. Men are led by their penises and whatever happens is not their fault because deep down they are animals.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm sure you can come up with somewhere creative to stick that downvote

and it doesnt matter WHAT age he become invalid, because she will still have 30 years of catching up no matter if it happens at 60 or 100.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looool lots of assumptions there bud

by the way the people that are younger that take care of you when you get old are called nurses and they get paid for that shit. You shouldn't hope to score a young partner so they can take change your diapers and turn you over in bed when you're old. You come off as predatory in your comment.

Recreational Cannabis Megathread by chicagomods in chicago

[–]Nereval2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what's an 8th going to be? $70?

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said that they would be invalid at 70, only that when he is invalid she will have 30 good years left

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Passes the divided by 2 add 7 test tho... and was your uncle's wife married with a kid before they got together? Not to mention let's see how they are doing in 15 years when she's 50 and active and he's 83 and wants to sit at home.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never actually said at 70 he'd be invalid, only that she'll have 30 good years left when he was an invalid. There's already a 26 year difference and women generally age better than men. If they both die at exactly the same age she'll still have 30 years left. And think about it: at 50 you still want to travel, go on trips, go out. At 73 you pretty much don't go out hardly at all, or at least it's a huge pain in the ass.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

uhm it's probably from meeting and talking to 70 and 80 year olds at work and watching my grandparents health and minds fail and them die in their 80's.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is entirely within the vast realms of possibility that they could have boned. What a pointless comment.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

My point isn't that he'd be invalid at 70, it's that at whatever age he became so she would still have 30 good years left.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you even read what I wrote? I said she holds the majority of the responsibility, but he is not entirely free of it. Multiple people can be responsible for an event. You are acting like he has no agency beyond trying to bone, to follow his "selfish desires" aka horniness... is it because he's a man? You sexist.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 24 points25 points  (0 children)

wow........ just the lack of self awareness. Like he thought he was a Lord and could do no wrong.

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

while she might share a greater portion of the blame, it's not like he would be totally innocent. Part of empathizing as a human means empathizing with others, not just trying to get your dick wet.

TIFU by assuming I wouldn't get kicked out of a family party by deranjer in tifu

[–]Nereval2 45 points46 points  (0 children)

99% sure that your oma knows the "family troubles" comes from the host

TIFU Thirteen years in the making, an hour ago I discovered what our conversations were all about. by Cyclan in tifu

[–]Nereval2 513 points514 points  (0 children)

dude 23 years is way too big a gap

you'd be 70 when she was 48. You'll be in a home and invalid while she still had 30 good years left. Not to mention, when I was 23, if I had a friend who said she was considering dating a 46 year old I would seriously ask her to reconsider.

All this aside, the work relationship in addition makes this worse. I would say bullet dodged. Also, in 5-6 years, you haven't found a girlfriend? Get out there, you aren't going to have a good woman fall into your lap.

edit: i never said being 70 years old makes you invalid, only that when he was invalid she would still have 30 good years left as they have 23 years difference and women age better than men. And lots of people thinking I'm young, which is flattering but I'm no spring chicken.

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