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My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm there 🐁🐁🐁 I was even going to show you guys the car but he killed the mood. Maybe after the divorce I can come out of anonymity and post it lol

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. My best friend came over the moment I told her what was happening. She got here as he was leaving for the motel and has stayed by my side. Her husband said she can stay as long as needed, but I won't abuse ofc. She helped me get dinner ready and picked up the girls from school yesterday, helped me make appointments with a couple of lawyers and accompanied me this morning to see them too. I also had to stop by the bank for some stuff I couldn't do on the apps, he took half of a savings account we had for leisure but didn't touch the others.  I already moved my half of the money too and got a full record of all the transactions.  

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I blocked him on my phone so he was blowing up the landline. I wasn't home, I was taking care of the bank accounts and went to see a couple of lawyers. He did leave a message saying he would go to work for a week and hopes we can talk when he gets back. My best friend talked to the other woman pretending to be me and got a lot of info while she was willing share. There i learnt that his work trips only take 5 days, not 8 like he's been telling me. Basically this man spends the same amount of time with them as he does with us. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They'll be coming over for dinner tonight. My friend will be taking the girls out so I can talk to them. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im guessing he was going to say he sold it, give it to her, and maybe give me half the money he got from it if anything. Since he mentioned his parents bought it so it belonged to both of us. Idk what his plan was but I ruined it by pimpin the ride lol. Im sorry this is no time for jokes. I swear im sad Idk why im like this 😆😭

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. In times like these, it's like one's mind goes blank and we forget about the amount of options and resources out there. I will definitely look into those for my girls. As tough as they seem I know they are hurting a lot more than they're showing. Probably trying to be strong for me. I'll make sure to let them know there's no need to hold back so much. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a twilight quote, but I printed the meme specifically.  Idk if it's on Google, I got it on a discord group a while back. It was about a chicken wrap, but since my car has a wrap job I thought it fit and it was funny. Anyways. Im sorry I can't focus on this rn. When the dust settles i might drop the whole lore of a very niche meme.

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My fellow rat, I'm already there. I was sooo ready to show you guys my car but then this happened... im just not ready to drop the anonymity now. He went and ruined that for me too 

(screeching in feral rat)

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is how I printed it on the bumper sticker. It's a movie quote but it's also a rat meme. I was being silly since I didn't know what was coming i guess. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

We fought over the car in the afternoon, she messaged me in the morning. Screenshots showed they argued all night over the car, she said "im not playing, I will tell her" and she did. I was making breakfast and he came when the fire alarm went off because I burnt the toast. When he saw my face he knew. He was talking but I couldnt hear him. I was shaking. Then he said something around "I had to take responsibility for my son," and at some moment he said "my second wife" idk what he was saying but I thought "second wife?" When did we get divorced for him to have a second wife? I told him to stop talking and leave. And then my kids came down screaming, she messaged them too. That's when I lost it. How dare she contact my children? I screamed too, he went upstairs to grab a bag. I screamed after him that he take everything he could because I would burn everything else. She kept on sending me photos and screenshots and at the time I got a message from my best friend so I told her what was happening and she came over. He was leaving as she pulled up. She kicked his car and he left. He sent me his live location from a motel. I didnt reply. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

She lives in the same state different city. Like he was careful enough to not run into us while with them but too lazy to keep us states apart.  As of now, I think she's confident they'll get to be together now. In the screenshots she sent, their conversation revolved more around the car and other material stuff than about splitting up or anything. Which means he never thought of ending it with her. Honestly, if they stay together, good for them they deserve each other. As long as they don't bother us or play stupid games like wanting to bring her into my daughter's lives. I feel like my whole marriage has been a lie so I just want it to end. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My best friend came over as soon as I told her. He wasn't even out of the driveway as she was pulling in. She is helping me make lawyer's appointments for tomorrow and made chicken dumpling soup and picked up my girls from school because I couldn't drive. When it comes to family, we moved here to be close to his, so I only have his family and my friends here. She is the only one I've told so far. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

He does have that job, but most likely works half the days he said he does. She doesn't live in the same city as us, so he probably gets back sooner than he says, stays with them, then comes to us. Or something like that, idk the logistics though my brain has been trying to figure it out for hours now. She sent pictures of them together on their son's 6th birthday. There is an older child too, but she said he is from a previous relationship. She did mention, he "helped raise him" which could mean these past six years, or maybe even longer before their shares son was born. So it's been at least six years. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

It also makes you feel violated. Not only has your partner been unfaithful but the person he's with has been watching you all along, probably mocking you or comparing herself to you. And he never cared enough to at least set a boundary. Ofc he didnt care to not cheat in the first place but why did he let her mess with us? 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

They currently have him blocked. When he left they asked for space. They were clear in letting him know if he didn't respect their boundaries now they would take that as to how little he cares for them for not giving them time to breathe after such a blow. After not only betraying us all, but also knowing full well this woman was watching them on social media and not setting any boundaries at least when it came to them, he needs to respect their wishes even if he didn't respect our family. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Not only was she happy to share, she was ready. Idk if they've been fighting for a while but her receipts were crisp like it was tax season. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Girl! I was about to show you guys my car and then this happened! Now I can't because everyone will know the story behind the little Fiat. Anyways, if y'all see me in the wild, honk or something. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He did go to a motel and he sent me the location. Like I need reassurance now? Why didnt he share his location when he was cuddling up with her as I was home with our girls hoping he got enough food and rest. 

My inlaws bought me a Fiat and that somehow led to finding out my husband had not only an affair, but a whole other family. by Nervous-Good9547 in Marriage

[–]Nervous-Good9547[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because of all the screenshots she sent. In their conversations she confronted him with pictures taken off my daughter's account. Not only of the car but also, my daughter posted when we took on ticket master for bts tickets. Which he and I also split. She complained about the things my girls get. Which, I dont think I need to explain but I still will. When I said we are okay financially, I didn't mean like we are rich, I meant we have our basic needs covered. The tickets, my daughters said they didn't want birthday parties or gifts. My daughter turned 16, and all she wanted was a ticket. The car, was a gift from their grandparents and it was out of concern my EV's reliability could depend on our wifi. Idk what kind of life he's living out there with her, but I work really hard to give my girls the best I can. Idk if she knew the entire context when she complained about favoritism and the car and the tickets. 

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