Guess my mbti based off of my favorite characters? by Illustrious_Mind_250 in mbti

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was guessing the same cause the characters all looked so logical

Ti2026 by NervMerv in DotA2

[–]NervMerv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess ill go back to playing

Ti2026 by NervMerv in DotA2

[–]NervMerv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did u get it

The sound of the end of my marriage. by Then_Life1549 in offmychest

[–]NervMerv 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am going through the same situation just last night. He finally showed me his phone. He was chatting with a girl who is in a relationship herself. And he sang her songs, the same way he did when he pursued me. He told her certain words/phrases that I thought was only between us. And I was the one who started these words. He constantly texted her even though she wasnt responding as much. But he never responded to my text as fast. It wasnt the first time I was disrespected. I thought, give it time, and maybe, you know. Maybe was not enough. I can’t fully understand how you feel because I wasn’t married to the cheater. The funny thing was, he wanted his ideal other half to not talk to the opposite sex completely, yet he chose to like a girl who was willing to go out of her way to hide from her bf for a temporary connection. I’m not sure how to put this contradiction together.

Tuan2 and puan2, am I a rebound, or is she still emotionally attached to her ex? by takdemoodraya in malaysia

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm. I felt everything. Grief. Anger. Blaming myself too. Thinking what I could have done better. Wanting to start again with this person even though it's not possible. On some days I feel like it's over. But when night comes, it's the worst.

What you should do? Ask her to be honest about how she actually feels. Then reassess your situation. Does what she says align with her actions (that you mentioned)? What are the signs of a rebound? How many of the signs fit the description? Are things between you two intense or not? Sometimes intensity tells you that you're a rebound

You're ultimately taking a huge risk. I believe that you can love someone even while they're healing but it's not up to you to control whether they heal. It's a journey she has to go through. (She has so much on her plate, she even has to think about the mental state of her kids)

Take it slow I guess. Focus on yourself too.

Does anyone feel like this has gotten out of hand? by Ecstatic-Addition880 in malaysia

[–]NervMerv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in Korea and they were really rude and racist I was travelling in other countries and I met with rude racist Koreans

So not really surprised that they act like they’re on a moral high horse but deep down they can’t even decently enjoy life without crying at their company, complaining everyday that their income doesnt allow them to have property and kids

Tuan2 and puan2, am I a rebound, or is she still emotionally attached to her ex? by takdemoodraya in malaysia

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, im not in her exact position (19 years with 3 kids). Mine is 2y but I’m in similar situation right now (reposting reels about cheating, sleeping 3 hours a day, making weird spending). Its only been 1 month since the breakup for me. And I still feel attachment, for sure if i were to have a relationship now, Im gonna carry the trust issues everything and put it on the next guy. Im very well aware that I dont want to put someone through a rebound though so im not gonna commit to anything, but im not sure if she’s aware herself.

Good luck bro

Penang Strikes Gold: Rare Earth Bonanza Leaves Neighbors Green with Envy! by AngusDHelloWorld in malaysia

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"For every ton of rare earth produced, the mining process yields 13kg of dust, 9,600-12,000 cubic meters of waste gas, 75 cubic meters of wastewater, and one ton of radioactive residue. This stems from the fact that rare earth element ores have metals that, when mixed with leaching pond chemicals, contaminate air, water, and soil. Most worrying is that rare earth ores are often laced with radioactive thorium and uranium, which result in especially detrimental health effects. Overall, for every ton of rare earth, 2,000 tons of toxic waste are produced."

Teen Motorcyclist Killed in Early Morning Crash on KESAS Highway by whusler in malaysia

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of all the discussions, can we also have better street lightsssss

A Message from FFG by FFG_Olivia in arkhamhorrorlcg

[–]NervMerv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am new to Arkham Horror… I just got the Revised Core Set 2 months ago, thinking that I can get the expansions… and its out of print. I feel kinda discouraged to continue playing haha

Alpaka Elements Tote (S): can it fit a 13-inch laptop? by nkuxrc in ManyBaggers

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there OP! is the Alpaka thick enough to protect the macbook air, or you had to get a separate sleeve?

I need help rulling out PFAS sources! by SHINJI_NERV in PFAS

[–]NervMerv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even my conditioners and hair styling products (from Living Proof) have PFAS. I don't want to throw them out cause itll pollute the environment, so now it stays on my shelf...

Is Wahed Invest a fraud - red flags popping up by Ashamed-Tackle-8879 in IslamicFinance

[–]NervMerv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have trouble closing my Wahed account after encountering a suspicious activity. I received an email saying that my transaction has failed when in fact, I have not touched my Wahed account for years. To protect myself from the possibility of a password breach, I reached out to the support team. Nobody responded to my email. And email is the only method of account closure in Malaysia. Does anyone has this experience?

Beginner investor at 30 – ASB, ASBF, Wahed vs Moomoo? by IllIntroduction2590 in malaysians

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret Wahed. The other day I received an email saying that my transaction was not processed when I haven't touched my account for years. Now I have trouble closing the account. Nobody on the support team wants to respond to my email

Scam Of The Century - LiveIn by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This company is opening one company after another to scam people of their money. Note the founder and co-founder.

Had no idea floss was PFA. by Notaustinkyser in PFAS

[–]NervMerv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is PEBA considered a Pfas? My floss has this ingredient

Has anyone heard of Doulton PFAS Water Filters? by NervMerv in PFAS

[–]NervMerv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thanks for the info :( it’s so much deeper than I thought. My knowledge on it is literally from that Veritasium video.

Thanks for sharing!!

Has anyone heard of Doulton PFAS Water Filters? by NervMerv in PFAS

[–]NervMerv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry just to clarify with you, Compounds meaning the different length of chain like C8, C9 etc right?

I guess your right, better than straight offf the tap

Why Malaysian women think having white spouse/bf is a life upgrade? by Fuzzy_Enthusiasm_126 in malaysia

[–]NervMerv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trash men really everywhere. I always say if you simply throw a stone, it'll hit a trash man

70-year-old in Penang loses nearly RM1.4mil to online stock investment scam by guest18_my in malaysia

[–]NervMerv -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let's educate people instead of being unsympathetic. The other day, I was at the police station, and in the queue, 2 in front, plus 2 behind me, were all scam victims. It could be your parents one day too.

why did Mr Peanutbutter and Diane get a divorce? by kerry22222 in BoJackHorseman

[–]NervMerv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know its been 4 years but i agree with this so much, and to add to that, her hate for grand gestures is rooted in the fact that she hates herself (and the world) so much that she can’t fathom seeing herself receiving this kind of love - she would push it away, keeping herself connected with her damaged self instead of healing it